Hey guys! It's been a pretty hectic day, I didn't get the dress and I turned Balogun market upside down, the clothes were either the wrong colour, too big, too small or totally different. I also got in touch with a tailor who's said to be good at making 'express' clothes. Initially she said she could deliver but after keeping me waiting for a few hours I called her and she said I should find an alternative as she presently doesn't have the resources. I then went back to the post office to check if by some chance my dress had come and of course it hadn't. So it turns out I'll be attending the wedding as a guest and it hurts but hey, I did all I could...
To the blog reader whose comment I posted, the note I added wasn't for you alone and I'm sorry if my tone was rude, I was having a rough day and like an Anon observed I can sometimes come off as rude, especially on days like this. I guess it's one of those flaws that haven't been properly dealt with.
So I once told you guys about an Ex I wanted to end . He's been calling ever since then asking to meet up and insisting he apologize in person. Of course with the hurt and grief I still felt I wasn't going to, but if there's a persistent person I've ever met it has to be him. Finally today I gave in and agreed to meet somewhere open and neutral, after all it was just an apology, right?
So I got there and he was already waiting. Normally when going to meet up with an Ex who shattered your heart for the first time in three years you'd want to look smoking hot, yet with this one I found I couldn't just be bothered. First off I have no regards for him so it's completely pointless, secondly he's married so it's completely pointless.
So I got there and yes, he looked good. Three years later and he still looked hot, hotter actually; he's obviously been hitting the gym real hard. "So oga this is me, here I am, what's the deal?", I asked. I swear it was as if I saw this dude three days ago and not three years ago (Oh, I think I saw him and wifey somewhere some months back but they didn't see me). Long story short he apologized as he said he wanted to, but more was to come.
"I know I fucked up, I know I messed up bla bla bla. We were younger then, I did stupid things, I got carried away with the moment bla bla bla. I really want us to be friends again, I really want us to be GOOD friends... Yeah I know we're not enemies, I just, can't we just be good friends, like before... Please. Bla bla bla. Bottom line; I want you back"
"Err, sorry. You're married, yes?"
"*babblemumble*Married? Did you attend my wedding? How do you know I'm married?"
"Wait are you married or not?"
"We'll talk about that the next time we see"
"Next time? I told you I'd come and I did and that's that"
"Why are you being so hard on me? Look I know I f*cked up but the demon you know is better than the angel you don't know"
Did this guy just say that??? OMG.
A few minutes later I got up and left.
I can't believe that after the hectic day I had I actually came out for this. Leopards never change their spots, people DO NOT change. I just read a few days ago that scientific research had shown that cheaters do not change; once a cheater always a cheater and today I've confirmed that this is true.
Now on to more interesting things biko! So I just saw Fade's IG post and I don't know about you but I'm curious about who she might have been referring to. To be honest a few seconds into the post Banky W flashed through my mind but something in me knows that IT IS NOT BANKOLE WELLINGTON MY ONLY NIGERIAN MALE CELEB CRUSH. Lol. I had to shout that. I crush on Banky because I'm sapiosexual and I find that he is a very intelligent individual.
So hey, who do you think Fade Ogunro was so mad at in her post? Let's play the Guessing Game!