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Tiwa posted this on Instagram, tagged her hubby TeeBillz and wrote 

"...Which means you MrBillz @teebillz323 cannot return me to my parents or exchange me."

Is this a

a) simple joke
b) threat/warning
c) publicity stunt

Whoever gets the correct answer wins a return ticket to


One more thing; while a lot of us are meeting up with other readers I need to point a few things out. 

- If you exchange contacts with someone on the blog please first ensure that they are who they say they are before meeting with them. I don't know most of you guys personally and I cannot vouch for anyone, (save a handful). 

- If someone requests to be friends with you or asks for your contacts, it's very ok to refuse. No pressure. 

- I've been so inundated with emails and it's gotten a bit much (and this isn't my day job. LOL), so rather than ignore your mails, if you're mailing to ask for a person's contacts, please just reply under one of their comments with your email address, asking them to contact you. (Not phone number or anything else. Emails are less personal and harmless) so that way if the person does want to meet up they can just mail you directly. 

- Also because; I don't have everyone's contacts on the blog so there's no guarantee that when you mail me to ask for a certain person's contacts I'll have it. 

- Please remember to do your 'due diligence'. 

- It's better to first meet in a public place, especially it's someone of the opposite sex.

- I just want to create a platform for people (on the blog) to meet, network, widen their circles and make new friends, but I'm not oblivious to the fact that not everyone has good intentions. So I'm pointing this out right now so that you can stay safe and nothing goes wrong. I do not want to get blamed if something goes wrong. 

-I hereby divest myself of any blame. 

- I might be MIA today & tomorrow. 

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  1. About meeting blog visitors you just laid my thoughts out on paper. Thank you.

    About the picture, I will tell her, give her a scarf to wrap around or lead her to a seat and find one for her. I can't ignore it, sincerely.

    1. Thelma, biko what just happened?
      Disappearing acts, again?

    2. Enjay jo e ma binu. No vex. I wanted to save that one for another day.

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  3. Thelma you're so right. Thanks for the warning and LOL @ the disclaimer. BTW I noticed you never agree to meet with anybody. God is watching you T.

  4. @ThelMA u RIGHT,reminds me of smone I met on a social network dat almost took my life but God pass am@also Thelma wud LOVE to meet amy female on d mainland,like MISS b n steffi.

  5. Well said Thelma, its a cold world we live in, dont trust too soon, not everyone is who they claim to be, nothing wrong with making new friends but its better to be safe than sorry.

  6. I choose B. How do I claim the ticket?

    1. Lol. Do you even know what Hogwarts is?

    2. ROTFL!!!! I'm almost certain the Anon would reject the ticket! But maybe he/she would like it o.

  7. Excellent tips on meeting up!

    That has to be a joke from Tiwa.

  8. It's a veiled threat/warning that's not so veiled, it's also a joke that's not really a joke and a publicity stunt too, she wants people to talk. I choose 'B' it's more 'B' than any of the other two

  9. I may be wrong but is Howarts not that wizard school or someplace in the Harry porter book? *confused face

  10. Hmmmmm, T is very right. Very very on point. U'all need to verify well. I'm very close to some female BVs because i've monitored their comments over a period of time esp the personal comments. I've also chatted with them unending on many chat apps.
    YET, I'm 100% sure I wouldn't want to meet any member of the opposite sex until after the blog party. I have never done a blind date with a dude. Life is precious.

  11. Tiwa is pulling a stunt. anyways, good tips on the blog visits/hooking up. Be kiaful peeps. Clare

  12. c''s just a joke..Mumsi says something like that too.."once ur husband's people come take you girls, theres no refund!" .. You guys meeting up, be safe and avoid any shoulda woulda coulda situations.. cheers!

  13. @Tiwa's comment, so she compares herself to something sold ok o. J

  14. I would take it as a Joke.
    And good tips about meet-ups.

  15. It is either A,B or C.
    It could be a simple joke like Meme baby said..."once ur husband's people come take you girls, theres no refund!"
    It could be a threat or a warning...maybe he don dey show some kain things...
    It could also be a publicity stunt.

    Whatever it is, I remember one song sung by....Is it Asa or Omawumi....whoever it is. It says "Breeze go blow, fowl yansh go open". Its not like I want fawul yansh to open.


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