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Throw Back Thursday. (Shout Out Season!)

 I saw this on SDK and I was like errr, what's the general idea? But hey, it looked like fun, and besides I've got several shout outs I just must give. 


Shout out to all my blog readers, especially the none-silent ones.  

Shout out to the guys who loved and left me; you've given me something to write about. 

Shout out to the guys I loved and left; I'm sorry but sometimes it feels better to be the heartbreaker than the heartbroken. 

Shout out to those who made me promises and didn't keep them; you only brought me closer to my God. 

Shout out to the first person who ever commented on this blog. That was the first and last time she commented, but I still remember her name; Feyike. (I also still remember the way I felt. Someone actually commented on my blog. Someone actually commented on my blog. Someone actually commented on my blog. I was so psyched!!!)

Shout out to the person who told me not to bother with the blog; "Nigerians don't have time for this kind of thing", you said. Everyday I thank God I didn't listen to you. 

Shout out to my Mama! If reincarnation is real, everytime I come to the world I'll choose you again and again and again. 

Shout out to my bestie; just when I feel I'm no longer a part of your life you surprise me in a major way, like you did yesterday. Bless you!

Shout out to the naysayers; you make me even more determined to make it! 

Shout out to Mariam; who started following the blog and commenting when no one else was. Mariam; who singlehandedly made me decide to keep at it; "even if no one else is reading, at least Mariam is", is what I said to myself those days I almost couldn't give a sh#t. 

Shout out to Myne Whitman, for answering when I called. 

Shout out to those who paid back my good with bad; you remind me not to get too comfortable, because the world is filled with wolves. 

Shout out to the guy who wanted to assist the single mum on the blog but started making rotten demands from her; you also remind me that the world is filled with wolves. 

Shout out to everyone who has ever said a kind word to me, especially on the blog; may someone else show you kindness ten times more. 

Shout out to my entire family; I couldn't have asked for another. 

Shout out to my friends, especially my Queens College friends; as we grow older each year I continue to thank God for making our paths cross. 

And lastly, Shout Out to ME for being the sweetest, awesomest, amazingest, bestest, blessedest, strongest person in the world. I ROCK! 

Guys it's Throw-back Thursday. Let's hear your Shout Outs!


  1. Shout out to the people who heard me right now cos I literally just shouted...

    Shout out to Joel Osteen, his books are truly the best.

    Shout out to my brothers who make it a personal matter to see me laughing all the time (even when they know my chest wld hurt in the end)

    S/O to this blog and sdk,yes I love me some

  2. WOW! Just wow! So an idiotic imbecile was making demands from that single mom? I just puked on his future!!! Tufiakwa!

    In Other relate news!

    S.O to my Mom, I Love U forever & a day Mamie! I'll keep making U proud.

    S.O to my Only sis, U are the reason why I can't live a wayward life *role model figure*

    S.O to All the amazingly strong women whose stories I read on this blog, Uju, Ifesinachi & Ifunanya. Please keep being STRONG! It strengthens others, e.g Me.

    S.O to My Ex bfs & flings, U'all have given me the opportunity & hope of finding a Great Hubby & awesome dad for my kids. *None of U cows is the one that got away* LOL

    S.O to my 3 cute brothers, U'all are my yardstick for measuring a handsome & caring man.

    S.O to my Bestie Oluwabunmi for being the twin I wish I had.

    S.O to my Future Hubby, am Saving it ALL for U Papi & to my Unborn Kids, Mummy can't wait to hold u. Please come in twos!

    A special S.O to Thelma Nwando Nwogbo for being an extraordinary being, Oh Yes U Rock Sugar!!!

    S.O to everyone on this Blog for being inspiring, educating & a family.

  3. I Love you Thelma!Ur an epitome of beauty in n out...Somedays I jst wanna live in your world.Special shout out 2u n ur blog readers,its nice n cozy in here.E hugs n kisses Xoxo

    1. E hugs and kisses right back @ you, I just wish you didn't have to be anonymous. But thanks all the same. And thanks for all the love guys.

