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I'm in an amebo mood tonight. Don't ask me, I honestly don't know why. Also I'd like to share too but I'd do that anonymously in the comment section. Tonight I want to talk about secrets. It's ok, we can all be anonymous. 

Is it true that EVERYBODY has a secret? 

Is there anyone here who doesn't have a secret? I'd really like to know; You're a completely open book and there's not ONE thing about you that you wouldn't mind other people knowing about? Please raise your hands up. 

And for the rest of us, what's something about you that no one knows, or very few people know? Who's got a dark secret here, or a weird one, or a funny one even? I really don't mean to be invasive but I don't want to be the only one sharing, plus I think hearing other people's secrets is quite fun, don't you think?

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  1. Thelma why na? All the females secret here will be the number of guys they've shagged or how many d and c they've had. I'm going to be anonymous today too. Lol but Lemmi sit back and listen to what others have to say before I spill. Oya o where's Ruth???

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    1. how are we sure this isn't Ruth?

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    2. Yeso dis is def Ruth! Babe its funny u think we dnt knw ur mode of writing

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    3. This aint Ruthy, she would have written sumthin in capital letters like THIS!

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  2. I had a friendly neighbour who was always giving me advice on how to please my girl. One day my girl came to visit me and we had a fight. immediately she left my neighbour came and asked me wat happened and I told her. I was so depressed and she started comforting me. I den noticed her sexy she dressed and couldn't help myself and started smooching her but no protests. We had sex till midnight and sex from 4am till dawn. since no special strings attached we became FWBs to each other till I moved.

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  3. Hmm. Body count 38 and still counting. Never told anybody

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    1. The number of people someone has slept with.

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  4. I'm 21, body count 45 (or was it 46) last I checked and I've had 5 D&Cs including an induced labour for a 5month pregnancy.
    Please don't judge me. I realise how stupid I've been.

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    1. a condom should be your best friend by now

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  5. I was adopted, my parents needed a male child.

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  6. I'm a very good kisser. Can kiss for hours if our chemistry is right. (And maybe throw in a bri-ish accent too)

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  7. 4am till dawn?? Una strong no be small!

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  8. Some people still underestimate sibling rivalry. When I was still little I used to beat my younger brother up. I knew it was wrong but even when he's crying I won't be able to stop. Thank god I was able to stop

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  9. I get really scared around boys, like I start to shiver and just can't talk. When I hear about other girls having male besties..I honestly feel sad.

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  10. I have been fighting an intense feeling of love for a certain married man I know for about two years now,ours is an intense badass chemistry that is two-way and it makes matters worse that he's my friends husband. He is completely smitten and in love with me. The chemistry is so intense that my friends insist that I should just shag him and get over it however Its a sad situation because even though we get to see each other every so often we try our best to ignore each other or seem disinterested so as not to make our spouses suspect or uncomfortable.Its a bitter-sweet issue for me because on one end I do not have any plans on leaving my man and my marriage but on the other hand, I love the effect I have on him when he's around me; a grown man stuttering,jittery and acting like a boy all I know is that this is so wrong.

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    1. ...But it feels so right. #LowKey Lol. I know that feeling but ur gonna need to fight urs. We mus'nt always give in to our feelings just becuse we feel them...

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    2. @ sasha this feeling is intense, almost too intense plus he's an older gentleman and an epitome of success Lord have mercy!!!!

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  11. I have trichotillomania, a compulsion to pull my hair out. Started when I was younger and I never knew why. Its been a long time I had a full head of hair. I can go months without doing it but when something happens to stress me out, I start pulling again. I have never told a soul and just explain it away to friends and hairdressers like my hair is just not healthy and keeps breaking. Part of me thinks there may be an experience buried in my subconscious that can point me to why this started. Wish I could get hypnotised or something to dredge up the memories because it bothers me a lot. Even my husband doesn't know.

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    1. So do you actually pull your hair out? Doesn't it hurt? Is it something you do passively or aggressively? Hmm

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  13. Chei, DiarizGodOh!!! All this stamina & body count u people are sharing!!!
    Lemmi Y are u searching for me biko? Should I send account number?

    Well, Well, Well, #RubsPalm
    I've mentioned one of my secrets here already. *Extorting cash from my Ex with a fake pregnancy result I wrote during my I.T at the hospital*

    Another one. *I smoked one whole pack of Dorchester cigarettes & drank the medium sized Squadron after my 1st heart break! Kai, Sweet baby Jesus. I was found about an hour later by the heart breaker cos he still had a key to my off campus apartment. He found me in a pool of my puke, #Shudders*
    That was the 1st & last time I ever got drunk or smoked.
    See me dragging on 2 sticks of cigarettes at once, like a Cuban drug lord Abi na monkey sef. #Blame the Mexicans!
    NO one but Me, Le Ex & u'all here knows this. XoXo

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  14. I cheated on my partner with 4 people. I hated it and regret it. Just couldn't help myself then. Prayed and asked for forgiveness. It has been almost 2yrs now and I have not even kissed another person and I don't want to ever do it again.

