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An Erect Penis Doesn't Have a Conscience

Gabrielle: It's like my grandmother always said: An erect penis doesn't have a conscience.
Lynette: Even the limp ones aren't that ethical. 

The above is one of the most memorable dialogues from the beloved Desperate Housewives

Do men really have no control over their erect penises? Doesn't that make them as lowly as dogs? No matter how often I hear this or how stupid I see some men act I refuse to believe that all men have wandering penises that cannot be controlled. In fact, I refuse to believe that they cannot be controlled!

It makes me wonder if the unconscionable nature of the man's penis is the reason its misdeeds are easily excusable or forgiven, but a woman who dares step into another man's bed is immediately crucified; no room for trial, apologies or explanations? 

Recently a blog reader sent me the link to a video of a wife who cheated in the USA, a Nigerian woman, Igbo to be precise. She is the Head Nurse at the hospital where she works and she was sleeping with a janitor (a cleaner). Word got out and there were some whispers. A few people asked her about it and she vehemently denied this accusation; Me? How? Janitor? Tufia kwa! Never! 

The janitor got wind of this and became offended. So one night he invited her over to his place and they had sex as usual. Unknown to her he recorded their sexcapade and as revenge he put it all out there for the world to see. 

As at when the blog reader sent me a link where this was under discussion, the woman had come under so much fire and brimstone that she was currently being kept on suicide watch. I followed the thread and there was no type of insult or name that she wasn't called. A wife, mother, married woman! Why should she cheat? People suggested all kinds of things that should be done to her and all kinds of punishments that should be heaped on her. A married woman cheated, and with the janitor no less? Stone her to death!!!

Will this double standard ever end? The man can sleep with the maid, nanny or secretary and his wife is told to pray, pray and pray some more. A woman cheats and he, his family and society all join hands to pack up her load and throw her out of her home. WHY? 


In your opinion, what's the reason for this double standard and do you think a day will ever come where there will be double standards no more?

"Gabrielle: It's like my grandmother always said: An erect penis doesn't have a conscience.
Lynette: Even the limp ones aren't that ethical."

True or False?

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  1. I think an erect, limp, bent or flat penis can do NO harm!!! It's only attached to a body that controls it.
    It's only men with NO conscience that uses it wrongly. Simple!

    1. W.O.R.D.

    2. I love your ageless is not about the erection,it is all about the kind/quality of man behind the erection...Sam

  2. He cheated and i forgave him, i just cant stop thinking about it. its so hard to trust him now, i feel like he's taking advantage of me because hes my first and this aint the first time im finding out. We keep breaking up and coming back together. CAn this be love, Its fucking crazy!

    1. It's not love. Please move on.

    2. It's nowhere close to love.

    3. It's nowhere close to love.

  3. I remember when we tried to look at the difference between Feminism and Womanism in my masters class. I dont think this double standards will ever stop, neither do i think men and women woud be treated the same way or accorded the same respect. Its amazing how its ok for a man to do something and all hell is let loose when a woman plys the same route! For some men its an ego thing. For some women they are trying to be even. The man is built to dominate while the woman is wired to be submissive.
    Whatever you choose to do in life let it be based on personal convinction. Oriegwu!

  4. Lol @ dat title. True True True.

  5. Like they say,its a man's world,that's y men tend to go free n women get attackd all the tym

  6. N I dnt believe that all men r uncontrollable

  7. If a man that sleeps around is likened to a dog, why would any woman want to earn the same tag in the name of being treated as equal??

  8. If a man who sleeps around is likened to a dog, have you guys ever seen a bitch in heat? It is not a dog that pursues the bitch, but the other way round. A he-goat is the champion in randy not a dog!

    Back to the matter. The reason why guys (and society generally) are so unforgiving to cheating women is that women cannot have sex without attaching emotion to it. Someone will soon ask me about prostitutes and my answer is that it applies to them too because they do not kiss their customers. While not defending any man's irresponsibility in being randy, men tend not to be emotional about it. Havent you all noticed that the randiest men always have the prettiest wives who are so very in love with them?

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