I am a 29 year old working class lady comfortable to an extent but unfortunately I have not been too lucky with relationships. I am dating a guy whom I met about 7 months ago. He is out of the country now to study for his secondary degree and also in search for greener pastures.
My issue is this, ever since my bf left the country about 2 months ago he has completely changed. The first two wks was okay but ever since he hardly even answers my calls, to chat sef na wahala, he is either complaining of the weather or he has too many school assignments. He even told me one time that he can't be calling so I volunteered to do the calling yet le boyfriend won't pick.
He told me that over there in the uk one doesn't answer calls often. Pls o I have never travelled to the uk before but I don't think it is true. He snaps at me at every given opportunity and even call me names. When he was in the country he was so loving. He has even met with my parents and he told them of his intention to marry me as soon as he comes back. When my bf was in the country he had a steady job but he felt travelling abroad would be better.
I am now of the opinion that he isn't into me as much as I am into him hence the sudden change of behaviour oh what do you think is the issue?
For christsake if he loves me the way he claimed before leaving nigeria I think two months is just way too short for him to change. Pls I need advice because am going crazy. Pls forgive me if u don't really understand my mail, my heart is jst too heavy.