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Good morning darlings!

So I told you guys that one of us sent me some goodies last week. Among these were three beautiful pairs of shoes. It turns out the shoes were not only too small but also a bit too high for me. So I decided since it came from the blog I should give back to the blog. 

Three ladies will get a pair each. The shoes are size 39/40. If you're interested then please leave your email address in the comment section and I'll pick at random. So just to be honest with you guys I'll only pick persons who comment regularly. Also please be sure that if you're getting a pair you or a representative of yours can pick them up from the Island, Lagos, either Victoria Island or Lekki. 

Thank you!!!

And thanks once again to the giver. You rock!


  1. I want the snake skin with red heels or any other one,i'm a size 40.thank you.

  2. Nice of you to share Thelma, well done!

  3. Ohhhhh... I'm in Ghana! * Crying and rolling on the ground. I want the blue and gold strappy sandal (middle) I'm really crying #OkBye


  4. Generous Thelma, do I qualify as someone who comments regularly? *thinking*. The shoes are lovely especially the blue ones.

    Awaiting your response

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    3. No response yet. Ok ooo, just in case. Since no one is routing for the blue open toe shoe,

      Still awaiting your response

  5. Yayyyy!!! I want the snake skin one! I'm a 39! It looks balanced too.
    Maybe this is a good opportunity to make sure T gives me my sloppy kisses in person!!!

  6. I thought Thelma said leave your email addresses? My big feet won't allow me be great this morning *sad face*

    1. Hello Thelma, I'm an avid reader of your blog and I'll really love if I got the blue sandal with the strap or the snake skin one, I'm a size 40(

  7. I want all three, lol!

  8. Hello Thelma, I'm an avid reader of your blog and I'll really love if I got the blue sandal with the strap or the snake skin one, I'm a size 40(

  9. Hello Nwando,(just goes to show you how much I really want a pair of these lovelies) I'm an avid reader of your blog and I'll really love if I got the blue sandal with the strap or the snake skin one, I'm a size 40(

  10. Hello Nwando,(just goes to show you how much I really want a pair of these lovelies) I'm an avid reader of your blog and I'll really love if I got the blue sandal with the strap or the snake skin one, I'm a size 40(

  11. Hi Thelma,am a regular commenter on ur blog,I like the three but am a size 42,so buy my one oh,and am based in look for how to send too...*batslashes*that naughty house wife

  12. I am a size 39.....hope i can get shoes!....#JoyDaNuGirl

  13. Wow! These shoes are to 'die' for *lovestruck*.As I don't comment regularly, let me just exempt myself even as it's my size*sadface*

  14. God bless u Thelma. I will like either the blue in the middle or d snake sandal. Joyfully hopeful! Lol

  15. So the rest of us that size 42/43 should do what na eh Nwando? (chuckles,, I've always wanted to call you Nwando). Okay bye..

  16. Thelma I don't comment regularly but I still want one of this shoes. I'm a size 39/40. I live in Lagos, can come and pick up the shoes and my email is thanks. iyanu.

  17. Aww see them commenting now. Even if u get shoe,You are not invited to our Xmas Parry. Tongue out!

  18. lmao these comments...but T noooooooooooooooooooooo they are too high for me too... *sobs*, I don't like torturing myself in this life, I'd stick to my wedges and flats and semi heels.

    Nice seeing you today T, Thanks+*kissesssss*

    1. It was so nice seeing you too *Hugs&Kisses*

  19. hey Thelma, i am a regular reader and i do comment when this prove you are not a robot fella allows as either kemisola or annonymous... my shoe size is 40 and i will prefer either the snake skin or the blue with gold... can't wait to start rocking it sha o (

  20. Thelms, you have got a really good heart.

    Mega hugs Dalrn....

  21. Yaaaaaassss give away I'm a size 40 mbok anyone that is 40 will do bats lashes. ( merci in adv

  22. Nwando, share the shoes into parts and give each chick a piece (Ehn, i'm wocked....since my shoe size is 42).
    Make sure you share it like that o....Lol

  23. haba, see my life outside, anyways am a regular reader even though my phone refused to allow me comment regularly.... I will still try my luck *thats all*

  24. Haaa! Ojoro! size 38 ooo!!! Beht why?! My feet! Why hast thou chosen to stop at 38... why?!!!! *crying* and I asked first o!!! ***wailing*** is noh fia ooo!!! ***screaming*****

    Hehehe..... okay! i'll wait my turn! Those blue shoes tho! *breathes out* ko buru!

  25. Thelma i want the blue with wings. I will even exchange them with you for a box of 12 cupcakes. Lol. I am dead serious.

  26. Want the middle pair T, I'm size 40.

  27. So I've been a reader for a while now but I don't comment often. My sis on the other hand, does and she just jaboed that her tiny feet won't fit into those gorgeous shoes.. *gave her a piece of my mind tho*
    So my dear Thelma, I'm a perfect size 39 and those gorgeous blue shoes have been chooking my eyes since Nov 4th. So here's my email just in case u decide to forgive me *Lashes*

    1. Heheheheheheheeee!!!! You see your sef! *in opemipo's voice* Comment... mba! you won't! smh! You wie now come and be encouraging me to lie! Lmao! Like I said! I'm going to heaven!!! Soo i'm a size 38! And i'm not gonna lie that i'm a size 39/40 just so if thelma gives me the shoes(by the slightest chance) you can have them! **miley cyrus' tongue out**

      Thelma jare, she is a very passive reader! She wie just read and pass!

      Oya ibk come and bite me! Hehe!!!

  28. Really need one for my sis.......,,her bday is coming up on the 25th.,,.,.,.,,.,

  29. T,I want the blue one with the ankle strap..would really love to have something from you T..I wear a big 39/small 40 so,those shoes would fit perfectly..thanks in advance

  30. WOW Nigerian women have got large feet oh

  31. I love them all and I'm a size 39. Silent follower.

  32. Just incase this is still open Thelma my addy is
    I'd like any of the blue ones that's 39. Thankie just incase I get this lol

  33. Dear Thelma, shey u'll let us know when u've given the shoes, cos the suspense is killing me


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