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Underutilized Blog Reader Is At a Standstill, Needs Your Advice.





av realised that I have a unik kind of family here on this blog so plsss guys hear me out! I don'treally know where to start or how to explain it buh I do hope you guys understand when I say that I'm in dis position in my firm dat I dnt do any work most of the time and m not kinda person dah finds joy in doing nothing and getting a good pay @ d end of the month, I want to learn more, be smarter dan I used to be, read more and explore more, I need to be in a more competitive work (corporate) environment (not business cos I dnt knw how to do business) where I can be assesed by people with hot brains frm tym to tym to know if am doing well or not!!! My firm is doing well, der z money but no much thinking to do, am assisting somebody buh am even smarter dan my main, I teach and help her with her work all d tym but I need to learn from somebody too, pls how and what do I do becos I can't feel my energy anymore! PS. M not the brainy, most intelligent or too sharp kinda girl, m just average but I just love to learn and grow! I feel like am at an "attention"! T pls u can make it a post on my behalf so I cud get more suggestions! Thanks somuch.



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At an "attention" as in standstill, stagnant, experiencing inertia? (Just trying to paint a clearer picture). 

Please guys, if you're sending something that you want me to post on the blog you're doing so so that others can read it and give you feedback, right? The point is; other people are going to read what you write so please make an effort to write in proper text. I tried to edit this but it was taking too much of my time and I honestly don't have the time, energy or desire to edit someone else's write up unless I'm getting paid to do so (regardless of if it's for my blog or someone else's). So please if you're going to write buh you might as well write but, just make an effort to write all the words in proper form. Thanks a lot for your cooperation. 


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  1. Thank U T for urging posters to type correctly... I have tried to read & understand this.
    Poster U have 2 options IMHO.

    1: Expand Ur Job description on ur own by adding more necessary & unnecessary duties on U. Look for ways to assist everyone around U in the office since U need more mental work...

    2. Get another very tasking job in another company if option 1 isn't okay by U.
    #SuccessToU

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    1. Hey guys am New here nd I av come to stay lol

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    2. Thank you Ruth! It was just on the comment section, I hope you do understand that i wrote It just the way I would have when chatting with my friends. Thank you Thelma for helping me post it and thank you all for helping out, am really grateful.

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  2. Speak to Management, HR or your Direct Boss. Sir or Ma i would like to take on a new challenge, I feel like theres so much more i can do if you will entrust me to it.

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  3. @Thelma, The writer would have appreciated it if you replied her email with your comment above instead of dropping it here. I'm sure she would have edited the write up herself.

    @ Poster, I understand how you feel, we must strive everyday to be better than the previous day. The labour market is crazy out there so I won't advise you to quit just like that. You can make yourself better by reading, there is more to the internet than Bellanaija and Thelmathinks (with all due respect). While searching for a more challenging job, you can challenge yourself by READING WIDE. Volunteer to assist in projects at work that way a manager may notice and push you up the ladder or give you more taxing duties. J

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    1. If you had read T's post yesterday, you'd have seen this comment and understood that the poster sent it in as a comment so how was Thelma supposed to contact her then?

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    2. J so many people who write me write this way (although this was a comment which she asked me to post). I should reply each of them personally? You see where I wrote I don't have time/energy/desire? I really don't. It's a lot easier to put it out there so that everyone who intends to write in the future knows this. It wasn't meant as a personal affront to the poster. Some mails are written like this or worse, some I edit, some I post as sent and some are so bad I don't post at all.

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    3. Thanks T,
      @ Poster, this is the very place you might get an opportunity to be recommended, therefore, writing in such short forms makes me personally think otherwise. Such writing speaks a lot of volume about an individual and how assertive you can be.

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    4. Thank you so much Thelma Gh! It was just on the comment section, I hope you do understand that wrote It just the way I would have when chatting with my friends. Thank you Thelma for helping me post it and thank you all for helping out, am really grateful.

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  4. It's difficult to understand what you're saying when you're spelling in... is there an official name for this kind of baby/kindergarten spelling?

    Anyway, to your question, if you feel like you're at a standstill, then try and liaise with some of the other higher placed people in the organisation, and get them to start including you in little tasks. They'll train you enough to know the basics, and then you can use your initiative to go above and beyond what is expected of you, and you never know what that would lead to. It could be an issue with your direct manager if ur getting involved in other areas, so discuss it with her first. Tell her you would like to challenge yourself, and get cross-skilled in a few other areas within the organisation. Any good manager should permit you opportunities to be the best you can.

