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Last Night's Crush, My Testimony & Bucket Lists!

Last night I went to The Palms with a friend to briefly do something at the MTN office. It was really brief and we decided to do some window shopping. It was then I saw her. She was a light skinned 6ft goddess. I did a double take and my first thought was "God is indeed partial!" Kai! It was after she walked pass that my friend drew my attention to the guy she was with;
Ik Ogbonna. I didn't even notice him beside her. Her pictures on blogs do her no justice, she is GORGEOUS!

I wonder if it would have been weird to ask her for a picture. Emmmm, it would have been sha. LOL.

Something even more miraculous happened last night and I couldn't wait to share it with you guys, My friends and I went to Cold Stone and guess what guys, I did NOT have any ice cream! I only had a bottle of water. OMG. I'm so proud of myself. So so proud. This for me was the ultimate test, I really think I'm on my way...!

That said, while we were there we started talking about bucket lists and I had a blast listening to their outrageous bucket lists. A Bucket List is a list of things you want to do or accomplish before you die. Most people's bucket lists contain things that may seem really far fetched eg climb the Mount Everest or shag an A list celebrity but they're usually things that people hope they can achieve in their life time. Before last night I never gave my bucket list much thought but I decided to and this is what I could come up with for now:

1. Run/jog 5 kilometers without taking a break. 

2. Visit a strip club in Vegas with my girl friends. 

3. Buy properties for all my children and some of theirs. 

4. Have sex in a public place. 

5. Visit the Vatican (but after watching The Borgias and Da Vinci's Demons I question if I really want to). 

6. Feed about 500 under privileged people at least once a week. 

7. Act in a movie. 

8. Live in a Beverly Hills Mansion. 

9. Buy a home for mama and papa. 

10. Write a book. 

11. Have a TV or radio show. 

12. Own a Caucasian or a Tibetan Mastiff. 

13. Swim. 

Yeah, this is basically it people! And I think most of these are pretty doable. I just realized something guys, writing this Bucket List has put some goals in perspective for me. Interesting...

Have you ever thought about your bucket list? What's on your bucket list. 

And hey, more importantly, have you been able to tick off something on your bucket list, as in, is there something you had on your bucket list that you've already done/achieved? Please share with me. 


  1. Have a British accent. Lol.

  2. Thanks alot Memphis. Received and loaded.

  3. Am nt ready for a bucket list right now,i wll have to really take my time & think abt it.i also want a British accent, even if its jst a week or two i spend there.the way i wll change my accent, it wll be difficult for my loved ones & even haters to blieve.

    1. Hahaha. And I tot I was alone in this british thing. Told a friend too that a week in uk and back,I'm speaking that shii (fake or no fake)

    2. Lool whats so special about having a British accent haha. I have a British accent, been living in England since I was 14 and I'm now 28 and the accent doesn't reduce the price of meat in the market. Lol but I'll like an American accent! I guess we always crave what we don't have.

  4. Buy a home for my parents in Abuja, buy cars for them too, become the Minister of Education,

  5. Hmm. My bucket list is very long o!
    Ride a power bike on the high way.
    Get a second degree in law
    Start a blog, maybe.
    Start my own business.

  6. Hmmmm, i want to ve sex with a stranger and never see the person again, but if i get married now, how will i achieve that? *sad face*

    1. Pls remember HIV and Ebola, dear.

    2. Pls remember HIV and Ebola, dear.

    3. Pls remember HIV and Ebola, dear.

    4. LOL. Had to be said

  7. Thelma a tibetan mastiff. Are you sure about that?
    Number 1 on my bucket list is to fly a plane. Also to get a PHD.

  8. Number 5 will really make you see catholics and the pope differently. Heard a high percentage of murders in the world are organized by the vatican. Catholics don't swallow me please, that is what research has shown.

    1. Anonymous please site your sources regarding the research. I'm very interested in the methodology.

    2. I don't know about research and I don't know about the percentage either but based on what I've read in books; both fiction and non-fiction, one begins to question just how holy the Vatican is. BTW I'm catholic.

  9. Well.. My list goes thus: *Become a supermodel (my height and beauty mustn't waste. Biko) *Visit or holiday in the Bahamas. *See the eiffel tower. *A vacation in Venice. *Take a picture with Yvonne Nelson (ha ha). I will thinks of more Thelms.

  10. Same here @7......really wanna act too......then others mansion for my parents,tak my parents n siblings round d world........n lastly BE IN LOVE WITH A GUY THAT IS ALSO IN LOVE WITH ME.......Jenny

  11. Run an NGO or counselling center for abused and depressed teenagers

  12. 1. I want to give birth to quadriplets ; 2 boys,2 girls..
    2.Visit bahamas with my family
    3.Buy a big house for my mum and dad in a cool reserved area,each with their personal expensive car.
    4.Run an NGO that deals with old people and widows..

    1. Abiola, my big sister has quadruplets, 2 boys and 3 girls, will ask for the position. lol

    2. Lol @ the position. Quadruplets though. Even one baby is a handful. How do you guys cope?

  13. Travel the world with a special somebody and the little ones
    Make enough money so that, none of my relatives would ever have to look up to anyone else for financial assistance.
    Oh, if I had a British accent, I'd never shut up. LOL
    Be self -employed -cash madam kind of self employed
    These are the ones I can think of right now

  14. Mariam lols @ ur no1 babe be careful what you wish for.

    - Sky dive
    - Buy hubby a G6 on his bday
    - Open a trust fund for my kids
    - Travel the world on a luxury ship
    - Die hair green

  15. Mariam lols @ ur no1 babe be careful what you wish for.

    - Sky dive
    - Buy hubby a G6 on his bday
    - Open a trust fund for my kids
    - Travel the world on a luxury ship
    - Die hair green. Etc etc

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    2. Lol..I wish I have them on a platter of Gold With the blessings of God.of cos,they will be my first and last..I just wana go through theat labour pain once,that thing scares me like hell!

  16. *To have an Airplane for commercial use
    *To be the Managing Director of an aviation agency
    *Invest in landed properties
    *Build a house for my parent
    *Build a happy home
    *Be happy always no matter the situation
    *To be more closer than ever to gOD

  17. Thelma's sister7:32 pm, August 22, 2014

    i had "threesome" on my bucket list... iv crossed that out *covers face*.
    what id really love to do is own an orphanage and start a scholarship fund and train @least 100kids to d highest level they are willing to go

  18. Build up dat business empire
    Spoil my mum silly with life's luxury
    Have *whipped cream and berries flavoured* sex on d beach at sunset, wt someone I truly love
    Own and drive a power bike
    Adopt a couple of kids after mine have left d nest
    Buy me a Lhasa Apso
    Pierce just one side of my lower lip
    Build a shelter for abused girls/women
    Learn french, Spanish and hopefully Italian (so help me God o)
    The above I know for a fact I can and have started working to achieve.
    The rest.....
    Have a whirlwind romance with some royal Saudi prince
    Following dat, get me one of those white tigers they seem to favour
    Shag 2face and David Beckham
    I really could go on with this category but the thing with wishes and fantasies is that they are boundless and rarely make reality.
    I rest my case

    1. Buby believe me, sex on d beach is soo overrated! U just end up with sand in mucho uncomfortable places.


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