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Tweet Of The Day ( Jamil Abubakar's Warning To The Ladies)







She who has ears..

You know some days back I was watching one of these old Nollywood movies on Africa Magic starring Geneveive Nnaji, Omotola Jalade Ekeinde, Stella Damasus and Desmond Elliot. In the movie Genevieve thought it would be a brilliant idea to play a game and test her boyfriend's (Desmond) faithfulness, so she let her friend Omotola go and seduce him and as expected he fell in love with her. I think Desmond and Omotola ended up together. 

That was a movie but like most Nollywood movies they're based on reality. A few years back my friend *Tolu did this same thing; sent her friend *Wande to go test her boo because she was so sure of his faithfulness and was confident he would never cheat. After a few weeks flirtation her boo started falling hard for Wande and began to neglect their relationship, he stopped calling her often and instead started calling Wande and trying to start something with her. Fortunately for Tolu, Wande was decent enough to cut him off completely and leave him to focus on his relationship. Tolu learnt her lesson and never pulled that kind of stunt again. She never mentioned anything to le boo and just continued with her relationship like nothing had happened. 

Has this sort of thing ever happened to you?



Tweet/Photo; Laila's blog.


Comments

  1. you know that part of the Lord's prayer that said "lead us not into temptation"? Well God in his infinite wisdom understands the vulnerability of man to fall in times of temptation, that is why that prayer keeps you away. So why should a girlfriend knowingly lead his man into temptation and vice versa. Na only you go waka go o. lol

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  2. Any girl that does this deserves to be cheated on. It's the height of insecurity. Please why do women like to play such silly games?

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  3. But the things men get away with though. If it was Tolu that failed the test, sure she won't hear the last of it. So please women don't tempt your man, because men are animals dat can't control their insatiable sexual appetite. It's on you if your man cheats. You aren't 4king him well or cooking 4 him well or being submissive enough. When will men start taking responsibility for their 'dogness'? Tolu was wrong but her 'boo' is just a dog.

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  4. I've also heard of scenarios where the man tests his GF too. She fell so hard,it hurt me sef. And the man broke up with her while the friend laughed and took his bet winnings.
    Pls remind me who the weaker vessel is again...

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  5. I typed up an epistle for this post, a personal experience but it disappeared, no strength again for now mbok!!!

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  6. I'm so tired of people typing epistles and it keeps disappearing. And unfortunately I cannot do anything about if. Maybe we should try breaking our epistles into different comments so that we don't type a very lengthy one only to have it disappear after all the stress. Just use a name or something so that we can know it's a sequel to a previous comment.
    Sorry dear, maybe you can try again later when you're not so tired?

    Sasha the minute we come to realize that the rules are different for men and women the better for us. Standards are and will always be different, very unfair but it's just the reality of things. As you can see, religion, tradition, life in general favours the male sex more. Women need to apply wisdom in picking their battles otherwise you'll find yourself constantly feeling aggrieved and cheated.

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    1. On the disappearing epistle, I think if you copy your epistle before you post it might help. So if it disappears you just paste and try again.

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  7. Sorry about it Thelma, it happens, I'm naturally very lazy in typing comments but I will summarize, so here goes:

    My very dear friend wanted me to be sleeping with her husband, she was pregnant at the time and would prefer a "loyal" friend to any other random chic, she even told her husband and they agreed, so, she stylishly hinted me and I rebuked her seriously.

    I was so shocked she even thought about it and about me,abi is it because I wasn't in a relationship then? And even if I were that foolish to agree to such a plan, did she stop to think of the implications or did she think because I was a "friend" I would let her dictate the pace of the relationship or when it starts and ends? And the husband sef for agreeing to such a weird plan...hmmm..i have no words.

    Anyway I kept my distance, since she thought it was ok to share her husband I wonder what else she would have wanted us to share, and I really did love her ooo but oh well...
    L.

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    1. Now that's the height of disrespect!

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    2. Fainted, woke up and faints again!

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    3. Mehn!!!!!! Am DIEDED!!!! What????

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    4. I wish i could say this shocked me, but the truth is i have heard of this scenario before...more than once! Its amazing the kinda thots that crop up in the minds of humans.

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  8. ...and this is the summary? Oh well *shrugs*
    L.

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  9. Pls forgive the errors, thanks
    L.

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  10. Sorry about it Thelma, it happens, I'm naturally very lazy in typing comments but I will summarize, so here goes:

    My very dear friend wanted me to be sleeping with her husband, she was pregnant at the time and would prefer a "loyal" friend to any other random chic, she even told her husband and they agreed, so, she stylishly hinted me and I rebuked her seriously.

    I was so shocked she even thought about it and about me,abi is it because I wasn't in a relationship then? And even if I were that foolish to agree to such a plan, did she stop to think of the implications or did she think because I was a "friend" I would let her dictate the pace of the relationship or when it starts and ends? And the husband sef for agreeing to such a weird plan...hmmm..i have no words.

    Anyway I kept my distance, since she thought it was ok to share her husband I wonder what else she would have wanted us to share, and I really did love her ooo but oh well...
    L.

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  11. @thelms,you will find yourself. Constantly feeling aggrieved, cheated. And ALONE

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  12. Who has seen singles and married? Nadia sillingly* set her hubby whom she had sex starved for months with a friend up and had the guts to rant when he fell. Girls sef, we can overdo!

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  13. I have a friend who was dared by his gf that he couldn't sleep with her best friend, and they agreed that if he succeeded she wouldn't hold it against him. She was so sure that the best friend could be trusted and wouldn't Crack.
    Long story short, he's married to the best friend now and that's how the best friendship ended

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