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Angels, Demons and Guessing Games.

Hey guys! It's been a pretty hectic day, I didn't get the dress and I turned Balogun market upside down, the clothes were either the wrong colour, too big, too small or totally different. I also got in touch with a tailor who's said to be good at making 'express' clothes. Initially she said she could deliver but after keeping me waiting for a few hours I called her and she said I should find an alternative as she presently doesn't have the resources. I then went back to the post office to check if by some chance my dress had come and of course it hadn't. So it turns out I'll be attending the wedding as a guest and it hurts but hey, I did all I could...

To the blog reader whose comment I posted, the note I added wasn't for you alone and I'm sorry if my tone was rude, I was having a rough day and like an Anon observed I can sometimes come off as rude, especially on days like this. I guess it's one of those flaws that haven't been properly dealt with. 

So I once told you guys about an Ex I wanted to end . He's been calling ever since then asking to meet up and insisting he apologize in person. Of course with the hurt and grief I still felt I wasn't going to, but if there's a persistent person I've ever met it has to be him. Finally today I gave in and agreed to meet somewhere open and neutral, after all it was just an apology, right?

So I got there and he was already waiting. Normally when going to meet up with an Ex who shattered your heart for the first time in three years you'd want to look smoking hot, yet with this one I found I couldn't just be bothered. First off I have no regards for him so it's completely pointless, secondly he's married so it's completely pointless. 

So I got there and yes, he looked good. Three years later and he still looked hot, hotter actually; he's obviously been hitting the gym real hard. "So oga this is me, here I am, what's the deal?", I asked. I swear it was as if I saw this dude three days ago and not three years ago (Oh, I think I saw him and wifey somewhere some months back but they didn't see me). Long story short he apologized as he said he wanted to, but more was to come. 

"I know I fucked up, I know I messed up bla bla bla. We were younger then, I did stupid things, I got carried away with the moment bla bla bla. I really want us to be friends again, I really want us to be GOOD friends... Yeah I know we're not enemies, I just, can't we just be good friends, like before... Please. Bla bla bla. Bottom line; I want you back"

Wait WHAT???

"Err, sorry. You're married, yes?"

"*babblemumble*Married? Did you attend my wedding? How do you know I'm married?"

"Wait are you married or not?"

"We'll talk about that the next time we see"

"Next time? I told you I'd come and I did and that's that"

"Why are you being so hard on me? Look I know I f*cked up but the demon you know is better than the angel you don't know"

Did this guy just say that??? OMG.

A few minutes later I got up and left. 

I can't believe that after the hectic day I had I actually came out for this. Leopards never change their spots, people DO NOT change. I just read a few days ago that scientific research had shown that cheaters do not change; once a cheater always a cheater and today I've confirmed that this is true. 

Now on to more interesting things biko! So I just saw Fade's IG post and I don't know about you but I'm curious about who she might have been referring to. To be honest a few seconds into the post Banky W flashed through my mind but something in me knows that IT IS NOT BANKOLE WELLINGTON MY ONLY NIGERIAN MALE CELEB CRUSH. Lol. I had to shout that. I crush on Banky because I'm sapiosexual and I find that he is a very intelligent individual. 

So hey, who do you think Fade Ogunro was so mad at in her post? Let's play the Guessing Game!


  1. I think its banky W too and d firl of cos is NIYOLA..
    Am so sorry u cudnt get the dress sweets,d most important thing is that u wud be present.back to ur Ex,well,that's how they are,glad u didn't fall again,some gullible girls won't read d signs again.

  2. Ubi Franklin and Emma Nyra.
    It's NOT Banky in any way.

  3. Ubi franklin and emma nyra. Confirmed gist.

  4. Wants who back? He must be mad. Why do men leave and marry someone else then later come and start telling sob stories. Very pathetic.
    Guessing game; I refuse to believe that Emma Nyra will allow that short Calabar man touch her, so let me keep guessing becos it cannot be them and it cannot be Banky w. Don Jazzy nko?

    1. wanted 2 leave d Label last year. U and I know that Emma can't sing 2 save her life, that's Y she's still there and can't leave despite d trashing coz she feels like her career might jes die.
      And u kno there is no other female artiste dt fits d description. I don't see Don Jazzy trying dt 5hit with Tiwa, it ain't chidinma, Yemi Alade, Waje and Omawunmi either. Banky is a gentleman and is in a serious relationship, so Niyola is out of d pic.

      But that's BTW. The part dt got me bothered was whn Fade said "You jes mad the only girls u can get are my man's leftovers from five years ago".
      Why call other girls like herself leftovers? Even tho she must be pissed while writing this, I expected better!!

  5. But Ubi is not a CEO so are you all sure? He is just a manager.

  6. Some men can like 2 disrespect women sha. Is dz what he has been calling U for? Imagine, d niqqa still wants 2 keep u as his mistress after marriage. Kai

    @The guessing game = Ubi and Emma

    *lips sealed and watching*

    1. Essay! Missed you like eh!

  7. Sorry you couldnt fund anything in balogun and no tailor was able to come through for you.
    As for the ex, some people's existence is miserable and they want you to join them in their misery. If you had given the clown an audience, he will proceed to tell you he is in an unhappy marriage. If he was separated or divorced he would have stated it before suggesting anything else. I really still struggle why people feel the need to lie and be destructive forces in other peoples lives.
    As for the woman beating ceo, most people believe its the person that has been stated in the comment section multiple times.

  8. It's not Banky W.. Banky has a good heart. I've never met him, but you can just tell

  9. I smiled while reading your story about the ex, ode someborrry,i sha knew he can't be for real with the apologies.

    You really wanna apologize, what about doing something really great Annonymously for the person and then stay the HELL out of their life.EVEN heaven will thank you for that.

    I am glad it doesn't seem to be Banky W Fade is mad @,am totally crushing on the dude.Bro is so fineeeeeeeee

  10. Ermmmm,Thelms,so sorry about your dress....i trust your friend would understand.

    TGIF dear TTBs

  11. I dont know...lolzzz....#JoyDaNuGirl

  12. Guessing Game
    A little bird just whispered in my ears that the CEO is called man, he wears briefs,he has a banana shaped thing between his legs called pinini but the bird failed to mention his name.
    The girlfriend is also called woman,she has two orange shaped things on her chest and it is called breast,she has a rose shaped organ between her thighs called vjayjay but this little bird failed again to whisper the name of this lady. hhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmm WHO COULD THEY BE?
    Well I have tried my best Thelma.

  13. Why are some men so devilish! Hiaannn!
    nice decision T!

  14. Sorry about your Dress T. At least U are attending... They bride will be happy regardless.
    About the CEO, it's Ubi Franklin & Emma Nyra. I heard it from IG. But Fade Sha, aren't we all left overs from someone somehow....

    As for ur Ex, he just had to try T. I pity his wife. He's definitely a serial cheat T. Now when u count ur blessings, U count dodging him TWICE! And YES, Once a cheat, always a Cheat esp those that lack the fear of God...


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