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  5. Lol... I hadn't even seen Thelma's comment on the spelling... thought it was just me

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  6. Yeah in same situation with u dear, spoke to my direct boss and she suggested I join sales or marketing but my dear I humbly rejected cos no strength doesn't lye there. Hoping to get a more tasking job elsewhere but age ain't on my side jare. Wish I read a more professional course cos I can do way way better

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  7. Yeah in same situation with u dear, spoke to my direct boss and she suggested I join sales or marketing but my dear I humbly rejected cos no strength doesn't lye there. Hoping to get a more tasking job elsewhere but age ain't on my side jare. Wish I read a more professional course cos I can do way way better

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  8. Its necessary to always get a Professional Certification, hell you don't really need the 'certification'. Go online, get a passion for something and be dedicated, trust me it won't make sense at first, but keep looking at it. I read Biochemistry but I'm into Filmmaking and it keeps me more Useful with myself. My lady friend decided to learn Graphix through Photoshop and Corel draw, any computer can do that. Or if u don't mind being a part of the Filmmaking process, u can learn Film Editing(Adobe Premier Pro) simply tru your computer and trust me Women tend to excel more in it and there's Money in it. If u would like to be challenged on any Computer related skill. I can be of help... I Bring the best out of anyone around me especially if they want to. Reach out to Thelma if you're interested.

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    1. Hi Uyi, although I am not the poster I would like to learn some computer skills considering I am currently job hunting I have time on my hands. I would like to be a pro at Excel. Do you have knowledge in this? How can I contact u?

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    2. Ask Thelma for my Email...

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  9. Dear Poster, i'll be totally honest, I felt really discombobulated while reading your write-up, had to get a colleague to re-read it to me in order for me to fully comprehend. I was going to suggest that you consider writing/blogging on topics of interest but on second thoughts......nah.

    why not have some sort of side hustle? are you passionate about anything else? perhaps even buying+re-selling? I wouldn't advise you to quit your job because like you said, its pretty good ''pay'' and that's pretty hard to come by these days. Keep your job please and use that extra time to build on a business/side hustle, whatever tickles your fancy... that's the sort of advice I would give anyone who has a job that gives them some extra free time during the day.

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  10. @Uyi, my thoughts exactly, poster use this opportunity to do some online courses and certifications you are passionate about/need, that way, you're building and investing in yourself and still taking home a good pay.A lot of people I know will die to be in your shoes ie.finding time in between work to invest in themselves, turn this lemon into lemonade ok.All the best
    HSF

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  11. It was such a struggle trying to make out the poster's story. Even after T's comment, Poster still continued with the retard speak. Maybe poster should devote some time to writing properly first.. ah well.. I'm done

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  12. You guys should take it easy and cut the poster some slack,am sure if Thelma didn't point that fact out majority of you wouldn't have noticed,now everybody is here acting like they have never made any grammatical or typographical error.I'm sure if she knew it was gonna be taken from her comment she would have taken her time and read through after typing it.
    Poster don't leave your present job.think very well and surf the web like you have been advised;surely you will get something to enhance your skills.good luck!

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    1. Thank you so much blog it up! It was jus on the comment section, I wrote it as if I was chatting with my friends, nothing more. Thank you Thelma for helping me post it and thank you all for your advice too, m really grateful.

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  13. Really! The whole house just had to comment about the writing before the poster could get it?! Some of you write worse when chatting with friends so enough already! Forming in-house editor without pay! T already made the needed correction, the rest of you should have just kept ur scholarly fingers to the central issue. @ poster, people like uyi already gave good advice, do what works for you dear.

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    1. oh pls anon shut up+get lost. its a free world!

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    2. And I guess d word anon and the + symbol qualifies for proper English writing? Blaady fool!

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  14. This English is very risky.

    For the poster you can attend free online courses on coursera.org or try out a hobby etc

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  15. Hian! Dint u hear dat she was just chatting with d family?

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  16. Ok sup with all the buzz about the write-up cos I read it without ado. Anyways poster I advice you stick to your job and hope for something better by reading wide and never stop submitting CV.

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  17. @ Uyi, I sure wiill take you up on the film making thing, I want to go into film making and photography. I'm very interested in making short films on social issues. It's been a passion, that I haven't done anything about.

    I'm very preggers (pregnant) now, but if you stay on the mainland, who knows.
    In the mean time you could give me pointers on what to start with now.

    Clare.

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    1. Awww, Pregnancy and Filmmaking though....anything is possible! You can pretty much start with the basis for now! By understanding the Art, so that your techniques would flow seamlessly. You can send me your mail through thelma and we can easily talk more on how to start. Its gonna be fun as well. I'm in the mainland as well.

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  18. Thelma you are kinda rude sha #justsaying #okbye

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