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The Alaafin of Oyo and His Sparkling Wives Take London.

Sorry Myne Whitman I had to steal from you, but I'm "Intrigued". 

The Alaafin of Oyo, Oba Lamidi Olayiwola Adeyemi and his 4 wives celebrated his 76th birthday recently [here], and have been photographed as they went shopping in London, at the Westfield Mall.

The wives treated their husband (the King) to a relaxing manicure whilst onlookers were posing for pictures with Nigeria's foremost Royals. They later relaxed with a movie at VUE cinemas.

DJ Abass was also spotted bowing to the King as well as other Nigerians and non-Nigerians who came across the royal family all dressed in similar attire.

See more pics below...

I have so many questions to ask but I'm not sure what's socially acceptable so I'll confine my questions and opinions to the Round Table. 

Speaking of Round Tables I'm thinking once in a while I'll like to have a sit down with a few readers (about two or three at a time) and hash out some issues. We've got some very interesting, opinionated and intelligent characters right here. I chat with a few via email and I'm thinking at some point in the foreseeable future a few of us should meet up occasionally and discuss our divergent views, thoughts, opinions and personal experiences in person. 

Just a thought for now...


  1. Wyclefs' ''cash rules everything around me...'' is on replay in my head.

    1. Jes like Swerve will say, "WHEN U HAVE THE MONEY, UR BIATCHES FALL IN LINE"

      *lips sealed and watching*

  2. Hmmm..once you have the Benjamin's,you get what you that alariwo of africa in black and white?that his baby wife is trying oh..she cant be more than 25.....sure she was a gift to the oba...smh.....#irepseptember 9##that naughty house wife

    1. She looks like a lost puppy. I feel a bit sorry for her. All the money in the world cannot make me enjoy 'doing' my grandfather's agemate.

  3. Yeiy!!!!! Finally I have an account no more anonymous *dancingsekem* by the by the young gurl dou hmmmmm. love you heaps T.

    1. *Drum rolls*

      Welcome on board and enjoy ur stay

      *lips sealed and watching*

  4. He has more than 4 wives though, I'm sure they are over 20 and they are all light skin

    1. Did you say 20? I'm sure its over 30 and they live in different mansions all over Oyo and Ibadan. Only few stay with him in the Palace

  5. Ipale (waffy for BABA) wey marry 4 wives (like i read on the comment section; dem pass 4) with all of dem looking like whitenicious models...Pls what is there to be awed about? can somebody please tell me what impact this Ipale has made cos I am not from Oyo. Na d small one I pity pass she looks out of place....#JoyDaNuGirl

    1. I guess you are not from my part of the country or you are too ajeborra to know but the awed is about the importance of the personality, same way you would look at some world leaders.

      Just want to address the part about the impact he has made in Oyo, you have to understand the role of traditional rulers in Yorubaland to be able to address this. They maintain peace in their domains; while it may be arguable that some of them don't do well, we must remember that the realities of the present time has helped in the destruction of these institutions.
      Alaafin stands for something big in Yorubaland except to the politicians. Iku baba yeye, kabiyesi o.

      Don't get carried away by what I wrote, I admire these traditions and cultures but only from far away. I ain't getting close to find out what else is there.

  6. I'm kind of clueless when it comes to matter of this nature but I'm curious about one thing. How does he pick his wives? Does he pick them because they are yellow or does he pick them because they have nice bodies then he forces them to bleach or does he have a scout/agent that goes searching for girls that fit his lust?

    1. Oh, another thing I'm curious about is how I can start supplying them asoebi. I wonder if they were matching pyjamas too, Hmmm...

    2. It is actually a combination of all you have listed above, some of the women make themselves visible for selection. Alaafin himself is bleaching and surely must have affinity for "yellow labels" so any woman hoping to be selected better bleach.
      People looking for opportunities from him also uses some of these women as baits, you don't want to know how many are on the queue to be taken. Some of the women are also snatched from their poor husbands, abeg not a good life at all.

      You can't win the contract to supply asoebi, some of the wives sell this already and also get a whole lot of the asoebi and many more items as gifts from patrons.

    3. Lmao, come Wale are you sure you're not related to the family in any way?

    4. Bruhahaha! At all, I am a man of culture and have been around some of these folks. I lived in Oyo town for a while and have some idea of what goes on there. And at least three of the kings in Yorubaland were close to my dad when he was alive.

      I resolved to stay away from palaces after an interesting experience I had back then. I went with my uncle to visit one of the kings but was shocked when my uncle warned me not to get up after prostrating to the king. Was told that you don't get up until the king ask you to, this king left us there oh and I slept off on the floor! I was really mad at that kind of practice.
      I do realize the kings are well respected but just didn't want to be the one to go through such.

  7. I too have 2 questions to ask, but I would respectfully keep quite. Long live to the Alaafin of Oyo!

    1. Please ask your questions joor, I believe we are open minded here and we all learn from each other everyday.

    2. Ahahahaha. OK Wale, these questions are directed to you since you have a fore- knowledge about the royalties.

      My questions thus:
      1) Does his excellency carry out blood work on any of the women before marriage to know their medical status? I ask, because any slight mistake would be fatal to his household.

      2) Does his excellency eats meals prepared by all his wives or has a special chef? I ask because I know for a fact that in any such setting, every wife wants his 100% love and attention.


    3. Interesting questions..

      (1) I doubt if any blood work is carried out, these people are like the rest of us in so many areas. And many of them believe in juju to ward evil away, I don't know if that works or not; that would be one of the things I will rather not find out.

      (2) Special chef ke! Nothing like that for most of them, the food plan is usually coordinated by the olori agba (the eldest wife). Forget about all the yellow pawpaw you see in the pictures here, they are wives quite alright but they don't have a say that much in the scheme of things back in the palace.
      Some kings uses the favorite of the wives for food handling but then, any of the wives could be the favorite at any time, depending on how tactful they can play the game. Polygamous home is filled with intrigues, it is worse in those palaces.

    4. @Wale thanks for ALLLLL your answers....lolzzz...seriosly are you sure you have never worked with the Oba before? is there something you are not telling us? You seem to know EVERYTHINH about him and his women; Internal & External affairs put together! Big smile on ma face! and for the record...I know the duties of an Oba...I am an Edo babe, we get Oba too! ....#JoyDaNuGirl

  8. I don't even have words here....hmmmm

  9. It's amazing that none of them look as old as he is. They all look like they could be his daughters.

  10. " Oyo loso, inu re ba loso, Oyo naro, inu e loso sibe," Baba, Iku baba yeye o, Happy Birthday and Many Happy Returns.


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