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Megan Good's Nudes: Do Different Rules Apply?





So.... American celebrities' private accounts are being hacked and their nudes are getting leaked all over the place. Among these celebrities are Rihanna, Amber Heard, Jennifer Lawrence and a host others.


For some reason while these celebrities have been empathized with and fought for, Megan Good is receiving a lot of criticism and backlash for hers. 



It's my understanding and my belief that whatever kind of sex a married couple chooses to have is sacred. I don't care the positions, their fetishes or inclinations, just as long as it's between them both. While I've never been a fan of having nude photos (for security reasons especially) I'm sure that you'll agree that when the exchange is done between two married people then it's not only acceptable but actually quite cute. 

But do these rules apply to "religious" couples? Does being a religious or spiritual leader dictate and restrict what kinds of sexual acts you can or cannot practice with your spouse? Must one be subjected to a life to missionary-style sex with his or her spouse because they're religious folk?

I'm trying to understand why other (unmarried) celebrities took these nudes and possibly shared them with a host of men they're probably not even dating, much less married to and they get the public's sympathy, but a woman shares her nudes with her own husband who happens to be a preacher and she gets verbally stoned to death for it. 

WHAT GIVES???




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  1. "He wants a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed". Every married couple (religious or not) is allowed to enjoy their sex life to the peak of their sexuality and compatability and they owe no one any explanations or apology...

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  2. True. People are big hypocrites. They promote fornication but frown upon sex between two married people because he is a preacher.

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  3. My take? The bible condemns both fornication and adultery in very very strong terms. Has anyone noticed that the same book is hugely uncritical and albet silent on what goes on behind the doors or between the sheets between husband and wife?

    On the flip side, that holy version of the 50 shades called the Song of Solomon can be termed erotica but only for oga and madam.

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    1. Very well said, my spirrooooo ends at my bedroom door
      In fact the 50 shades of grey has nothing compared to what happens on my marital bed and trust me I am a badass spirroooooo he he

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  4. I think the biggest deal with Meagan was her public nude, no other celeb as far as I know do. And of course she is an open christian, and her hubby is a minister so her followers are more conservative. She should just ignore all.

    TBH, it was hers that got me personally mad, I'm a fan of her quiet sensuality.

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    1. I agree, that public nude was wrong, the one at the restaurant and her general manner of dressing is inappropriate for a minister's wife. But I find it absurd that she'll be tagged as less of a Christian for sending her nude pictures to her husband; pictures of a body he has seen naked, a body both the law and the church authorize him to see naked...
      I just fail to see what wrong this woman has done.

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  5. "..you'll agree that when the exchange is done between two married people then it's not only acceptable but actually quite cute".. question is, acceptable by whose standard??? We can all see the result of what is supposed to be acceptable.

    Nobody cares about what kind of positions or actions goes on behind the curtains but to take pictures and send them to a spouse is opening up yourself for attacks. The devil is very smart and far ahead of sinners, he would lure you out and let all you have worked for go in the mud. Every innocent act is prone to attack.

    Do whatever you want to do anyhow you want to do it but don't do the pictures thing or did anybody say you will get the best mansion in heaven if you show nude pictures to your husband on earth? And what will happen if the man divorces her or vice versa and they both move on to other people?

    Will anybody bat an eyelid if it was Lil Kim? No way! "Ye shall know them by their fruits", we already know what kind of fruits to expect from many people but it is disappointing when those we respect fall into the same trap like every other person. Where then is the Christian virtue?

    We either look at the scriptures and use it as instructed or we stop mocking God and live our lives according to our rules.
    This social media thing is like a loaded weapon in the hands of a soldier, useful but at the same time very dangerous when used incorrectly. We need to apply wisdom all the time..

