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Thelma Says

I usually pay no mind to people that abuse the opportunities that the internet's anonymity affords everyone, but I'll make an exception because this is MY blog and I need to get a message across. 

The Anonymous commenter(s) who thinks I lie, I understand that you may have issues with me/my blog, I will take your insulting comments and minor jibes, but I would NEVER let you question my INTERGRITY. If you're so curious please mail me and I WOULD GIVE YOU THE FULL DETAILS; names, surnames, locations of everyone I've written about. 
      You question my Ashamer Ex; LOL. He's known to go to clubs on the Island with MOPOL men who harass club bouncers. He lives on Queen's Drive in Ikoyi, Lagos. His father is/was one of the top men in Navy/Air Force/Army. If you're so curious you can decode to know the rest, and if you find him tell him Nwando says Hello. 

Please, I ask anyone who knows me personally and knows me to be a liar or a teller of false tales to comment with his/her full names, please state how I know you, and tell the lies I've told you, or the stories I told that were false. Please also include your email address so that I can know more about this lie you were told by me. 

Mr/Miss/Mrs, you can try your best to talk your smack and hide behind anonymous but please give my readers and I some evidence at least. And maybe you can stop being so anonymous. 

I acknowledge that as long as I'm doing this (and I'm only just starting) there will be people like you, I just wish you can be bolder with your accusations. Please ask people who ACTUALLY know me, I find it difficult enough to talk to anyone, how much more tell stories (that people know me for. Hia!). 

And to that Anon who says he/she knows me personally, I'm curious, why are you anonymous? You know me right? Please introduce yourself and send me a picture or two so that I can put a face to the name. 

Lastly, this world is already a sad place. There's poverty, terrorism, diseases, hunger, unemployment, religious crisis, domestic violence etc, try instead to be a bringer of peace and joy as opposed to lies, bitterness, quarrels, false aspersions, anger and controversy. The world does not need anymore of that and neither do I. 

I've said all I have to say about this matter. ANYBODY at all who wants to know more about ANYBODY OR ANYTHING I WRITE OR I'VE WRITTEN ABOUT PLEASE MAIL ME AND I WILL ANSWER ALL YOUR QUESTIONS AND GIVE YOU EVIDENCE, just as long as you have a Facebook account so that I can see and know who you are and why you're asking. The only exception is if I'm trying to protect someone's identity, but still, I will satisfy your curiousity beyond reasonable doubt. My email address remains

God bless. 

PS; I'm sorry I had to delete that last post. Some things were at stake and the sender requested that I do so. I thought it was imperative to do as I was asked, considering the circumstances. I apologise. 


  1. Thelma,you owe NOBODY any explanation for whatever you write on your blog..whether it's a figment of your imagination or real,you owe no one! Like you once wrote,not everyone will like you;the earlier you realised that(there are more persons who like you than those who don't),the better for you T..

  2. To dislike her is one thing, to call her a liar is another. The irony is that when Thelma writes on her blog she leaves so much out of it, so if she tell the full story what will people now say? When people see someone is doing well they will try hard to bring the person down. Nwabundo nwanne m we that know you know you. You are one of the most honest people I know, on this blog and in real life. Let them say what they want, they are nobodies so why bother?

  3. I like the attacks coming up, shows you are making progress; expect more.

    1. Exactly my thought.


    2. I must say too... Thelma, U even even need more haters. Lol! But don't. Be so quick to react. Maybe this article is a statement of Authority n I like dat. Wen more haters come, refer dem here!

  4. Wale is right, the higher you go the lower they will try to pull you. I know some of ur posts sound farfetched but I noticed that some of ur friends knows about it like the celeb guy. I thot u were lying but a BV was winking at u in her commnt so I shut up. Lol.

  5. But you know some people live to bring others down yeah? Funny thing is the anonymous peeps might be someone you know, that's to show you how sad some people are. Iwe gi adila oku nne ooh.

    See how I was looking forward to reading the post you deleted and I saw it since oh, left it to go do something only for me to open it later and it was gone :( thought it was network doing it again, this thing has pained me now

    1. Lol...the disappeared post felt like rapture right? Lol. I've told her to pls stop deleting posts. It makes me question my sanity.

  6. The more you excel, the more your haters. The more they visit your blog, increase in traffic. Ain't that wonderful? Hahaha.

  7. I like this post, u dont need to say more!! Truth is some people have never experienced certain things, thats why they have a hard time believing it. And to say that anyone is kissing Thelma's a** is ridiculous, because you are verbally abusive doesnt mean others should be same way, even if u didnt believe the story, u simply say so, u ve the right to believe or not but u DONT ve any right to call someone a liar, dats verbal abuse and shows lack of courtesy and proper training.

    1. u ve the right to believe or not but u DONT ve any right to call someone a liar, dats verbal abuse and shows lack of courtesy and proper training!!!

      Ifunanya dear, I just had to repeat that. ;)

      Thelma, you just did well.

  8. Thelma don't mind such people, you know yourself best, always stay true to yourself. Please continue sharing your experiences with your readers, I for enjoy reading about your experiences. Forget the naysayers and keep on pressing forward.

  9. Lol....saw dix post yestaday "sometimes d 1st step 2 4giveness is understanding dat d other person is a complete idiot".......whether ur stories r real or fiction, criticism must come,no matter hw gud dey are.....u put a post d oda tym bou som ppl bin #unpleasable-if dat word dahz it,dahz hw haters roll....dey kip hatin......plz dnt let it get 2 u......Jenny

  10. All she's trying to say is: you are free to pick a fight with everyone (both on this blog and back at ur respective houses) but don't publicly call her a liar esp when u don't back up ur claims.
    I know ur hating angle. Tryng to be controversial and all. I personally look forward to ur comments but it sucks that ur anonymous cos who wld ur award be given to at the blog party?

    1. Lol@d award dilemma... good question though

    2. Blog party? Exactly how would their expressions be then? Certainly not sincere smiles. And we wouldn't like to have long faces trying at failed attempts to acknowledge everyone. They would look like grinning rams.

      Hatred de purge belle finally. Smh.

  11. how I've missed this blog and the commenters lol..I will go back to the posts I missed to catch up :D

  12. Thelma yaff vex......lols...

    Seriously babe,just ignore haters

  13. Hahahaha but Thelma why is it paining you? Meanwhile nigga is going about saying yall never dated? Hmmmmmm this post might start drama. Id suggest u take it down n just let the 'haters'

    1. That's cos he's the Ashamer? No?

    2. And you're still anonymous? ROTFL

    3. Nawa o, country people. This anon am suspecting you know Thelma and have issues with her and instead of confronting her your hiding under anon to throw punches, please we are not interested biko

  14. Oh my. First there was no guy, now he says they weren't dating? You're really not so smart are you?
    Anon 9.34pm nameless you are, nameless you shall always be. Amen.

  15. And Nameless shall you always be, Amen

  16. Thelma trace the IP address and delete the persons comments. Your blog isnt a popularity contest, you write from the heart. Dont let idiots get to you.

  17. But Thelma all this means ure making progress so just ignore. Other good bloggers have it far worse n they ignore.


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