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True or False?

Even before the Three-Month rule, girls have been of the opinion that if they hold out on sex long enough then a man will eventually show his true colours and his true intentions. Also, some of us, especially when we're younger tend to believe that a guy who waits for as long as you want him to without pressuring you into sex must be God-sent. 

This made/makes a lot of sense to me but I remember some seven years or so ago a man I was seeing at the time made this same statement above. He said girls who were holding out on sex were merely wasting their time because you can only know a man's true intentions and feelings towards you ONLY after he has had sex with you. 


So ladies and gentlemen, do you agree with this assertion, and why?
Have you been like me who held out on sex and still eventually got burnt OR have you been more fortunately than I was, you held out on sex and it paid off/worked in your favour?

Do tell!

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  1. I really want to know WALE more.....nothing shady I just want b a friend...Thelma can u help me? plssssss

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  2. One fact is that once a guy sleeps with a lady, the tendency that he would be less interested in her is about very high, I'd say 70 percent.

    Also T, I saw the bedsheet man, he was awesome. I got good stuff. Thanks a bunch. CEO

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  3. One fact is that once a guy sleeps with a lady, the tendency that he would be less interested in her is about very high, I'd say 70 percent.

    Also T, I saw the bedsheet man, he was awesome. I got good stuff. Thanks a bunch. CEO

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  4. U know a guy's true intention after SEX because d tendency of a guy being with you after SEX is actually low,I remember I once told a guy no sex in our relationship and he waited,but guess what,after a YEAR and we finally shagged dis guy bounced me. Though I believe wen u meet your LIFE partner,he wouldn't bother about shagging.

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  5. Actually it goes both ways. U either bouce or he bounces after the sex. If neither of u has a mutual connection,someone is bound to get hurt in the end...

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  6. One fact is that once a guy sleeps with a lady, the tendency that he would be less interested in her is about very high, I'd say 70 percent.

    Also T, I saw the bedsheet man, he was awesome. I got good stuff. Thanks a bunch. CEO

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  7. This is one of those catch-22 situations! It could swing either way - he runs when there's no sex or waits until he gets it and moves on. This is one them times when my mouth go quiet. Ladies, you see, you have to be very careful how you present the no-sex thing because I have been in one of those situations when sex was a no-no but the way it was presented kinda turned it into a no-matter-what-I-will-see-her-pant kind of situation. It turned into a conquest and it took 9 months. From experience, if the guy agrees too fast to it, no gree o!

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  8. There is no hard and fast rule to this..it is rather important people follow their minds as the consequences can be either or. So do exactly what it is you want to do, sex on the first nite, 3 months or declare your abstinence. Either way its your decision to live by as you have no control over anyone else.

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  9. Sex sex sex! Its just a stamp on the Certificate of Emotions for either a man or woman, so if one Party holds out on putting a stamp on, it affects the emotional integrity of d relationship. it is only sad that most men want multiple Certifications.

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    1. Lol @ multiple certifications. You make it sound like it's a professional course.

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  10. It's not true dt u can only know a mans intentions and true feelings towards u after he has had sex with u. U can also know that as a woman by activating ur sixth sense. But d fact still remains dt, 70% or more of guys tend 2 loose interest in a (single woman esp) after having sex with them, coz d "see finish syndrome" now sets in.





    *i hold my lips...and just dey observe*

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  11. Hmm...so "Eazee E" and "Eesah Was Here" are actually different people? Hmm...

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  12. Sasha bone, abi you want to make us Siamese? Do you sense that we have similar views on issues? Lol!!

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    1. I kinna always read the names Eazee and Eesah as one person until today...my bad!

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    2. Me too... D names are always merging in my sub-conscious!
      On the matter of my opinion, its bn aired Anyways, by my anonymous alter ego!

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