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In this social media age it's so easy to sit in one's room and feel somewhat drowned by discontent. For me, sometimes I get on Facebook or Instagram and I leave feeling like life is just not fair! Others are LIVING life and I'm here doing what? I see pictures of old classmates and friends in all the exotic locations of the world. For some; Paris today, Tokyo next week, Italy next month and Greece the month after. I see some perpetually clad in the latest fashion, clutching the most expensive designer bags and wearing the maddest shoes. Some are living the champagne life because life is just so good, work pays in a month what their parents only dreamed of making in a year or two. Then those with not only the attractive spouse, but the cute as a button kids and of course the luxurious lifestyle; boat cruises on foreign waters, private jets and anything else they freaking want!

It's so easy to forget how immensely blessed one is when we're looking at and comparing ourselves to others. We also forget that some of these pictures are deliberately taken to show the picture perfect side of life and some of their lives are nothing like what they put out on social network. Nobody is going to share or post pictures of when they're on the grind, when they're sad or depressed or in tears, when their bosses are treating them like shite, when their significant others are being abusive or unfaithful, when life is beating them down or when things just aren't so Insta-perfect. 
     Some took some very unscrupulous methods to get to where they are meanwhile you stay envying, wishing, hoping, praying and 'tapping' into their blessings. 

We must realize that to actually have a device that enables one view these things is a blessing in itself. We also fail to realize that there are some people who would give anything to be where we are or have what we have. And while we are there wishing and hoping we become oblivious to the greatness and gifts deposited in us. The bottom line basically is you're alive, you're healthy, you have love in your life, you have food to eat, you have or had an education, and you're reading this so

                                                   Stay Thankful!

Good morning guys!


  1. Sasha Ke'kwanu? Biko come & leave a comment. LOL

    If there's ONE thing I Keep Thanking God for, It's the "Simplicity of My Eyes & Heart".
    I am NEVER moved by material things. The only things I get jealous about is marriage & kids & that necessary jareee. Rme.
    I don't strive for riches like instagram elites. Just the basic is fine by & for me, Food, Cloth, Shelter & a lil change to help others!

    So YES! I'm THANKFUL to U, Jehovah.
    Have a blessed day Lovelies.

    Subomi, I miss here oh. How's our baby?

  2. Am grateful & thankful... ms tee

  3. We also forget that some of these pictures are deliberately taken to show the picture perfect side of life and some of their lives are nothing like what they put out on social network. Nobody is going to share or post pictures of when they're on the grind, when they're sad or depressed or in tears, when their bosses are treating them like shite, when their significant others are being abusive or unfaithful, when life is beating them down or when things just aren't so Insta-perfect.

    THAT'S ALL. Forget what you see on social media, all na show. Dabota Lawson will upload pictures in a boat or looking like a queen in designer clothes but she will never upload the pictures where she's almost puking when she's sucking the dick of a man old enough to be her father.

    1. Am thankful baba God...always thankful for making me and my family see a brand new day...its worth thanking ,hian!!no need to mention name na...its her choice....that naughty house wife

    2. Yeah, seriously. U don't have to mention names, as much as we don't see wats behind the glamour, she could be living her dreams irrespective of how u see it. Dats all! But be Thankful for ur own self, Simple.

  4. Uhmnnn @ "Some took some very unscrupulous methods to get to where they are meanwhile you stay envying, wishing, hoping, praying and 'tapping' into their blessings" Lord have mercy!

    Well, i'm thankful... for everything(protection, provision, peace of mind, good health...I can go on and on)

    Last General CDS day! *singing* because i'm happy!!!!!!

  5. Am I the only one who finds it rediculous that men go akward in touching or buying lingerie? Yet they the same ones dragging and ripping in off u when the time arises?

  6. lol, but what's that got to do with anything?

  7. Its a lot harder to be thankful in these times, especially with the whole social media era. In fact, I have a friend who is not on instagram, facebook etc for this very reason. But like Ruth said, I also, am not moved by all these things. I am constantly reminding myself every single day, the importance of that one word...''Contentment''. Thanks for this post Thelma, it really helps put a lot of things in perspective. The only thing we really should be bothered about, is becoming a better version of ourselves and this is why I am very careful about the people I let in and the people I surround myself with...very important. Yes sometimes, it may feel like God has forgotten you but trust me He hasn't, it may just appear so at that time especially when you start to compare yourself to your ''mates''. Don't be fooled by instagram and co. The grass isn't always greener on the other side, its what I've learned. You don't know how the next person is getting/making their money so just focus on being you and doing you and surround yourself with positive people who would lift you up. #LifeCheck #FriendCheck

  8. reading the picture, I just thought of Instagram. Everyone is rich on INstagram. that's where everything displayed is perfect, good or new house, shoe, cars, engagement, graduation et al. just be happy, grateful and contended. if you are still hungry then put in more effort and focus on yours and yours only.


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