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Are Abuja Girls Really That Bad?





Before you lynch me, I'm not generalizing. But I won't be the first if I am. I've heard all sorts of things, some, from people who told me not to move to Abuja when I wanted to a few years ago...because I will not find a husband...because men don't marry Abuja girls...because Abuja girls are all prostitutes. 

And then I've actually asked a few guys who live there; what's this thing about Abuja girls? 
      Basically what most of them say is that girls (and by girls you know I don't mean 'girls' literally right?) in Abuja would do anything for money. 
      They say they're willing to sleep with anyone, and will go to any lengths to get this 'anyone'. 
      They question how else a girl can afford to pay the house rent in Abuja on her own without any assistance from a sugar daddy. 
      They say the baffling thing is that most Abuja girls live in apartments where they pay rent of over 800k, they drive nice cars and live very comfortably, yet most of them do not have jobs or any apparent businesses. So how else do they fund these lifestyles, they question. 
     They say it's where all the politicians are which makes it very easy. 
     They say all the hustlers aka runs girls in Nigeria that want to hit it big all converge in the FCT and never leave. 
     
They agree that there are those with wealthy parents but say "those ones are different, when you see them you'll know". 

They also agree that not everyone single lady in Abuja lives that way but they argue that the 'clean' ones are extremely few. 

So when Ladun Liadi posted these 5 disgusting things Abuja chics do for money (according to City People) and most of the people in the comment section were in agreement, of course I wondered Are Abuja Girls Really That Bad? 
According to City People: 


Do you know that quite a lot of babes who live in Abuja do not have any correct job that they do. Do you also know that very few of them have shops or any tangible work place they can point to as office, yes they live big and they drive flashy and exotic cars, live in very expensive apartments, dress to kill, buy expensive things and travel abroad for holidays. These are the five things they do for money. 

1) Sleeping With Dogs;
This debasing acts are mostly put together to form a part of the pornography business worldwide and the ladies involved are mostly paid in dollars.
The men mostly ask them to sleep with dogs while they record it with a camera.

2) Buying Mobile Numbers Of Top Celebrities;
Some of them go as far as buying mobile numbers of top celebrities and politicians from their friends and some family members for as high as N50,000 just to have a close contact with them. After achieving their aim, they tell the politician they have once met and he personally gave them his private line. Some of these men have believed them and have falling prey afterwards.

3) Dating White Guys
They purposely go around hanging out at places were rich white guys hang around just to meet them.

4) Giving Birth and selling their babies for money

5) Hanging out around high brow hotels.


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I really don't care about the others. But #2! Buying phone numbers? The struggle is very real. 
     I'm not sure if I believe #1 and #4 but I believe #2 because when I was in my second year I know someone who paid another student for the phone number of a then South South Governor. 
    When she called him she told him they met on a plane and he gave her his number. Of course these men meet so many people that they tend not to remember everyone they meet. He asked her to come over. She spent a weekend and returned with 250k and a stern warning not to return because (according to her) from the minute he saw her he knew they'd never met but didn't ask her to leave because she had come a long way. 

So I believe #2. Back to the matter; are the ladies in the FCT as terrible as they make them out to be?

Comments

  1. Kai na wa o. Well I lived in Abuja once so I can tell you that some of those things written above are true......but they use to say same things about Lagos girls sha. The prostitution in Lagos is worse o, I still get shocked when I go out at night.

    The sad thing about Abuja is the fact that money is thrown around so freely that even the "good girls" are tempted to live that kind of life. I have a friend that is Hausa , very riccccch who fell for a runs girl. The guy gives her everything but this girl could not stop her runs, Easy money.

    There are also girls that work hard to make a living there and guys have a way of finding those girls when it comes to marriage. Oh and the runs girls do lotssss of Jazzzzz I heard.

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  2. Anon 10:38, plz where is the money thrown around? Make I go pick. Abj is over rated IMO"
    There are ladies who still work hard for there money.

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  3. hmmm been in abj for 10yrs now!! wow ..i had to really think thru b4 writing..and it is really 10yrs, since 2004..schooled here too. anyways.. a bit of what u said is true..i dnt knw abt selling babies though..bt when it comes to runs, abj is def d HQ.lol.. well im happily married wit a beautiful dota..*wink*

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  4. Ntin is impossible in dis world..everybody wants 2 belong..m so nt suprised

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  5. I think Abuja is overrated, am yet to see this money being thrown around and to think i work at National assembly and i dnt see any tips, anyway i think thr is a click dt controls this runs things cos all these politicians here cant dash u 1 kobo, infact they even owe people n refuse to pay, anyone dat has plans to move to abuja to make runs money is jonsing big time, cos u ll be sooo disappointed. And as for d husband thing, they say its worse in Lagos, most guys in Lagos r fake n keep many girlfriends, one ll meet her spouse whr God plans.