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  15. I love kissing but hate kissing my bf. He doesn't have MO but has this smell when he talks and I'm easily irritated by any bad smell and this alone made me cheat on him with 2 people.

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  16. Had a lesbian tryst in university days, geez, it was mind blowing, I felt guilty later. But I know I'd do it again with the right person, sexy boobs and clean hygiene. Sex with a girl is mind blowing. Try it once. Wink wink

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    1. This one is Thelma, heard the gist, lol

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    2. Lol. Gist hearer. Hearer of gist. What do you plan to achieve from this lie, abi na joke? If I had a lesbian experience I'd totally write about it, don't see why that has to be a secret.

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    3. Ha! T! See as person don dash u free visitos's tag to th Isle of Lesbos o! Igwaro zi m! Rotflmfao!

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  17. Had a lesbian tryst in university days, geez, it was mind blowing, I felt guilty later. But I know I'd do it again with the right person, sexy boobs and clean hygiene. Sex with a girl is mind blowing. Try it once. Wink wink

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  18. I kill people...... in my head

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  19. i.love girls dat love girls... i can F a girl over n over agen... @ anon... ve got soft,firm n succulent boobs... n m very sexy...lol

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  20. Can I start guessing which of this anon is Thelma?

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    1. Lol. She'll probably read all the comments before dropping hers. Me...I didn't see liver to buy at yaba market so I'll just hang on some more :D

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    2. Try shoprite in Ikeja, plenty liver from chicken, lamb, cattle, etc I got some but the liver failed me.

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    3. Ha, egbon Wale. Chicken, lamb, cattle liver ke...even the one from etc. Haba na, it will fail you noni

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    4. Lol@ Memphis and wale. My secrets aren't secret anymore Jaree, bursted.

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  21. My brother in law tried to have sex with me on several occasions and this I will never mention to my sister. Said he's been fantasizing having sex with me since the night he accidentally walked in on me having my bath. *Crazy or what? I've forgiven him though. On those several occasions he dry humped me forcefully of course and I honestly put up a lot of fight if not he would have raped me. I always felt like Shit and would cry and ask God if I hadn't suffered enough for this kind of Shit to be happening to me. It is important for my sister that her siblings and her husband get along so I honestly have to be all smiles and laughter lest she suspects any fowl play. This I will never tell her because it will break her heart and I may be the one labelled as the jezebel so mba this secret dies here.

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    1. You are a fool.
      Better tell your sister and get the hell out of her house.
      For him to dry hump you shows the extent to which you've entertained this crap.
      Please, get out of her house and tell her- whether you're labelled a Jezebel or not.
      That man is a beast.
      Continuing to keep quiet, enjoy the humps and consequently "feel bad" afterwards makes you no different from him.
      Smh. Some ladies and their faux feelings of helplessness.
      I can't deal abeg. Bye!

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    2. No need calling her a fool ke!

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    3. *Sigh*. There really wasn't any need for that. Not everybody can be like you. Don't put yourself in her shoes if you're not her, her sister, or a member of her family. FYI in her shoes I wouldn't tell my sister either. I would much rather avoid him or leave the house than cause my sister that much pain. If I know for sure he's cheating on her I'll just drop hints for her to keep herself protected, but in the Anon's shoes I would not tell my sister, cannot break her heart that way.

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    4. Anyways I'm one person who makes excuses for ppl and despite what he did, I believe he is a good man and a wonderful husband to my sister, call me fool if you must, I seriously wouldn't put my sister and nieces through whatever the consequence of me telling her about what her husband did. I honestly did not enjoy a single moment of it I REALLY DIDN'T. However he did apologize for his actions and promised not to try it again because of the way I handled the last time he did that. Not every action deserves a harsh reaction as the case maybe. I saw it as some moments of weakness and for me that wasn't enough for me to label him a bad person. If he were a horrible husband to my sister then I might have told my sister or just hate him so much. I have no feelings for him or anything I just don't judge ppl like that. Truth is nobody is superhuman. You might think you would react the way you wrote about until it happens to you

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    5. I am proud of you Anon.
      -F

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    6. You are so sensible and humane, Anon.

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    7. You are so sensible and humane, Anon.

