Skip to main content

I Miss You- BBB Smiles

You woke me up this morning with a warm kiss on my neck and then it occurred to me you were to travel that morning to Abuja for the “International Builders Summit” I sprung to my feet and dashed to the kitchen to make you a quick breakfast but halfway down the stairs I could perceive the aroma coming from the kitchen, I smiled to myself knowing fully well you had preparedbreakfast for us, as it has been the routine ever since I got fully bumped up with pregnancy.

I came back to the room; you were all set and ready to leave. I walked you to the car and you promised to call me upon arrival, your summit was for two days you were to return home on Friday. You kissed me passionately while patting my bump; you also gave our unborn baby a kiss, telling him to take care of mummy while you were away. ”DON’T WORRY sweetie, I’ll be back before you miss me those were your words to me 24-02-2013.

My Sunshine,
It’s the tenth day today, should I be worried?
Some people are here telling me to come confirm a body, should I be worried?
Your mum and siblings are all crying, should I be worried?
I see a man  covered in blood stained  sheets, his face is torn beyond recognition but he is wearing your wedding ring baby and your shirt………, should I be worried?

They are giving me a death certificate with your name on it sweetie………… now I’m getting worried
I am making a call to you baby please pick up, you said not to worry you will be back before I miss you. But honey it’s a year now and you are not back from the summit. Honey we have a bouncing baby boy and you haven’t come to see him. Baby, he has your nose and your eyes.
I miss you, I miss you, I miss you………………………………
Please come home baby Dinner is served!!!



  1. Another reality of death.... We make promises but the fulfillment all lie with our maker.

  2. Nwando ogini??? You're begining to make love sound painful. Well the truth is this is someones reality out there...

    1. Bia Sasha Bone should I lend you my glasses? BBB SMILES is the one making love sound painful... Not like I'm any better. LOL.

  3. I wanted to cry, but when I saw that tiny "fiction" I smiled.....
    I honestly can't relate to this. I don't know what death feels like. I just hear other people's experiences.

    Thank U Jehovah!!!

  4. I actually can relate to this, it happened just very recently to a family member, they just got married in April, too shocked!

  5. Sad story... well written.

  6. Not fair. That 'fiction' was just so tiny. I had goose bumps all over already. Had tears welling in my eyes and I was already saying a prayer for her for strength and comfort. Ruthy's comment jolted me out of that state...nicely written though. It's a sad reality also. God help us.

    1. Same here, I was almost in tears and then...fiction sigh

  7. sometimes love comes with pain.....first time commenter and i have been a silent addict for a while


Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Turia Pitt Suffered 65% Burns But Loved Conquered All...

Amazing Story Shared by Dr. Ben Carson on Facebook, i thought it is inspiring and i decided to share;

The Australian ex-model Turia Pitt suffered burns to 65 per cent of her body, lost her fingers and thumb on her right hand and spent five months in hospital after she was trapped by a grassfire in a 100 kilometre ultra-marathon in the Kimberley. Her boyfriend decided to quit his job to care for her recovery. 
Days ago, in an interview for CNN they asked him:
"Did you at any moment think about leaving her and hiring someone to take care of her and moving on with your life?"

His reply touched the world:

"I married her soul, her character, and she's the only woman that will continue to fulfill my dreams."

This made me very reflective. I just wonder; if the person you love today encounters an incident or accident that transforms who they are physically, it could be amputation, it could be paralysis, it could be severe burns that scald their flesh beyond recognition, w…


Good morning people! 
Just checking in to sign the register. Lol. It's been a very busy week and it looks like it might be an even busier weekend. I was hoping to get some writing done when I got to the airport yesterday but I even almost missed my flight. It was hopeless trying to do any work on the plane as it was bumpy af, and this toddler behind me wouldn't stop screaming in piercing shrieks like he was being exorcised. 
I got into town pretty late and needed to keep an appointment ASAP. I'm heading out right now and it's going to be a long day, but thought I should drop this first. 
Have a splendid day. Im'ma be back soon.