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  6. Wow I was in Abuja for a month and I'm planning on moving back next year for law school, one thing noticed is the extravagant dressing just to go to the mall, every thing seems to be normal to them. I met a guy during my lunch break from work and I was accompanied by a colleague , we ended up hanging out with him that day and the day after because it was his birthday, well he said it was. This dude has such a sweet tongue , talked about anything and everything mentioned figures like it was nothing talked about what he owned and his celebrity connections and the girl was feeling it and was getting excited, he promised to buy her an i-phone 5s for her birthday and travelling together.
    I wasnt having any of it but hey every girl wants free stuff , so i just smiled through it , tlll he tried to sleep with me and when i refused he called me a child and left me to leave the house in the dark. if you live in Abuja you will know how bad the untied road is in Mabushi, I had to walk 10 mins in the dark to get to the main road since I didnt bring the car. I told her what happened the next day and all she cared about was the phone and the connections she was going to get from him so I gave her his contact and she has been the guy ever since. I've has a few offers to sleep with dudes who promised to do what ever and they all seem to the drop the ' you are not from around here line, i dont trust Abuja babes' . So idk how bad they are and i'm sure they are not innocent either. There was this barrister at the office who earned 30k per month , carries a L.V bag, boasts about flying first class, sew clothes for 18-45k excluding the price for the material. and I find myself asking how she was able to afford it. My folks her well of but God forbid me sewing clothes for that price , well for now before I start making my millions.
    Sorry for they rant and typo's now i'm thinking why I did'nt make this a Blog post.
    Thelma I missed you blog with the bad internet connection I made sure I got my daily dose of T.T .

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  7. lol, it's good if you don't know money is thrown around that means you don't have runs girls around you. Remember I said some of them do jazz , this is so true because any guy that enters their net spends like a fool. I know a couple of people in school that guys will not even look at twice and I come to Abj and they are controlling ministers. You don't need God to tell you that they are in another level.

    My Sister had a very good friend in Uni from her first year, this girl comes to my house for weekends during breaks and all. My Sister got a job in Abuja and moved and of course her first point of call was to visit her friend. She didn't know Abuja well so she carried me along. First her friend leaves in an apartment in Maitama, we entered the building and saw 2 solid cars, I just told her the girl is a runs girl straight up. She didn't believe cos the girl's parents are loaded though.

    To cut long story short, the girl has a general friend who called while we were there. The guy was about to travel out and called to know what he will buy for her. when she finished, she handed phone to us and we did likewise. 2 weeks time she sent her driver to my sister's office with those stuff. Not so long we heard that one girl who was in our Uni in Enugu ran mad and behold she is a friend to that my sisters friend. fear no gree my sister continue the friendship. Oh and some point the general was begging us to beg our friend not to leave him it was so embarrassing.

    If you are a greedy person you will drown. One great thing about Abuja are the Hausa guys(not all of them sha) they are honest and very generous and if they like you weather you guys are in a relationship or not, they will spend.

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  8. Lol, I've lived in the FCT for exactly ten years and as a correct sisi eko the fakeness here got to and still hers to me.
    Here you'll see the good, the bad and the ugly.
    These thirsty hoes are every where you go -like MTN.
    The sad part is that the sheer number of girls these aboki Mallam politicians have used and keep using for jazz. I never used to believe in jazz until I entered Abuja. What the eyes can see the mouth cannot say it. So yea, Nigerian women aren't smiling. Someone mentioned that lagosians are worse because of their numbers on the street. Abuja babes don't need to be on the streets, a good number of them used to dress up like office girls, leave for Transcorp in the morning all suited up and operate right from the pool side , it got so bad rang the authorities in Transcorp had to unleash on them
    Sadly, even women that work 9 to 5 are not left behind, married women now compete runs with single girls. Nigeria should be referred to as the modern day sodom and Gomorrah.
    Orgy parties. Strip parties etc and they are bloody hypocrites too. At least the ones in Lagos don't cover themselves up, come and try the girls here all covered up using Kayan mata and jazz to compete with themselves.

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  9. Thelma, you should paraphrase to are Nigerian girls really that bad? This shot happens in every goddam state of Nigeria.

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    1. Thank you anon, i think ph is d worst city in naija sha, followed by Aba. Abuja de learn work where dem de.

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    2. I served in PH, if u don't join dem, u have to give ur life to God and hug Him till u leave the State. I've being to Abuja, Abuja babes are in Kindergarten one, while PH babes are in their final year in the Uni. That is to say, Abuja babes are no where near PH babes when it comes to runs. Abuja babes are just learning.

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    3. I say Ph girls will sweep the floor clean with Abuja babes...they even go all the way from Ph to Abuja with PH as the operating base. I still love my Ph anytime jor, the things I've seen in that town.

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  10. Almost like I don't live in that country anymore, these are all news to me.

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  11. ....And i laugh, smh, and join Kermit in a corner to sip lemon tea and say 'it's none of my bizniz'. Abj tho... Truest words on this post;if you are greedy, u will drown. Nuff said.

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