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    8. Very very sensible thing you did. But dont ever put yourself in a situation where it might repeat itself.

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  22. One time I went to visit my married friend and she took just a glass of Bailey's and was acting all tipsy and she told me she wanted to rest her head on my chest and the next thing I knew she pulled out my boobs and started sucking it. Now my boobs are my weak point so I let her the when she was done she gave me hers to suck which I did because I honestly I'm a boob person and she had a nice pair with really big nipples. I even fingered her and when she faked her orgasm I stopped pulled myself together and ran away. I honestly didn't know what came over me but I knew she was someone I needed to avoid for life. I was ridden with guilt and funny enough she wasn't the bi*** even pinged and suggested we have a threesome with her husband. Hmmmmmm . Well I didn't take her up on the offer considering how sexually adventurous I can be

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    1. She obviously wasn't tipsy. She had it all planned out.
      -F

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  23. Pls i need a lesbo frnd... tnx

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  24. Tee m bck in lag on hols frm schl... i need to revive my social life.. help a sistr..all billz on me# dats hw i roll#

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    1. We can hang out o, friendless married woman. All myy besties are either abroad or in abuja. CEO

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    2. We can hang out o, friendless married woman. All myy besties are either abroad or in abuja. CEO

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  25. Tee m bck in lag on hols frm schl... i need to revive my social life.. help a sistr..all billz on me# dats hw i roll#

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  26. Pls i need a lesbo frnd... tnx

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  27. The things we crave for or have secretly done can be scary. Honestly. Theree are some cravings I really want to have that are so unholy.
    1. I really want to fuck a girl (and I am female) the thought never leaves my mind, I have tried, prayed, and sometimes I just let the thought take over. I even comme simply thinking about it. Like right now. I'm already wet. It will even be a better experience if the relationship is paid for. (hahahah).
    2. I want to be part of a sex orgy, (maybe just once) after watching several seasons of spartacus. It's been on my mind.

    3. I want to watch people I know, have live sex in front of me. That turns me on like crazy.

    I haven't done any of these, but if I get the chance to do one, I'd go for number 1. Some pple I know say it's a crazy experince. Make I do am so my high blood pressure go come down. I'm one pretty chix o. Sultry Sue.

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    1. This is some bucket list shii right here...

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  28. The things we crave for or have secretly done can be scary. Honestly. Theree are some cravings I really want to have that are so unholy.
    1. I really want to fuck a girl (and I am female) the thought never leaves my mind, I have tried, prayed, and sometimes I just let the thought take over. I even comme simply thinking about it. Like right now. I'm already wet. It will even be a better experience if the relationship is paid for. (hahahah).
    2. I want to be part of a sex orgy, (maybe just once) after watching several seasons of spartacus. It's been on my mind.

    3. I want to watch people I know, have live sex in front of me. That turns me on like crazy.

    I haven't done any of these, but if I get the chance to do one, I'd go for number 1. Some pple I know say it's a crazy experince. Make I do am so my high blood pressure go come down. I'm one pretty chix o. Sultry Sue.

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  29. The things we crave for or have secretly done can be scary. Honestly. Theree are some cravings I really want to have that are so unholy.
    1. I really want to fuck a girl (and I am female) the thought never leaves my mind, I have tried, prayed, and sometimes I just let the thought take over. I even comme simply thinking about it. Like right now. I'm already wet. It will even be a better experience if the relationship is paid for. (hahahah).
    2. I want to be part of a sex orgy, (maybe just once) after watching several seasons of spartacus. It's been on my mind.

    3. I want to watch people I know, have live sex in front of me. That turns me on like crazy.

    I haven't done any of these, but if I get the chance to do one, I'd go for number 1. Some pple I know say it's a crazy experince. Make I do am so my high blood pressure go come down. I'm one pretty chix o. Sultry Sue.

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  30. The things we crave for or have secretly done can be scary. Honestly. Theree are some cravings I really want to have that are so unholy.
    1. I really want to fuck a girl (and I am female) the thought never leaves my mind, I have tried, prayed, and sometimes I just let the thought take over. I even comme simply thinking about it. Like right now. I'm already wet. It will even be a better experience if the relationship is paid for. (hahahah).
    2. I want to be part of a sex orgy, (maybe just once) after watching several seasons of spartacus. It's been on my mind.

    3. I want to watch people I know, have live sex in front of me. That turns me on like crazy.

    I haven't done any of these, but if I get the chance to do one, I'd go for number 1. Some pple I know say it's a crazy experince. Make I do am so my high blood pressure go come down. I'm one pretty chix o. Sultry Sue.