  4. Yaaayyy, finally Thelms agrees she's a strong woman. Girl, u rock totally.

  5. Shout out to those who made me EMPTY PROMISES,God pass una..

    Shout out to those who think I can't do without them,already doing so and loving it!!..

    Shout out to my ride or die friends who despite it all stood by me,God bless you guys richly..

    Shout out to my MOM who takes out time to pray and bless me,I promise to make you very proud and happy you had me(get ready for me this december mom! Lol)..

    Shout out to my kid bro who makes me know how proud he is to have me as a sis,love you much juny..

  6. Shout out to those idiots who tot dat dad's death would end my education, for ur infor u imps, I have gathered so much degrees now...unto PhD tinz....heard dat some of ur kids never got d admission.

    Shout out to a certain group of friends who tot I would amount to noting cus I wasn't playing 'major league' like dem. Babes 'major league does not pay o, u all look 20 years older than me....worn out skins....geez I sound mean...and d sweet tin is dat I care less.

    Shout out to my wonderful siblings.....the struggle wasn't easy, but today we give God the praise.

    Shout out to all my ex's, I thank u all very much o....cus when I see y'all now..i begin to wonder if I was partially blind...or is it age that's making u all look like warthogs?

    Shout out to my mum, u're d best.....God will continue to keep u in Jesus name, Amen.

    Shout out to my group of friends that I made after parting ways with my certain group of friends. U all are d best. God fearing, hard working women moving up their career ladders. God bless u all immensely.

    Shout out to one and only Thelma Nwando. Words fail me to let u know how much I appreciate all dat u do. I love ur blog so much. Even when I don't have much time to comment often, I just appreciate dat I have one or two things to learn from it daily.

    And shout to all who comment on this blog. God bless u all.

    1. God bless you too Ejoec. btw ur name is unusual. where are you from?

    2. Ah, dats not my real name o. I'm from d south south....Edo State.

  7. Shout out to you Thelma, your so awesome, was so happy you replied my mail, you actually gave me the strength to do the needful
    Shout out to my daddy! I may sound like a daddy's girl but I don't kurr, sometimes I feel like your the only one that understands me
    Shout out to my Amazing brothers, you guys make me so proud
    Shout out to the sister I never had, I wish I got to have you and experienced all those things that sisters usually experience together
    Shout out to the last person that broke my heart, you've made me more humble and aware and mindful of the feelings of others, you also reinforced my resolve to have my own and never depend on a man
    Shout out to all blog readers, you guys are so insightful and thorough
    Shout out to my doggies, o yes I miss k.c and tom and jerry and spike, I look at your pictures and always think of home
    Shout out to me, for being strong, happy and optimistic. I just thank you lord


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  9. All this love for Thelma. I want to be loved too. its not fair o!

    1. Oh! Whoever you are. You are loved!
      Shout out to all the wrong decisions I have made in my life. I am stronger, better and wiser.
      Shout out to my only brother, the most intelligent, inspiring, tall, skinny, award-winning, non-geekish Physicist. Your future is so bright, you can't even believe it.
      Shout out to my parents, the only people that have made me cry, really cry. Those guys have been having marital issues for years. But guess what? They are still together, trying to fix it everyday, especially my dad. God bless his kind heart.
      Shout out to my uncle, he took care of all of us as babies and even grown ups. He is the strongest, homeliest, down-to-earth man I know. And he can cook ehnn. God will use me to bless your life.
      Shout to my elder sister, a single mother. The way she loves her son makes me hungry for mine.
      Shout to Chijioke, the only person I think of when I think of heartbreak. Baby, you are karma. The pain I felt taught me to treat others nicely. Before you I felt I could play with people. Thanks for teaching me to LOVE.
      Shout out to the guys that took advantage of me (am still in denial, can't use a certain word). I didn't know how strong I was till you came along.
      Shout to Thelma for making me shout out. And for this beautiful blog.
      Shout out to Ruthy, you are so sweet and I hope someday I get to be part of the people you will really shout out to in a good way.
      Shout out to Chimamanda for accepting me to participate in her creative writing workshop.
      Yes! Am attending Farafina Trust creative writing workshop *dancing* I was among the 26 selected participants. Who wants to come visit me in Lekki?

