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Let's Do This! (Blog Reader Asks)

"Is there any guy here that wants to meet up with a Single 23 year old. Just friends and a couple of hang outs. No im not desperate please. Reply under this comment. Serious minded individuals only. Thank you. "

Is there?

Yes guys, someway, somehow I'm going to get people together. Besides this blog party there should be a way for blog readers to meet, and/or become friends. Since some may not want to be matchmade and just want to make friends, people of either same sexes or opposite sexes should be able to hook up, talk, catch up, exchange ideas etc. 

How do we make this happen guys? 

For now, if there's a blog reader you'd like to meet or chat with feel free to mail me, if I have their contacts I'll ask them if they're ok with it and if they are then we can take it from there, provided you're not trying to meet up with a married person of the opposite sex. 

For now though, blog reader Vee asked the question above...


  1. so far it's not a married person.......hmmmmm

  2. Yayyyyyyyyyyy!!!!
    Am in support... 100%... though everybody in Lagos snobbed me when I was there sha. one story after another... it is well.
    Back to PH in the arms of my one & only bff.

    Goodluck to those match made....

    1. Ruthy!!! Clean ya mouth. You can lie for Africa? We snubbed you or you snubbed us? Oya touch ya toe!! I will flog you for telling a lie.

    2. Ruby, if not for God & Love. I for send U go Mars.
      U wey use me play PES 3 for lagos.
      Oh... Old things are passed away. let me forgive & forget...

    3. You didn't say. Or I didn't hear. Though you were willing to meet me in PH, I had so much to do there and little time.

    4. It's fine Enjay. Another visit do Holla.
      Preparing to go visit Phransea.

  3. Hi Thelma,sent u a mail,dnt know if u got i cos I didn't hear from u. Ellasexy

    1. I didn't get it, just checked my inboxes and spam.

  4. Hahahahhaaha, me am itching to meet my abj peeps oooh. Ifunaya and co

    1. Anon dats cool but wats ur blog ID???

    2. abuja peeps!!! i dey oo ifunanya n anon.. my dotas namesake..ifunanya.

  5. Tee on a lighter note, I would like to meet Memphis.
    So many things to ask him....................
    Any blog visitor in my city? I Need the company now than ever.

  6. Ruthy will love to meet seems we're the only PH peeps here, also I'm new in town no friends don't know anywhr here...

    1. Ph my city, i miss dat town sooo much.

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  7. Desperate measures......................

  8. I want to meet Memphis and Steele...and even Wale. Thelma said no married person though. They all sound like people I can learn from...and a lot of other people as well.... ENIOLA too....All for friends sake. Friends I can learn from.

  9. Hi Vee,

    My name is Sola, it will be nice to meet with you. Where are you based currently?

    1. I'm nowhere near Lagos at the moment but I would definitely love to hang out with you when I do happen to be there.

      BTW I love your bold spirit.

    2. No problem
      Thank you!

    3. Hi vee this is inbox me ur contact.

  10. Anyone from Ghana on this blog?? i do visit Lagos alot because of work.. will get in touch next

    1. Yup! Im in ghana..want to meet up??*aku*


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