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Good morning guys!

Isn't it amazing that the moment Banky W stopped being so insecure about his head we stopped noticing it's supposedly unusual shape and size and suddenly it looks normal and even quite sexy (looks sexy to me... Want to plant a kiss on his head everytime I see it). 

It just goes to show that we need to learn to be more accepting of ourselves, like the prayer goes; give us the grace to accept that which we cannot change. Some of us are even more aware of our own flaws than others and become so self-conscious of things that others don't. So people, find the strength to accept yourself wholly, but those shitty parts of our personality can be and need to be worked on. Lol. 

You cannot afford to get comfortable. In fact, the higher the level, the meaner the devil. Stay armed. 

You best believe...

Say hello to Chamomile. He comes to eat opposite the house every afternoon, sometimes he brings his friends along. Something about watching Chamomile eat soothes me... I sometimes spend minutes watching him... Oh and BTW he doesn't know I named him Chamomile and I don't know if he's actually a he...

Don't ever forget this. 

Ouch! But the truth nonetheless. Some of us would rather stay in denial than open our eyes to the truth. Some of us are completely ignorant so our eyes stay closed. Some of us have our eyes wide open and yet we still cannot see; and is this the worst of all. 

Yeah. I've done more shit, seen more eat, eaten more shit, so I tend to know more about shit than some others. LOL. 

LOL. Seriously tho... My boobs or my butts, take your pick. Just GTFO my belly, my arms, my thighs, my face. Ugh!

To my fellow dreamers...

Isn't this the absolute worst. When someone you love so much changes on you... And somehow they always forget to tell you.

Have a blessed day guys!


  1. Thank U T. Some are really encouraging. My Dreams are going to keep being Valid to me. I must realize them all.
    Yes, Opening my eyes was the most painful thing I had to do, but along with the pain came relief afterwards Peace! Twas worth it.

    Have an amazing day TTB bunnies. XO

    1. I don't like it whn pple autonomously say that they must realise their dreams, somthg dt d final say lies only with d creator! Yea, ur dreams are valid, u gotta keep pushing, but it's not a must dt all our dreams will come true as only God has d final say. I'm not in anyway saying dt our dreams are not valid, but while we are working towards achieving them, we can only hope they come to pass and not saying they must come 2 pass like we are the ones dt tells God how 2 run our lives. So next time, I'd prefer u say, I hope or pray they come 2 pass by Gods grace.

      *lips sealed and watching*

    2. Well remember that there is power in prophecy. Saying it and believing it might actually activate it, this doesn't mean that you're not praying to God to endorse those dreams.
      In reality can all our dreams come to pass? I think not. Even when you've achieved one dream you instantly have another, humans are insatiable beings. Yet we strive to achieve the ones we can and pray the our achievements far outweigh our 'failures to launch'.

    3. Easah, although T has said it all. I will add a little to it.
      Even the holy book says Whatever we Ask according to God's will, he will give to us. Things according to God's will are things that bring praise to his name & not associated with Sin.

      My Dreams can & will be fulfilled. Becoming a High school Teacher, a Good Wife & a Great Mom are all I seek. & Yes dear, I will achieve them. God has promised it.
      Btw T, I can be satiated. I'm going to be perfect with just the 3 goals above. Ain't seeking for more.

  2. Thanks Thelma, this mishmash helps one to soldier on.

  3. I recall I wore only trousers to work for five straight years. Reason? I thought my 'bow-legs' were horrible and my skin was bad! Then a period came when I decided to change my 'fashion sense'. One day, I wore a knee-length skirt suit to work and the complements I received were so much I lost count, even from fellow ladies.

    As for my belly fat, I don't need it on my boobs as I have enough of that already. I need the damn thing on my hips - LOL.


  4. What does Chamomile mean? Is it pronounced "ka-mo-mi-le" or "cha-mo-mile"? *confused face"

    1. Jesu! And to think that this girl is my friend... And to think that she's the one I thought I would call when I go for Who Wants To Be A Millionaire and I want to call a friend. Kai!

    2. Anyway since my new motto is WWJD let me be Christ-like and answer your questions. Pronounced with a K. It's an herb well known for its use in making tea and is popular for its soothing effect.

    3. Hahaha...when u get on WWTBAM,pls call Chuck Norris first before u call me o!

    4. Ah ha! I didn't know too o. J

  5. Lol @call Chuck Norris.


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