    2. Meee, I will like to come visit u when am in bak in lag finally.

    3. Ifesinachi have u given T ur contacts to forward to me? *angry face*
      Make I no break ur hands oh, cos then no more writting oh *dragging my ear*

  10. Shout out to my kids for being the biggest blessing in my life.

  11. OK here goes:

    S/O to my mum, I love you to the moon and back,words can't convey the depth of my feelings for you.

    S/O to my uncle for loving me so much despite not being related by blood, am able to be my real self because of the freedom you have given me to be myself as far back as I can remember.As I told you once, your life inspires me to be the best I can be with the way you live life so selflessly, you always find a way to invest in the lives of others.Of a truth, the best investments is investing in the lives of Others.

    S/O to my Thelma blog readers, I have reasons to continually visit this blog cuz all your comments comes from a depth of wisdom, am amazed at just how much I have learnt.

    S/O to me, I luff me,my sunny smile, the way it literally shines from within.

    S/O to God Almighty for being such a gracious God, for creating such an Ah-may-zeen being like moi,lols.

  12. Haters? What are those? a name of a person, animal, place or thing hehe
    S/O to my lover, my best friend, my Jesus, you keep showing yourself in my life daily
    S/O to my husband A, you are an angel sent to earth to refine me, spoil me, love me in spite of all my imperfections, I keep saying I can never be a tenth of who you are
    S/O to you for being the man my dad never was, S/O to you for being the most amazing dad, how can someone be so perfect?
    S/O to my kiddies for being so well behaved and top in school, whatever did I do to deserve you all?
    S/O to God for bringing my family together again after almost a decade of discord, even though it had to take a death to do that, it did so beautifully.
    S/O to Thelma you're such a beautiful person in and out
    S/O to all the TTBers , Im amazed at the wisdom on this blog, I wake up every morning and i literally ave to fight picking my phone to come on the blog.
    S/O to memphis, wale and steele, why have thou men decided to run? no presence for days now, kilode?
    S/O to BH, thank you for revealing the intense hate some muslims have for christians, now I know to dine with una with a very long spoon.
    S/O to my MD for having so much faith in me and trusting me with this region, sir double twale for you.
    S/O to me for remaining so grounded even as things don change, walahi Jesus dey do wonders for my life.


  13. I can't thank you enough for all that you have done for me. About a year ago I my partner split up, we had both made BIG mistakes in our relationship. He ended up moving away from me to pursue a new life. I knew in my heart that he would be the only one to make me happy. I was relieved when I found your email on a site about what you have done. I requested 1 to 2 day casting of the reunite us love spell and within 4days mark company had relocated him back to our hometown where I still lived. We immediately reconnected and move in with each other. Our wedding date is set for (OCT 2013) Expect to see your invite in the mail thanks to

  14. Shout out to my Mum She's the best, To my Siblings, To all blog readers, To Thelma for this amazing blog,Plenty Thanks.
    To Ruth,Memphis,Wale,Steele for comments that made absolute sense and made me laugh
    To F for being the strong, amazing woman you are.
    To the haters for not knowing how to either hide their jealousy or arrange their thought well
    And to me for deciding to be unanonymous

    1. Thanks for the mention

  15. A special shout out to God almighty,thank you for being there for me,I will never be ungrateful to you lord.
    Shout out to my mum,whenever I count my blessings,I count you uncountable times,not even the best of thieves could steal the love I have for you mum.may you live long in good health and wealth.
    Shoutout to my wombmates,you guys remain a big Source of inspiration to me,am not just lucky to have you,am blessed!
    Shoutout to you olubukola me,I bless the day I met you,you are the real definition of a best friend,I love you endlessly.
    Shout out to you thelma,thank you for this beautiful shoutout,thankYou for appreciating me,words fail me to describe how happy and loved I feel.remain being strong maam,it will only get better.I love u much.
    Shout out to my fellow blog family;steele,enjay,ifesinachi,ruby,memphis,eniola,ruthy,subomi,wale etc,I can't wait to see you guys in person,thanks for educating me on one or two things about life.u ROCK.
    Shout out to you olusola mi,you remain special and priceless that I love you.
    And finally a beautiful shout out to happy am me.no1 else can fit in my shoe,am the best of my kind,one in a million,special beyond words,I just love me..