He was my coursemate, crush, then my boyfriend.... he was super
intelligent, smart, tall, dark and handsome. Believe me he got
swag, but he didn't seem to notice me. (I'm a nerd but a sassy one
if I say so myself).  So oneday I decided to take it to another level..
After listening to a song "IF YOU LOVE SOMEBODY TELL THEM THAT YOU
LOVE THEM and watching the season film of The Secret Life of
American Teenagers. ..when Amy Jeugerns mum told her "you are only
young once". LOL that part got me.
Hope you know what i mean?

Though I'm okay with chemistry class I approached him to coach me for
the Quiz that was coming up, we found out that we had this
great chemistry between us.. hehehe both the covalent and
electrovalent bonds....

So one thing led to another till one unusual Saturday. I invited
him to my house and he came. The guy got swag, he even came
with a packet of durex condom.
We talked for a while and and and and and and
See how you are serious dey read this story....!

One More Post...


A side chick is commonly known as a mistress or a woman that’s romantically involved with a man who is in a committed relationship.  However after doing some reflecting, I realize that’s not the only type of side chick.  I want to discuss “the new side chick”–a woman who decides to stay by a man’s side after he has expressed his lack of relationship intentions with her through his words or actions.  So many women have made this mistake at least once in their lifetime, and unfortunately I’ve done the same thing. I like to think of the new side chick as an appetizer.  You’re there just to satisfy the immediate appetite of the man, but as soon as that mouth-watering entrée comes out to the table, you will get pushed to the side, literally.  Why?  Because that entrée is what he really wanted; he went to the restaurant to order steak, not hot wings.  You were just a placeholder, fling, temporary commitment, or  maybe even just a “good ol time” until what he really wanted was presented to hi…


I'm in an amebo mood tonight. Don't ask me, I honestly don't know why. Also I'd like to share too but I'd do that anonymously in the comment section. Tonight I want to talk about secrets. It's ok, we can all be anonymous. 
Is it true that EVERYBODY has a secret? 
Is there anyone here who doesn't have a secret? I'd really like to know; You're a completely open book and there's not ONE thing about you that you wouldn't mind other people knowing about? Please raise your hands up. 
And for the rest of us, what's something about you that no one knows, or very few people know? Who's got a dark secret here, or a weird one, or a funny one even? I really don't mean to be invasive but I don't want to be the only one sharing, plus I think hearing other people's secrets is quite fun, don't you think?

Let's Be Random Together! (Open Keypad).

Hey guys, a while back blog reader F said something about creating an Open Keypad post, where you can write whatever you want in the comment section. I thought it was a fun idea!
So who is interested? Comment on anything you feel like, ask me or anyone a question, talk about how your day went, your job, your interests, tell us something about you that we don't know, share a testimony with us, rant about anything you feel like, talk about your crush/boo/spouse/relationship/marriage, challenges you're facing, ANYTHING AT ALL! 
I'll only make one request; that we stay civil. 

(F it was you who made this suggestion, right? I'm not too sure and I can't even remember the post the comment was made on). 
BTW please Ejoeccome out come out, wherever you are!

Adventures, Fun, Friendship & Laughter at the TTB Hangout (Lekki Conservation Center).

Nicole to Clare: mummy lets go. I want to climb that ropy thing!

Isn't Clare beautiful?!

Uyi et moi. Clowning. 

Mother & child. 

Scary af! Trish on the ramp. The chica loves the outdoors so much, she was like a kid in a candy store. She and Uyi took this walk twice! More power to them, you can't pay me to do this a second time.

Uyi & Tiwa

Question of The Day.

TTB readers doesn't this tweet below remind you of something?
That mail that someone sent me a few weeks back. 
But why on earth should a man sleep with his son's fiancé? But what am I saying, some men even sleep with their daughters...

Oh well, I'm throwing the question to you. What has happened in your life that you never saw coming, you never hesperred it, you never imagined could happen, you never imagined could happen to you? 
It could be good, it could be bad, it could be ugly. Do tell!
And it can be more than one. Let me tell you a few. 
-owning a blog -week long dry fast at Prayer City (I never hesperred it).  -staying in an (emotionally) abusive relationship.
The others require anonymity. LOL. Now over to you.