With no offense to anyone.. T can we have a post on how to put on weight pls? This may be hard to believe but there are actually people having sleepless nights over this. We may belong to the minority but it still remains a cause for concern, especially when it involves one's self esteem which isn't helped any by the "African man's love for fleshy women" theory. It's fast becoming an obsession for me and I worry everyday all day, which in turn isn't helping my struggle to gain some weight any.
Dear Poster I saw the above picture on Instagram last night just after I saw your request, and her post sounded just like yours. If you're on Instagram you can follow @bodynomics, they primarily cater to those of us who want to shed weight but they have a few weight-gain tips.
Please I need to ask o! Do African men really love fleshy women? Because yesterday's post (for instance) written by an African man suggests quite the opposite. Also when I'm out I don't see many "African" men with fleshy women. So what gives?
I also know that some are attracted to fleshy women but because they don't look so good or appealing when you go out with them, they rather date skinny women who look much better on their arms. This is something I've observed over time. My friend who likes plus size women was dating one but always refused to take her anywhere or introduce her to anyone. Classic Ashamer/Ashamee situation. He eventually dumped her and married a size 8 lady. Secretly he craves a bigger woman but most men don't want to be carry about an Iya Akpati when their friends have Naomi Campbells by their sides...
So please while you offer weight gain tips, let's discuss African men's love for fleshy women; Reality Or Myth?