  16. Shout out to my late dad, may your soul continue to rest in perfect peace. shout out to all Thelma's' blog readers, u guys give me a reason to come to work everyday. shout out to Nwando herself, God bless u for u and this blog. shout out to my family, I luv them to the moon and back. Shout out to Mother Mary, I know she is interceding on my behalf to get a new job. Lastly, shout out to my friends, you all have been a positive impact in my life. Nagode!

  17. Am I d only one who jumps up whenever her name is mentioned in a comment?@Salam a hundred kisses.

    Ruthy il do dat Asap.

    And who recommended Shayla Black's books to me? Ziggy I guess. I tortured myself with one, titled "Delicious". So damn erotic, I was almost crying for my swollen "something". It's a no no 4 celibate people o!

    1. Hehehehehe! I remember that.... Now u see y I think 50shades is overrated

  18. Shout out to Baba God; Times and times again I fail and fall yet You stay faithful and love me more each day
    Shout out to my mom; Oli as we call her... my definition of strength and christianity. U didn't av it good but for us, U took it all in stride and while U'v started to knw relief, I promise to make U an envy of many soonest!!!
    Shout out to my siblings; we'r non alike in anyway, yet our differences we'v never felt. I love U all mindlessly
    Shout out to my bestie and her fam; for being there during d darkest hours and the so many laughters, I cudnt ask for a better surrogate family and soundboard.
    Shout out to d son I only had for 4 hours; am sorry, for all its worth... U would av been 6 now and doe everyone said it wasn't my fault, I still wonder if there was something I should or shouldn't have done. Am sorry!
    Shout all to my paternal family; Uv thot me that polygamy no matter how shiny d surface is no way to live. And thanks to You, I learnt early to do for me and depend on no one for my happiness or welfare.
    Shout out to friends true and pure; I hear am not so easy to like, yet Uv all loved me and giving me memories to last forever, thank you for seeing beyond d defence!
    Shout out to all osu imi(two faced) friends; wt d face value bullshit am coming to tolerate, av decided to not hold grudges as absolutely no one is worth going to hell for. So thank you for d opportunity to learn to overcome hate
    Shout out to my Alpha boo; my lil nephew bubu named after mua *proud*... d cutest boy in the world and light of my life. Didn't know such love could spring up for just one small person and I knw that U'll always b my fav boy no matter how many others I av later!
    Shout out to everyone I know, have known and still will know; there's always a reason though Mayb known to d Almighty alone. Whatever ur roles, I dnt and won't regret it. It can only make me a happier, stronger and well adjusted person.
    Shout out to TTB; U'r a blessing and a rare find thelma, never U forget that. To ruthy, U kinda changed my perception of d Jehovah witness folks(guess I just assumed dey were staid n boring pple), my bad. U'r a wonderful person n i like U much. To F(I envy and respect ur strength, wish more women would take d cue), HSF (am tapping into ur blessing i.e ur hubby), Ifunanya who am still awaiting her gist, Memphis and wale who both give me hope, that good sensible men are still in existence, the many anons that in their own ways add spice to this blog and every other reader(commenting or silent), am glad I found this blog and you all have contributed to dat feeling. Thank you!
    Finally to me; Am not as strong as I pretend to be, and while my defenses may av cost me good people, I know am a winner and will look back someday and wonder wat d fuss was all about. Am a treasure, a blessing and yes a woman of great exploits. I am the Glory of God!

    1. Thank you Buby....

    2. Thank U so much Buby *wipes tears* Love U plenty. Awesome thing to say.

  19. * A very special shout out to the ONE who never allow me destroy myself with my excesses; for always cleaning my mess and giving me a clean bill; the ONE who always prove HIMSELF faithful and true. God, YOU are awesome.
    * A special Shout out to my mother, for her resilience, her sacrifices, her love, her admonition.
    * Special Shout out also to my children who never stop reminding me my sacrifices were not in vain; for always making me proud and the envy of people.
    * Shout out to my eldest brother who never stops reminding me of how strong, amazing and intelligent I am
    * Shout out to the few female friends I have and to the males who always give me 'insider views'
    * Shout out to all the men who found me, lost me and grieved afterwards
    * Shout out to the ThelmaThinks family for your love and warmth and to Thelma for providing this platform
    * Do I have haters? Shout out to them wherever they might be because I have not taken notice of their existence

  20. Shoutout to BABA GOD...I no longer dream now, because of Him, my dreams have now become reality and I am living my dreams...GOD YOU are awesome!

