So in the past few days I've seen things, and to the blog reader who asked, yes I'm still in the village. (I've got things to do in the East and the South in the coming days/weeks so for now I'm still here). And just in a few days I've learnt of several domestic disputes which arose from the kind of marriage that was or wasn't done, which leads me to ask what you think the most important form of marriage in Nigeria is, and why?
Is it the Traditional marriage, the Court marriage, or the Church wedding?
Over time I've noticed that everywhere I go to visit, every neighbour, every friend or relative seems to have someone in their family facing issues arising from the kind of marriage ceremony that was performed. Apparently some people just do one and move ahead with their lives. This often leads to unforeseen and unexpected road bumps in the future.
So if you had to advice a person to do one (there are sometimes, and for a number of reasons only one can be done instead of all three) which would it be, and why?