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I'm So Sorry...





So I guess I have some apologizing to do...


Two nights ago it was called to my attention that I'd been insensitive and selfish. I guess when I wrote the No New Friends post I didn't give it that much thought. A few of my friends were actually slighted by it and I cannot go ahead to repeat the conversation but apparently, as I've chosen to so publicly celebrate [sic] my new friend, I owe them a public apology. 

One even went as far as to voice out the post word for word, pointing out the particular bits that offended her and how it made her feel. She also mentioned some of the comments too. She cited Enjay's comment where she said she wonders how my other friends must be feeling and Chimezie's comment where he said something about old wine was once new. 

I really didn't mean to offend anybody. That I wrote what I did doesn't mean I think less of anyone. Maybe I'd just been feeling very lonely and was super excited by this new friend who lives nearby so I get to see and talk to someone often. 

Oche-Eze 1 of Ihiala, I'm surprised you say I've never mentioned you on my blog. I've mentioned you more than everyone put together but never with your real name because I know how much you value privacy. Don't doubt me Nne m. E nwena iwe biko.

I constantly refer to you and your boo as my family, my sanctuary, my comfort zone. I've severally referred to you as my sister, on this same blog. I've posted about stuff we've done together and places we've been to. You and I have got mad history and nothing, not even new friends can change any of that. 

My apologies to friends, old and new, who were offended. 


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Blog readers please don't mind me. I know this might be childish but I had to appease the gods. LOL. 


Have a blessed day all. I've got a day-long date. Cash-ya tommora! 

Xoxo. 

Comments

  1. Lol. I saw this coming, your friends won't have found that post funny. As if they are not important anymore.

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  2. Thank God ur friends are the type that voiced out their emotion,they didn't bottle it in and act as if nothing was wrong.kudos to them.
    On behalf of thelma,am sorry!

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  3. I just had to go back and read the no new friends post, I didn't see anything wrong with it. I had a friend that was so close to me at a point and I thought we'd be each others' best man when we get married. Today we hardly talk, maybe once in two months, funny part is that we are both still single. What changed was our habits, what hasn't changed is that we can still call on each other whenever and we'll be there for each other. That doesn't mean that I'll deprive myself from making new friends or creating new bonds, I'm sure he's done the same.
    I agree that old silver will always be better than new gold because there are things you can always share with your old friends that you might not be comfy sharing with the new ones.

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  4. I.must say, you have good friends who bare their true feelings to you because they care and love you.

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  5. I had to go read that post again. I was quoted ke?! *runs away*. Biko, I meant well.

    Dear friends of Thelma, please forgive her. I'm sure she meant no harm. Just baring her mind. But don't go changing because of the post, I'm sure she still values your friendship. Time and chance....... ;)

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  6. Ok, I forgive you. Go and sin no more

    Please how do I put emoticons here?

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  7. Awww...very warming to read. Apology accepted and I am sorry I got a little jealous. I treasure everything we've done and been through. I love you girl.

    Ocheze.

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    1. I love love love you more. Ehn, but you should have known better na, jealous ke? Who can take your place? *Big hugssss*

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