    Shoutout to the exes...the last ex in particular, big shoutout to ur potbellied desperate self! u taught me never to settle for less again and never to let any man humiliate me again. Now when I c u, I shiver and thankGOD that I never married u, u would probably have beaten me to death and I am sooooo glad u ran back to ur ex, u guys deserve each other.

    Shoutout to my folks....they are the best and I couldnt have asked for better. No pressure whatsoever.

    Shoutout to my very fewwwww friends, awesome lot! I truly am blessed.

    Shoutout to the bestest siblings ever and the most amazing sister-in-law in the whole wide world...

    Shoutout to my boss....the strongest most inspiring woman I know...wanna be like her when I grow up....

    Shoutout to Thelmaaaaaaaaaaa, u make me laugh a lot. I think ure just unique and weird (in a good way) at the same Thanks for this blog, u r strong....and I pray God gives u ur heart's desires..

    Shoutout to the blog readers, u guys r just a crazy bunch...

    Shoutout to meeeeee.....I'm gonna be 2* in a few days...not close to 30 yet but I can already c things falling into place ALL thanks to God.

    OKayBye. I am done.

  21. Ok where do I start, I guess I'll just start from sumwhere. Shoutout to the one who made me know that I'm a winner, that picked me up when I fell nd is dere for me. Lord u r awesome.
    Shout out to my mum, I love you evn if I dnt admit it. I know we fight a lot but I'm workn on it.
    Shout out to my dad whom I luk after so much in xter, might nt lyk al what u do, bt I do love you.
    Shout out to my beautiful sis who introduced me to dis blog nd to my younger broda who is always bored nd wants me to stop browsing nd play wt him. I love u both.
    To my friends, you are awesome pple I love you.
    To my subgroup in d fellowship, cldnt av asked for a better one, you r d best.
    To my fellowship, RCF OAU u r indeed a family.
    To my classmates whom we fight, laugh nd spend aa lot of tym together I love you its a pity dat by dis tym nxt year we wld v parted ways. I'm sure our fyb tins wld rock.
    To d blog readers, dis place is a family to me, I love u guys, I'm always suprised at d sincerity of each person. Thelma thanks for creatn dis blog. I guess dis is my shoutout friday. Tommorrow is my bday, I'm happy.

  22. Happy Birthday in advance to you Hibek!

    Shout out to you Thelma, for the opportunity to post on the TTRWT, the boost it gave to my confidence was great. And all you awesome blog readers, you all are amazing, thanks for sharing your stories and helping us all get stronger.. This is one great family.

    shout out to family, friends, thank you guys for the love

    shout out to mum, i know we fight everyday but i love you i'm grateful and i hope to be a strong woman just like you

    shout out to my amazing precious, keep making mama proud

    shout out to all single mums, it's a tough journey, may God continue to be our strength. F, when i read your story and i saw CHILDREN, i took a minute to clap for you, you are awesome.

    shout out to God, He always does it

  23. shout out to blog owner and everyone on this blog you guys rock, despite my busy schedule and lack of sleep, my day is never complete without a visit here. Nwando b like say u don jazz me TH-jazzy.

    Shout out to my hubby my snugglybear even when I feel like I'm caving under ur always there to lift me up and u do it so effortlessly I love u too much.

    Shout out to my mum ur simply amazing, if I was given the opportunity to choose, I couldn't have chosen better thank God I located your womb.

    Shout out to my sis I used to think she was fragile and needed to be protected but recent events has erased that tot. God will perfect all that concerns u J just keep being strong for us.

