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21 Women On The Moves They Love Most In Bed

+18. SL

I just love it when I get answers to questions I didn't have before. So here's what happened. *John mailed me a while back to ask some things that would have otherwise been offensive had it not been that his delivery was very polite and actually kinda cute. We chatted for a bit and I told him I could only speak for myself and not the entire female race, and as I didn't think it was appropriate to share my personal preferences with him I stayed mute. However trust Thought Catalogue to always help out at times like this. To the mailer and anyone else who's interested all I can say is this; what made Amaka squeal with delight might make Funke punch you in the face. Just saying...

1. Jana, 27
I love when guys are really forward about what they want, and then let me reject it, instead of just assuming I’m really conservative or prude or whatever. Nine times out of ten, I’m into it, as long as the sex is hot.

2. Sarah, 23
Directing my head during a blowjob. A lot. I want his hand all knotted up in my hair, pushing me up and down on his dick.

3. Natalie, 30
Lots of compliments in bed. That is the secret to getting her to try anything. I once had a guy that would kiss my clit gently during oral and tell me I had “such a pretty pussy.” He could do anything he wanted.

4. Julia, 22
Measured use of fingers during oral is very underrated.

5. Margo, 29
I love when they come on things. If I’m into the guy and the sex, I love when they come on me — my boobs, stomach, back, whatever. It’s all good.

6. Kylie, 29
A finger in my butt during sex. Don’t knock it til you’ve tried it.

7. Alison, 24
One time I lay down on the bed with my head hanging off the edge, and the guy fucked my face. I’d love to do that again.

8. Olivia, 21
Put on a good song with lots of bass and fuck me to the beat.

9. Gabi, 28
I feel like the guys who want to do anal are never the ones you want to do it with, but with the right guy in the right circumstances, it can be great. Guys should be smart about it, I wish more would work their way up and do it the right way, and not just try to slip it in. A guy who knows his way around an ass is a keeper.

10. Lily, 31
Bite me, hard enough to leave marks. I love being scratched, bitten, choked — all in the context of really good, hot sex, of course. But I love a little bit of pain.

11. Naomi, 25
Say the nastiest shit to me possible in bed. I am very, very into degrading and super-dirty talk in bed. The hottest sex talk is always the kind that makes you both extremely turned on and embarrassed when you think about it the next day.

12. Elia, 23
I love when a guy comes inside me a whole lot right before we go out and its dripping down my thighs all night, and he knows it. Games like that are very, very hot. (Bia this girl, don't you know you should wash up afterwards? Eeeeeww!)

13. Heather, 26
Tell me what to do in bed. Don’t worry about what I will think, just tell me. Don’t ask, order. Let me obey you.

14. Jessie, 28
The best oral always starts with lots of light little kissing and teasing all over, from the inner thighs to the clit. It should take a long way to build itself up, otherwise the girl will get numb really quick and won’t actually feel what you’re doing.

15. Bea, 30
I love when guys tell me how hard they are, how much they’re thinking of me. I love feeling wanted, it turns me into a total slut.

16. Lacey, 27
This is going to sound so corny but I really love when a guy tells me how much he loves me in bed, and how much he wants to be with me, how much he needs me, etc. Once my boyfriend told me he couldn’t wait to spend his life with me while we were having sex and I thought my vagina would fall off from the hotness of it all.

17. Chloe, 22
Lick your fingers after you finger me. It’s so hot.

18. Viv, 25
Once a guy told me that he hated me, but that he couldn’t stop fucking me because it was too good. We were in the process of a (very drawn-out, because of the good sex) breakup. I have never wanted someone as much as I wanted him in that moment.

19. Fay, 25
I love when a guy is fucking me and makes me watch it. I love it, but I’m always to embarrassed to look by myself. Once a guy told me he wanted me to stare at it until he came. So hot.

