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Decisions, Actions and the Future.

Good morning guys. Do you agree with this? I absolutely do! What decisions are you making, what actions are you taking today to ensure that your children are well fed? 

I really want actual responses. Some of us haven't begun thinking about the future, some of us still think that our actions today are for ourselves alone, some of us however know that it's not just about us but about those kids, whether born or unborn, and the kind of life/lifestyle we'll like them to have. If you're one of those who know; what decisions are you making towards the (bright) future of your children? 

Please enlighten us. 

And for the youngens, It's never too soon to start planning for the future. 


  1. Hmmm. Going to get a Masters next year, been saving up for it for a long time. I need to better all my chances so that my children will not ask what I was doing when other people's parents were making money.

    1. Lol @ what were you doing when other parents were making money! Sooooo true...

  2. Yep,that's y am struggling with pregnancy and school to get a second degree

  3. Furthering my education, that's what am doing

  4. Furthering my education, that's what am doing

  5. looking to get a second degree but not in this country so am saving up for that.Also,I have started engaging in different profitable businesses and my prayer is for it to start booming soonest.
    I organize trained ushers for events,I also buy and sell Aso-Ebi for brides that are too busy or do not want to stress themselves doing it.
    If you can't stock up your refrigerator because you are too busy or feeling lazy to cook just ring me up and tell me what you want after making a deposit.
    Trust me, I will make you delicious bowls of whatever you desire at an affordable price.Thank you.

  6. The only lasting legacy that I know of is good education, some great education on managing money is critical and you can't get this from schools. I invest in books to support their education in financial management and also spend time watching good programs like shark tank and dragon's den.
    I believe in hard and honest work, so I teach and demonstrate these too; I invest a lot and share investment ideas with my family.

    I also teach them to have a sense of purpose, using people they can relate with like mother Theresa, life is not really about money and chopping.

    Above all, I love to play and I do that with them too.

  7. Uhmnnn... I made a stupid and silly decision not to prepare very hard for my interview today... simply cuz I thought it was an outsourced job. only for me to find out today that it's not... I couldn't answer basic questions that should have been really easy if only I had prepared... I feel sooo bad.. like a car should just run over me, or like my dad should just flog me silly... iv never felt so dumb and out of place! ever!!! I know crying or feeling this bad won't change anything but I just can't help it...

    So yeah... I failed to plan just yesterday.. and I payed dearly for it it this morning...

    1. So sorry about this Kabouy. Good thing you've learned your lessons; please forgive yourself and move on.


    2. damn. so sorry kabuoy. Rest assured knowing you would find something better, this is an opportunity for you to go hard next time. wish you all the best.

    3. Ouch. Don't beat yourself too hard. Lesson learnt. Prepare for the other opportunities coming along.

    4. Thanks F, FNLP(my crush) and 1ne.. iv definitely learned my lesson... and iv beaten myself up very very well...
      a good cry, a nice long walk, a word of prayer... and I feel better already...
      l hope the (good) feeling lasts... thanks! **bear hugs**

  8. I am particular about my children's education right now. That's my major investment and concern. Though they are still young, I believe a good foundation matters a lot. I am already planning to enroll at least the first, in a french school come next year. I have plans to encourage her to be multi-lingual because it is important to her choice of future career (according to her natural abilities). Also, I am planning on ensuring each one of my children learns at least one vocation.

    Personally, I have plans to start a business soon. Something I can grow to a level my kids will be interested in running in due time- so help me God.


  9. 1. Education is key. I made sure I acquired as much knowledge as I could and because of that, it has opened doors for me as a previous job-seeker.

    2. Property. You cant go wrong with investing in property/real estate. its an appreciating asset. e.g jewelry, cars, clothes, bags will depreciate rapidly but property? nah. never. I wonder where I would be today if my grandparents did not invest in property back in the day, because that is exactly what paid for my masters (LLM) degree programme, so yeh I just wonder. So I have started taking steps towards investing in real estate over time. its a win-win.

  10. Trying to get a job so I can strt planning for my future properly. I've used dis period dt m jobless to learn a handwork which I'm still using to keep body n soul together. Starting ican nxt month.... Buh all in all a good job will help my future plans a lot.

  11. A sound education for my children. Teaching them values like faith, hardwork, the need to save for the future. They all have accounts and save money from their allowances. I started my cake and desserts business about 2 years ago. It has just started picking up and I want to build a business and a legacy that will outlive me, for them to continue.
    We have been making payments for our own home. That would kickstart the investment in real estate.


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