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Tee plz help me post this. What do people think about getting extra help eg when a pastor gives you a particular soap or water to use and bath? I am a graduate in my late twenties but things have not been going well for me. I don't have a job although I do small business and I have no relationship, I have been single for more than two years. My mother's pastor gave her a soap to give me to use and that I should come and bathe in a stream. My mother is insisting I go there because her friends have gone there and it worked, I know my mother wants the best for me and she is very worried. The man is a pastor of a big Pentecostal church so I am confused. Is it Godly to use this extra methods to move ahead in life? I am asking because they say many people do these things but people don't come out to talk about it. When it happens everybody will congratulate them but they will not tell you what they did to get there. Please I want real advise, no judgement. Thanks


  1. Do u have the holy spirit?! If u do he will lead to all truth. The bible says we should test all spirits right, so pray about it and don't take any step without hearing a yes from God. Sometimes God uses foolish things to confound the wise.

    There are several times in the bible that Jesus himself asked people to go to the stream to wash themselves at certain times or he spits in mud to wipe the eyes of the blind man. Nowadays actions like that can be termed diabolical or foolish

    The most important thing is knowing u r following the leading of the holy spirit. It's not exactly what u r doing that matters because God's ways are not our ways.

    The prophets of old aslo carried out things like this in the past but I understand that now adays Nigerian fake prophets has turned everything into a money making business.

    Please pray well and be careful xx

    1. You spoke my mind


    2. I have refused soap usage in my bathroom in the past. How much more a stream? God help us all. Tolulope has said it all,but just to add, please if you still want to go on with it, your mum should accompany you to the place. You must not go alone with the pastor.

  2. Dear poster,I would say pray and ask for a leading. Personally I don't buy the idea of bathing with soap and at d stream just for a miracle,look for a Bible believing church,maybe MFM, CAC and any other genuine one you know and go for a deliverance session and lastly, go to God in prayer,deep yourself into his words,read the bible frequently, make his word ur food and ask him for the things u want him to change and you would surprised wat drastic change would take place. I wish you well.

  3. 1stJohn 4vs1-3.
    1stThess 5vs21.
    Eph 4vs14.
    Coll 2vs8.

    I wrote all down but it disappeared. Just read. If you can, read the full chapters so yuou don't read out of context. Don't let anyone decieve you.

  4. Haaa! Please I beg you! Do not!!! I repeat!!! Do not Go! I don't want to go into spiritual details... but trust me... that's not the solution. if anything, it'll compound the problem.(IMO)
    As a true child of God, God has given you power and nothing shall by any means hurt you. You have full/maximum authority and power in Jesus. Exercise it. This is why I love MFM, it is a do it yourself ministry where your hands are trained for war and your fingers to do battle(just like the psalmist in (Ps 144 v 1) .. you'll pray through by yourself for yourself. who says you can't call on the blood of Jesus to wash your head and the whole of your body. I'm not against seeking counseling or guidance on how to pray(go) about something from a true man of God, but when it starts reaching the realm of bathing at the stream with a particular kind of soap... something is definitely wrong somewhere.
    Dear Poster, like Tolu said, you need the Holy spirit(Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he shall guide you into all the truth Jhn 16 v 13)... seek God's face, on whatever it is you're passing through, on this bathing with soap at the stream matter, and he'll guide you aright. (Provs 3 v 5-6) God bless you.

    **arrrgh! Long story** abeg no vex! I just hope I made sense to the poster!

    Ruby and punintended... **side eye**

  5. If you trust God,u will knw thats a bad idea...the bible is our guide to life here on earth,if it is not in d bible pls dnt do it... Dnt let any1 deceive u

  6. Dear Poster,

    Please DO NOT go and take your bath at the stream with special soap or sponge.
    As children of God, we are supposed to rest on God's promises and His word for us. These "extra" things you are talking about go a long way to complicate a lot of lives. They take away one thing and leave you with 5 different things that will keep you coming back for more help. The bible says that God has given us authority.. Exercise your authority in Christ Jesus. Take your destiny in your hands and pray your way to breakthrough by yourself. Also, look for promises that God has made concerning each problem and confess them daily. Stream water is not the same with the blood of Jesus.
    It is not written anywhere in my bible that Jesus told someone to come and meet Him at the stream so He can wash his/her problems from his/her life. Be very careful and wary of people who try to take advantage of your problems and ignorance. Don't try to help Jesus. In His own time, God will show up for you. Most importantly, let the Holy Spirit guide you in ALL you do. Pray that God will open your eyes, direct your path and give you a discerning spirit.

    All the very best

  7. PLEASE DO NOT DO IT!!!! It is unbiblical. Keep up the faith, don't give up, maybe move somewhere new, things will get better. God is mindful of you, He sees, He cares. *hugs*

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  9. Pls dont go...forget if the pastor is a BIGGGG pentecostal pastor abeg...we are in the end times...God knows them that are His and the fact that you are asking our opinion is a pointer to the fact that even YOU feel its not the way to God my dear and dont go running up and down seeking salvation in the wrong places, God will answer you and please tell mummy to relax also. Sometimes the pressure from our mothers can also make us fall into error......#JoyDaNuGirl

  10. Hmm,he a Pastor right? He didn't ask for the blood of humans or animals? He said bath with a soap in a stream? Dassal??
    I would say,go ahead with it. There are biblical instances where the prophet told the sick to bath in a stream and they were cured/healed. My only Q here is: what exactly do u plan on washing away?? Do u have skin disease? Or leprosy? Or what??


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