When is it right for a guy to call his woman the “greatest misfortune that can befall a person”?
I have been dating this guy for over a year and while he’s a wonderful person, his temper tends to boil a little too hot sometimes. I admit I could be stubborn, and I’m not the easiest person to get along with, and we tend to argue quite a bit. The fighting is not even the issue…it’s the things he says during these fights that kill me… All sorts of things from the basic “fat, ugly ,stupid, idiot, etc” to other more weighty ones like “u should have been aborted” and “ public toilet”, and the most recent “ur d greatest mistake and misfortune that can befall a person”(non-exhaustive).
I’m in no way absolving myself of any blame in these episodes.. I can be a very stubborn person as I’ve said before.
Since the last time we argued, I’ve been ignoring his calls and messages. Truly, much as I love this guy, I cant stand the insults anymore… I just want to pack up my remaining dignity and jeje siddon one side, before I totally lose my self worth, coz hearing someone you love tell you those kind of things can mess your brain up .. I hope I’m making sense sha.. just had to share before I burst.
I just have 1 question.. Am I over reacting?? And (okay, 2 questions) am I meant to just accept that he says nasty things when he’s angry and live with it??
i'm okay with you posting it on the blog.. would love to see what people have to say about it.