20. Diana, 29
Kiss me really deeply during orgasm. Really deeply, like you want to swallow me whole.

21. Jordan, 28
When my boyfriend and I are really into it, he will look at me and not break eye contact, and have this deeply pleasured, almost pained look in his face. He’ll say “don’t fucking look away from me” and pull my face back towards him if I try to break his stare. It’s like catnip, I love it. 

Compiled by Sophie Martin. 
Any other pointers?


  1. what made Amaka squeal with delight might make Funke punch you in the face. Lol. Thelma! But you're right. Some of these things will definitely get you punched in the face.

  2. Put on a good song with lots of bass and fuqq me 2 it...I can relate with that! It's called gangster love. Who remembers the song T.pain Ft Rickross titled "rap song" here?
    Now dt's d kinda song u shld fuqq to hehehe

    Or some slow RnB songs like Bed by J Holiday whn yall wanna take it slow

    *lips sealed and watching*

    1. Damn girl (or r u a guy?)
      Yh,the right kind of music (gangstar,soul or soft rock) shld do the

  3. Please is it bad that my favorite position is missionary? What are all these people talking about?

    1. I think u shld get a Kamasutra colouring book and practice coloring...*winks*

  4. Marking register, hi *waves hands

  5. 7,8,12
    Like ceriously ? Fuck u to the tune of the bass! All this white girls sef which one is fuck u on the face ?

    1. Same thing as blow job but very rough as if it's the pussy he's fucking.

    2. I'm ROTFLMSAO!!! Mariam help me ask oh!
      Won't her mouth tear? What about her throat? Her teeth gagging on his D nko?
      Biko Sex is NOT mortal kombat. No need for brutality & fatality.. warrapin?
      The girl that want bites & scratches should try a dog! #LongHiss

      DFH, We can make love, get kinky, but the day u make me land in an emergency ward is the day i'll castrate U!
      No nonsensical rubbish!

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    4. LMFAO. Ruthylicious you have killed me with laugh this night.

    5. @ruthy...Lol,sex isn't mortal kombat. U dis geh ehn.

  6. Replies
    1. Memphis close your eyes, this is not for you. I feel like you were once an alter boy. Lol.

    2. T. Thanks ifesinachi...and momoh...appreciate your concerns jare...I would be fine with time...for now I would just be on chilling....that naughty house wife

    3. This anon sef without a name ...u r welcome tho!

  7. Why are ladies not giving any pointers?

    1. I wonder ooooo.
      Let me give one. No means no. If I say I don't want to go down plz don't push my head down. Biggest turn off.

  8. Wahala dey sha. Anyways i had one of d best sex so far today.i have been avoding dis boo for close to three weeks nw cuz i wanted to end things wit dis funny & jovial b/w mid forties sugar d guy played smart on me by asking me on whatsapp to bring my cv, d next thing music changed frm reggae to blues.

  9. well I do like soft kisses on my neck, front and back torso.. and my nipples sucked hard.. till it hurts a little bit and turns red after coitus. whenever I'm on top, I do like my butt cheeks being held and spread out Ha!! okay, I think I've said enough.

    1. Abeg u av tried jawe, sharp girl...u r kinda bold, oda babes would av been anonymous

    2. lol but i'm still you know meme B ?

    3. Lol. Good question. But at least when you comment we know it's Memebaby commenting even though we don't know who you are.

  10. Spank me on the butts whiles having a Doggie..

  11. The mistake I made was eating while reading this...haba number 12 though?? Tufiakwa!

  12. Ruth you got me laughing so hard @ mortal combat. These white girls though. 12 kwa!

  13. A kiss or lick on the neck while dogging from behind. Something about an act that soft while being in control revs the blood. Or dirty talk (dirty not nasty guys)

  14. hahahahahahahahhahaha. Even though it's my first time here, i can't help but laugh. Ruth you must be a handful. Thelma please welcome me here. i've been going through older posts all day because my Boss is not in town. yippeeeeee. i'm addicted already because there's so much to learn not some other blogs with excessive gossip and nothing to really learn from. Keep up the good work. Cheers


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