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    1. Christian virtue in sex within the marriage? Apply caution in case of divorce? I'm not even sure where to begin. Like Eazee E says above the Bible is silent on sex inside the marriage. I honestly think it's a couple's business to enjoy sex with each other in any way, form or shape they so decide or enjoy!
      So one should keep him/herself till marriage then get married and put a leash on how they choose to enjoy each other?
      That's why people are unfaithful. I see married chics having extramarital affairs and when you ask them why they'd say if they ask hubby for oral sex hubby will think they're spoilt and look at them funny.
      Aaaaaaaaaaaaargh! I feel like screaming, so after all these months and years of bridled passion I'd finally get married and someone will tell me to apply wisdom in the way I choose to find sexual satisfaction with my husband??? I think every married couple should do what works for them, it's actually this "application of wisdom" that may lead to dissatisfaction, then infidelity, then divorce.

      Personally, will I like to exchange nudes with hubby; YES. But I would be reluctant because of risks like the one above, and not because it's 'Unchristian'.

      Wale to compare this to Kim K is funny. She sent these pictures to her husband, for his own private consumption. See his face in that picture, he obviously enjoys them nudes. I'm sure he asks for them and since we're talking about the Bible now, how many times are wives asked to submit?...

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    2. Thelma, you muddled up everything I wrote, you even read Kim K from my comments where there is none! LOL..ok, but you should read it again.

      - I asked whose standards we are using when you wrote that exchanging nude pics between married couple is acceptable and cute. You eventually acknowledged the risks involved but don't think it's "Unchristian". Ok, not a problem.

      I did acknowledged the rights of couples to do whatever behind the curtains but to keep it there.
      I wrote about applying wisdom in how you use the social media to manage your life not in what you do behind the walls or how you do them.

      So the woman's pics are out now and we have not seen that of the husband, probably because he is a minister and refused to do it or afraid it may get into the wrong hands.

      Do what you have to do but keep it away from the public; she placed it out there the day she took those pictures or would there have been anything to hack if the pics didn't exist? I insist people must apply wisdom in how they use the social media otherwise they will pay the price.

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    3. LOL, I saw Kim and the only Kim I seem to recognize is Kim K, apologies.
      Wale I acknowledge your sentiments but I think this has more to do with applying caution than it does with morals, and bringing the Bible in makes it look like you're implying that it's morally wrong.
      It's rather unfortunate their stuff got leaked, but I'm not even sure they seem to mind much...

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    4. Respect of privacy is lost in this media age of ours. Wasn't the nudes (topless) pix of Princess Kate taken and published even when she was on vacay with her prince?
      The issue here isn't whether a Christian wife sent nudes to her minister husband (who btw isn't complaining) but the unreliability of cloud storage.

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  6. I hate this shared blame thing. Someone's account is hacked,then we must blame a married woman for sending nude pictures to her husband's. A young girl is raped then we must blame her for staying out late, or wearing a provocative dress. stop it already people. J

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    1. It's called victim shaming and blaming. The backlash she got just shows how hypocritical people are and the fact that they do not have much respect for marriage. Who else should a woman send her nudes to if she wants to, if not her husband? The issue here is that her and other people's privacy were invaded by malicious people. She should get our empathy and respect not condemnation.
      K.O.H.

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  7. I hate this shared blame thing. Someone's account is hacked,then we must blame a married woman for sending nude pictures to her husband's. A young girl is raped then we must blame her for staying out late, or wearing a provocative dress. stop it already people. J

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  8. I can't fault Meagan, my opinion is that it's legal (even biblical joor) to be daring with sexuality once you've tied the knot and the blames and attacks should be directed towards the hackers
    merçi.

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  9. I am engaged to a Professional Photographer . We are not sexually active and we are 'trying' hard to wait for the wedding night! Just last night he was jokingly saying ..'babe na wa for you o...I never watch the full movie...you no go even show me TRAILER? Lolzzzz...He is already telling me how he would take bedroom pictures of me etc...Pls Ndi ebayi (My People)....I am totally looking forward to all that! Because its my husband! We sabi judge for Nigeria no be small and we pretend a lot abeg even so called Christians and that is why marriages are falling by the way side, couples are managing their union, no fun, no livelinessAbeg abeg which ever way I feel I want to express myself to my husband as long as WE don collect that Certificate wey God hand don follow sign put...na go on soun be dati ooo!....#JoyDaNuGirl

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