    Finally, shout out to my boo who was a month old 2days back you have shown me a whole new meaning of loving unconditionally, even when I feel like giving you away when u decide to cry incessantly for no apparent reason and also the fact that I don't know what it feels like to sleep for 2hrs str8 I won't have you any other way. I still can't believe ur actually mine, my miracle, a gift I unwrap daily ur cries is music to my ears nwa nto'm.

    Shout out to my Amazing Father in heaven, my personal person the One that never fails me.

  24. A huge shout out to God for my life.
    For good health
    For amazing siblings
    To my kid brother who never ceases to remind me that he is proud to belong in my world
    To my exes, - I am not sorry
    To my most recent ex of 3 days ago, I hope we both find joy.
    To my friends who understand my person and don't judge me, I heart you girls
    To my dad, I want a husband like you.
    To my mum, I want to be closer to my kids and try to understand them before jumping into conclusions to judge them.
    To my boss, thank you for the many opportunities you've given me, even though you sometimes make me wanna scream ''I QUIT!'' and sometimes make me cry, like I just did minutes ago.
    To my nephews, I love how you've taught me how to love magically.
    To them haters - I've got no words for you as I have refused to come to terms with your existence
    To you Thelma, thank you for being such an inspiration. You motivated me to start my own blog with the way you put your words into writing and how you have been able to attract your own blog visitors of selectively matured minds. I'm proud to be a part of this family.
    To the other TTfam, if not you who would it be? I love you guys Thanks for the SO Salam Abiola.
    To me, I just can't love me less!

  25. Shout out to my family, i love u to the moon and back
    Shout out to my adorable son, thank you for loving me unconditionally, it takes away all my worries, i love you so much and i miss you everyday.
    Shout out to the CEO of this blog and all the blog readers, you guys are the friends i dont have in real life.
    Shout out to my employer, thanks for giving me the opportunity to be able to afford the lifestyle i have.

  26. HOW I GOT MY HUSBAND BACK!!! i want to say a very big thanks and appreciation to Prophet Ekpiku for bringing back my husband who left i and the kids for almost two months. i am very much grateful to Prophet Ekpiku. I pray God almighty give you the strength and wisdom to help more people having similar problem like mine. for help you can reach him on his email


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And for the rest of us, what's something about you that no one knows, or very few people know? Who's got a dark secret here, or a weird one, or a funny one even? I really don't mean to be invasive but I don't want to be the only one sharing, plus I think hearing other people's secrets is quite fun, don't you think?

Let's Be Random Together! (Open Keypad).

Hey guys, a while back blog reader F said something about creating an Open Keypad post, where you can write whatever you want in the comment section. I thought it was a fun idea!
So who is interested? Comment on anything you feel like, ask me or anyone a question, talk about how your day went, your job, your interests, tell us something about you that we don't know, share a testimony with us, rant about anything you feel like, talk about your crush/boo/spouse/relationship/marriage, challenges you're facing, ANYTHING AT ALL! 
I'll only make one request; that we stay civil. 

(F it was you who made this suggestion, right? I'm not too sure and I can't even remember the post the comment was made on). 
BTW please Ejoeccome out come out, wherever you are!

Adventures, Fun, Friendship & Laughter at the TTB Hangout (Lekki Conservation Center).

Nicole to Clare: mummy lets go. I want to climb that ropy thing!

Isn't Clare beautiful?!

Uyi et moi. Clowning. 

Mother & child. 

Scary af! Trish on the ramp. The chica loves the outdoors so much, she was like a kid in a candy store. She and Uyi took this walk twice! More power to them, you can't pay me to do this a second time.

Uyi & Tiwa

Question of The Day.

TTB readers doesn't this tweet below remind you of something?
That mail that someone sent me a few weeks back. 
But why on earth should a man sleep with his son's fiancé? But what am I saying, some men even sleep with their daughters...

Oh well, I'm throwing the question to you. What has happened in your life that you never saw coming, you never hesperred it, you never imagined could happen, you never imagined could happen to you? 
It could be good, it could be bad, it could be ugly. Do tell!
And it can be more than one. Let me tell you a few. 
-owning a blog -week long dry fast at Prayer City (I never hesperred it).  -staying in an (emotionally) abusive relationship.
The others require anonymity. LOL. Now over to you.