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    1. Dang!! Me too. I want to have sex with a fellow girl... The thought literally makes me quiver down below (quivering as I type now). Am so a boobs kinda girl, want to suck the girls boobs so bad and get mind sucked too.

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  31. @ sultry sue; same here. I haven't done it before aswell but would love to fuck a girl and wouldn't mind getting paid or being taken care of by the other female. I'm beautiful with a firm breast and BIG sexy nipples and I'm very clean down there..even if I don't get fucked,I just want her hands all over me,touching me,rubbing me,kissing me,sucking my nipples till.....getting all wet now at the thought of having a girl fuck me...oh jeez!

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  32. My secret is also the bane of my problem. When I was about 12 years old, I had a female neighbour who lived very close to our house. When Mum and pop aren't around, she wld some times help stay with. Me. At some point. She would ask me to suck he boobs that it helps her study better, since she used to help me with assignments and all. I sucked gladly. Her vvisits became even more regular, so did the sucking. Although I nevver went beyond sucking her boobs and fondling, she left a deep desire in me.
    I never told anyone, cos I started enjoying the whole thing and looked forward to her visits.
    It got so bad that even when we were out side probably strolling or going to get stuff at night, we would spend hours fondling and filling up each other. She was about 10 years older than me.

    Till this day, I'm so attracted to females, I am married with kids, but all I think of. Is being with a girl and honestly I don't trust myself if the opportunity. Presents itself.

    I guess from what I'm reading, pple have this crush too. Worried mum

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    1. This is so similar to my secret. As a result if mine I grew up battling my desire for women and I still do. I was younger than 12 and it was with the maid. I didn't feel molested, in fact I started to enjoy it and look forward for it. When I watch porn it's only lesbian porn I can enjoy.

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  33. 266c........strictly frm dem gurls..

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  34. I'd like to fuck a gurl.. dat feeln tho.. swt stuff... bck hme frm schl,n i need to hangout n ve some fun... missed all d fun here in lagos!!! Ms tee

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    1. geeeez...eyes rolling

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  35. Na wa o... watzup with all these "sex with a girl thing ehn.. egba mi o

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  36. Lmao.Thelma are u seeing with me ni?Dis lesbo stuff is really serious!Erryone wants to fuck a girl,girls inclusive....

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    1. i thought those are just attention seeking comments since there are no contacts or maybe they want to raise our blood pressure up

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    2. The same person is writing the same thing in different ways, and also responding to her posts.

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  37. Pls contacts shd roll in abg.. instead of gettn wet lets hlp ourselves..#flips hair n shakes bum#

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  38. LOL, at flips hair and shakes bum. Today na today.

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  39. dis comments are strong o!na wa o,dis my break in lag,one week av passed and av nt had any fun,feel lyk cryn.I need frnds asap o

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    1. aswear dis blog is turning to something else
      inbox me.... tunde7made@gmail.com

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  40. I'm typically the kind of girl u wld call introverted and responsible so it was a huge shock to me wen I did what I did back in university.

    I had traveled from school to see my BF in abuja, after all the hugs and kisses, the guy gave me just 5k o, with stories of sending more the next week. I was angry and called up a frnd. (there are some crazy friend I had back then sha).

    This friend convinced me to stay a day with her bfor heading back to school, after ranting abt the BF issue, she took me out to see a few frnds. Politicians and other big boys she rolls with. In one day, I got over 600k. The silly tins I had to do from 10am to 8pm. I fucked 5 guys in a day @ different times, and I got cash for it, it wasn't planned out at all.
    The crazy thing is that I enjoyed every moment of my wildness.

    10 years after, I still wonder wat thhe heck I did,

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    1. geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez

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    2. I'm curious if you used the money for anything tangible, I find the use of such monies unprofitable at the end.

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  41. Thelma has opened PANDORA's BOX. You asked for it o, Ii wonder what's coming next. C.E.O

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    1. Lol. She asked for it and now she's quiet. I don't blame her jor, dis is very overwhelming. Lol

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    2. Yes she has o! I initially skipped the post, but out of curiosity I came back to read to know who has detected Thelma's comment and I keep picking my jaw from the floor. Please, I judge no one, just simply gobsmacked!

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    3. Can someone detect a comment that's yet to be made?

