Hello Thelma, my question is simple; do men change? I know it's stupid to expect a man to change after marriage but the guy I'm dating who recently started hinting at marriage used to be a serious playboy. I told him I don't know if I can marry a man like him but he said that in his defence he played around because he didn't see those relationships as commitments and he doesn't think he did anything wrong, but a wife is someone he makes vows to, somebody he promises to love and never hurt till death do them part, he will make this promise before man and God and he will honour it. Now I am worried, I know they say men don't change after marriage and that most times they become worse but what my bf said makes sense and he sounded sincere. He hasn't officially proposed but I'm now confused about what to say if he does, especially as our families have just met.
Pls help me post this so that I can know what people think.
Personally I would like to hear from guys, is there a possibility of a man changing his (player) ways after marriage and is his logic honest and valid; he wasn't faithful in the past because he didn't owe it to the women in his life to be?