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Blog Reader Asks.(Does Candy Taste The Same When The Wrap Is On?)

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Dear Thelma please help me post. Is dere any difference in sex with a condom and having sex without a condom? My bf is the only person I av slept with, he is a medical doctor so he is very health conscious. We've done tests and we're both clean but he still insisted on safe sex. I hear people talking about how sweet sex is when you do it raw and I want to try it. I av been trying to persuade my bf but he has refused, that dere is no difference. Pls Is it true that dere's no difference? I don't want to cheat on him becos I really luv him but curiousity is really killin me. I just want to know what I am missing. My fellow BVs please help me.

Is there any difference when the wraps are on and when the wraps are off?


  1. LOL. My Dear Sister, The difference is this: When U are NOT married, Sex with a Condom & Without is the difference between Juice & Water.
    Juice: Sex without Cd, is sweeter but u fit purge or become fat. & as a result of the sweetness, u continue. U'll either have obesity or diabetes.
    Water: Sex with Cd, it's bland. It's tasteless. But if u infuse it, adding oranges, berries, it could be sweet though not like juice but it is healthy & removes unwanted toxins.

    Enjoy ur Life!!!

  2. Are you guys going to get married? If yes, will he still insist on safe sex? Cos I've noticed people now use the canopy of "marriage" to cleanse any possible *skio skio* their partners may have before then...apart from getting pregnant ofcourse.

    1. *openmind* what is *skio skio*

    2. Skio skio na brain touch in my

  3. The difference is clear,without CD,it's sweet,juicy n tasty but with CD,it's nothing compared to the latter but in other to play safe,I think u should accept and follow d flow. I feel the guy has both of yr interest at heart,so dnt let what pple say or your curiosity abt CD affect u both. Though personally I hate CD cos it bruises me and makes me dry but I had to come to terms with it if I really wanted to stay clear from what I might regret LATER on.I hope this helps

    1. You are right about the dryness and bruises caused by condoms.. Try using lubricants. I always apply that .

  4. My dear sister. Truth be told banana is sweeter without the skin. It's certainly not the same at all. While I understand ur bf's concern, he shld also consider ur feelings too. But be prepared for the consequences if u end up swallowing a frog. (I mean getting pregnant).

    I'm married and Ii do not enjoy sex with Condoms one bit. CEO

  5. My dear sister. Truth be told banana is sweeter without the skin. It's certainly not the same at all. While I understand ur bf's concern, he shld also consider ur feelings too. But be prepared for the consequences if u end up swallowing a frog. (I mean getting pregnant).

    I'm married and Ii do not enjoy sex with Condoms one bit. CEO

  6. If I am 2 be realistic with u, eating candy without the raps on is wayyyy sweeter even tho there are some special CD's in d market right now (not gold circle) that have extra lubes dt are not smooth and has little or very minute diference with eating without d raps on. it's all in d mind sometimes..whn u set ur mind 2 enjoy it with d wraps on but infuse it with oranges and berries jes like Ruth said above, then u'd surely enjoy it.
    If I were 2 advice u as a brother, I'd say ABSTAIN!!!! And at the right time, with the right and faithful person, eat your candy without the wraps!

    Too many nyama nyama out there these days mehn!.

    1. Lol @ not gold circle. Why the discrimination?

    2. Ah Ah, T, why not the discrimination? Using gold circle is like using a tube and that smell? Aarrrggghh!!!!

  7. Hahahahahhaha..lyk seriously?licking candy with the wraps aint as sweet as licking without wraps now...guess we knw that....when it comes to sex,I never used a cd before ..In as much as I have a three year old and not ready to have a child,me and le boo do it without cd oh...the day he bought a glow in the dark cd,I used it as a balloon over to does that take the banana with the skin......Thelma I sent you a mail oh.....with my pisure..#batseyelashes#that naughty house wife

    1. ROTFL. You use it as a balloon? Dear lord!
      Hmmm, I got your mail. When I said that there are some really gorgeous people right here I didn't tell a lie. That NHW is a total hottie!. And there I was thinking I had a fine face, not knowing that I'm still learning. Chai! *hugs&kisses*.

    2. Why are my comments not uploading na

  8. thelma, why do u no longer remove dat foolish anonymous above ? It neausates me to see dat trash.

  9. Unfortunately, I may never know!
    P.S: I hate my mother for circumcising me. It's gets so bad each passing day, am so impatient with her, she keeps asking where she has failed me, I almost cannot stand her most times now.
    I feel robbed by her. Pple keep talking abt how sweet sex is, and I have almost no idea, hubby gets worked up cos after all his work, I still don't come from penetration. Smh

    1. Forget about your circumcision and focus your mind on enjoying with your hubby. Truth be told, most women whether circumcised or not, do not come from penetration. Try other things with your hubby, fingers, oral, role play. Also get yourself in the mood beforehand, read sexy books, watch loving movies, or think of what you enjoy about the lovemaking.

      All the best.

    2. Do u masturbate? Do u cum when u do? As Myne said,not every lady actually cums during/after penetration. My take is this,if uve never cum ever before,take out time to study ur body and know ur erogenous zones (and since ur married,I wanna believe that self pleasure is allowed).
      Good luck and pls report a feedback..tnx

    3. Ma'am plz u've gat 2 4gv ur mother, she only did it out of ignorance. Truth is circumcision does not
      stop anyone from getting pleasure with their spouses but it somtimes, only prolongs d time it'd take 2 get u there, and dt's where a patient and "skilled in d art" partner comes in. He's gotta take his time @ foreplay with u and also explore ur eroginous zones.
      Last time I checked, circumcision only affects the clitoris, and there are other spots in d womans anatomany dt stroking them causes more intense orgasms like d Gspot, the cul de sac and others, and yea these spots are stroked by penetration. So ur man jes gotta learn more, go online to make research on how 2 rock u better.
      Lots of women who weren't circumcised never experienced orgasm too, so don't feel like u R alone in dz

      #Dont fret

      #All the best

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    1. Since your Dreams always come true, are u quite sure of one of ur hussy's male friend's integrity? Cos if he's truly close to ur husband,he won't tell U(I'm Sure of dat one).
      So, I'd say u shouldn't sweat abt ur dreams always coming true.
      Keep calm, if u Notice anything in reality plz ask him straight up n not his friends.

    2. Uyi, read through the article again, your response does not fit. I believe its meant for another article.

  11. If I may ask, why the curiosity? If you enjoy it with CD, why not stick with it? Meanwhile, he may have other reasons for insisting on keeping it wrapped.



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