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  42. Wow!!! I don't want to believe we have this much lesbian wanna B's in this blog, ok o.that is some 10am to 8pm of life.J

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  43. I was 17 yrs, wen i had sex with my sister's husband.he spoilt me with cash & i sometimes left d campus to lodge with me.he was addicted to me, i was addicted to d cash, i think i had abt 5 abortions for him.fast forward 8 yrs later, God gave me a second chance in life.amongs my countless sins i was able to stop d affair, never knew i could be dis strong.though he tried seducing me at diff times bt my no is still my no. #. I have dis thing for secret affairs, i guess its bcus of my past. I dated my inlaws friend while i was still banging my inlaw. # i and one of my bestie does d girl thing, i practically avoid friends cuz my name always make headlines. # pple respect me a lot cuz they feel i have a great personality, i feel they over rate me cuz they dont really me.i am a gemini two faced kinda person, bitter sweet at dsame time.

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    1. #picking my jaw from the floor! Am definitely old school!# ahahahaha.

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    2. Still considering who takes the prize... eleyi ga o

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  44. Lmao@flips hair and shakes bum

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  45. You know that omowumi's man tosin yusuf, I had a one night stand with him while we were at uni together and it remained a one night thing because he has the smallest dick in the world. I have never told anyone Cus we were all in a group of friends so didn't want to make things awkward. When I went home for the summer after our tryst, he went and started asking my best friend out. I didn't tell her anything sha maybe she also slept with him and discovered he was a "waste". Good luck to omawunmi and a life time of shit sex.
    Ps: I'm not jealous o I'm very happily married, just seeing his pics everywhere over the weekend is making me laugh. I just had to go anon but I know if thelma traces my ip address she will know who I am in case she wants more gist Lool

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    1. tongue out* absolutely tasteless, you shouldn't have called him out, maybe coded his name hian!
      my husband has a small dick too yet we have the most amazing sex life. Its not the size but the motion in the boat!

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    2. This is so not nice, put yourself in Omawunmi's shoes na! Umu nwanyi sef!

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  46. Hmmm, I kissed a girl in secondary school.

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  47. I love to watch naked and funny on dstv, and theres this chic with ginormous knockers. I look forward to seeing her on every episode because its an instant turn on for DH and I. Sex is always amazing after that.

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  48. Issorait ooooo, my ear haff full, hian!!!
    L.

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  49. Chai! The kind of things I did?! Had sex with 2 sisters while in uni. Crazy girls though. when they found out, I was ready for a huge scene in school but instead, I was punished with a menage-a-trois!!

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    1. Wow! Menage-a-trois, dats wat I'm talking abt. I'd love to be a part of that someday!

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  50. Been just a come and go reader.. never comment. But d number of comments in dis post ehn... 100comments! Na wa oooooo. Peoole get secrets sha! Crossing my legs and waiting for more comments to flow in...

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    1. My sister, I tot I ws d only 1 looking and waiting ooo,100+ comments. Thelma dear, thumbs up..........

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  51. What's your. Own secret Mariam...make we hear. CEO

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    1. I dont think I have any oooo.... u sef can cast person sha.... u saw my name dere yet u want me to reveal my hidden secret ehn... still crossing my legs...waiting to read more

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I'll only make one request; that we stay civil. 

(F it was you who made this suggestion, right? I'm not too sure and I can't even remember the post the comment was made on). 
BTW please Ejoeccome out come out, wherever you are!

Adventures, Fun, Friendship & Laughter at the TTB Hangout (Lekki Conservation Center).

Nicole to Clare: mummy lets go. I want to climb that ropy thing!

Isn't Clare beautiful?!

Uyi et moi. Clowning. 

Mother & child. 


Scary af! Trish on the ramp. The chica loves the outdoors so much, she was like a kid in a candy store. She and Uyi took this walk twice! More power to them, you can't pay me to do this a second time.


Uyi & Tiwa

Giveaway Finale!

Happy Sunday y'all. 
This is the conclusive part of #WCG. 
All the N25,000 recipients have received their cash.
All the students have also received their N10,000. 
Once again guys please comment under any of the posts, or this one that you've received your money. Thanks. 

So moving forward, this final giveaway contains 
1. N10,000 for 5 people. 

2. 3 kimonos from Julian's dressmakers. 
3. 3 pairs of Palm slippers from WaleOnibata. (Gents) 
4. 2 pairs of shoes from Courtney's Closet. (Ladies. Size 9 and Size 11). 

5. 1 human hair wig from Gabby's Wigs'n'Weaves. You pick from one of the wigs below. 
6. 3 cakes from CakesandCream 

7. A getaway at CitiHeight Hotel Ikeja for 3 people. (Who can each bring one person along).  


As I said earlier, Kon has already won a stay at CitiHeight and Clare, a kimono. So those gifts are now available for 2 people each. 
There is no competition. We are only going to play a game. 
I have each gift item listed out in numbers. Number 1 to 100. …