That sounds like the name of a Nollywood movie I know, but it isn't. It's just something that baffles me, especially when I see comments like the one below.
"if u are tired of his cheating still go back home since he didn't threaten you like my husband who whenever he makes me angry and I tell him i want to leave him and run away he will swear that I will never leave him that our marriage is 2gether 4ever that if I dare he will kill me and kill our daughter too, but I still love him alot cos behind that harsh controlling man there's a good man who loves me like hell, just that his love is wicked but he doesn't cheat on me or beat me never! But he controls me a lot."
So today I saw a number of comments from women dating or married to (emotionally) abusive men. I was both appalled and amused to see that a large number of them think it's a sign of love when a man threatens them, either threatens to beat them, threatens to kill them or threatens to kill their kids. They said "it's a sign of love". A few said when a man is so mean or wicked it's because he loves you, it's love that drives him to the point where he becomes so agitated and threatens your life.
I would have laughed this off had I not seen quite a number of people who agree with this line of reasoning. This question might be inane but I need to ask it because usually when a guy shows me a little bit of viciousness I fleeeeee. But have I been wrong all this time? Could it be that it's his love for me that pushes him? Is love "wicked"?
Above comment: Laila's blog.