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Yay!!! This picture made my day. Congrats to Simi & Dr Sid!!! 

Good morning guys. Please if you're in church remember me in your prayers. I wasn't able to make it to church this morning, family matters and all. 

Yesterday evening I was with Sasha Bone at Cold Stone when I got a call from a number I didn't have. The caller asked "Are you at Cold Stone" and I instantly panicked, for some reason my first thought was "Jesus, whose boyfriend did I snatch?" LOL. For the life of me I can't understand why I panicked and why that was my first thought. Its just... a lady who I don't know calls me and her first words are "Are you at....", so I instantly thought someone had come to confront me. 

Turns out it was a blog reader who saw me walk pass and thought I looked familiar. *Pheeew*. 

It was nice seeing you Hun. 

So guys, any plans for the day? Seriously please please remember me in your prayers today. 

Bye for now...

And congrats once again to Simi & Sidney. 

& HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO BLOG READER;  SHAMSIYYA! If I'd known sooner I would have come to Canada for a piece of the cake. God bless you sweetie. *Kisses*


  1. I didn't go too, all my dresses are too small. I need to loose weight biko, T I started following u on ig.

  2. Chei... *Touching my tummy*
    I'm so happy for them! Congrats Mr/Mrs Sidney!!!
    I've had the WORST week ever! I couldn't go out today cos I'm mentally not sound but I'll REMAIN CALM.
    Even before U asked T, U were in my morning prayers.

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    2. Ruthy I asked Thelma for ur number last week. Did she tell u? Not gotten a reply from her. How can I reach u?

    3. Subomi you can reach me on the number on 08173600406.

  3. Remember you in our prayers. I always do. Have a blessed Sunday Y'all. On my way. :-)

  4. Hian. @ Ruthy mentally not sound ke, after that long love note??? Biko that letter is/was enough to take you through every mental stress for the week #lol# Pls be strong. Its a new week... btw I didn't go to church too. I won't be able to bear all the sorry and take heart ish. I hate pity parties and I don't want to break down in church. So Tee, we r in d same non church going shoes #winks#

    1. When someone loves somebody and also In Love with another, it is enough to create an emotional Mayhem

    2. Yea, but d emotional mayhem should be for the person who is loving fruitlessly na. If my love isn't reciprocated il def be down.

  5. Hian all of you did not go to chuch, God is watching you in 32 D

  6. Happy birthday to Shamsiyya!!!Llnp
    Said a lil prayer for u all
    no plan for the day,went to church & gon be home afterwards

  7. HOTR was awesome. Communion service and the testimonies were surreal as usual...
    Sorry T,i cldnt get the stuff. Finished before me turn

  8. I did go to Church, just got back home actually and I actually prayed for you when we were asked to pray for our loved ones. @Ruthy biko be mentally okay ohh. It's well.

  9. Happy birthday shamsiya many happy returns in Jesus name.

    I didnt go either I'm mentally and physically tired from my longgggg travels, in the last 6 weeks I have taken 15 flights!!!!!! Back at work tomorrow so I need to sleep all day today!

    God fogive us all then cus it's seem we r plenty that missed church today :)

  10. How I have missed my ttb, Thelma you are in my prayers and God Almighty shall grant the desires of your heart according to his will.
    Happy Sunday y'all.

    1. And happy birthday Shamsiyya!!
      God bless you sweetie!

  11. Happy Birthday Shamsiyya! November babies rock more than Augustines. *side eyes at Sasha bone*

    1. Really? You are talking about August o?

    2. Lols Memphis. August first,others follow...*tongue out*

    3. Haha, No way oo Memphis, August first others follow indeed! Lol.

  12. HBD shasmisaya...have fun!

  13. Happy Birthday, Shamsiyya! Many blessings for you today and forever by the grace of God.

  14. Happy Birthday Shamsiyya! More blessings to You.

  15. Thank you so much guys. This made my day. I never experredit. God bless you all. ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜ Thank you T. God bless you for me and bless that wonderful heart of yours.

  16. Happy birthday Shamsiyya!!! May God bless you.


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