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"To My Ayanfe"...Tolulope Alabi Pens Beautiful Message To Her Hubby On Their 2nd Wedding Anniversary

To my Ayanfe;

When I was a little girl I always prayed to God to give me a man like my daddy as a husband because to me he was the epitome! Gentle, kind, patient, loving, a man that fears God thoroughly and can handle mummy's wahala lool and since I'm the daughter of my mother I knew I needed a special kind of man . Even as a grown up, I still said this prayer especially when u hear of crazy marriages out there. Then God went above and beyond my wildest dream and brought me you. You are a breath of fresh air, when I talk about you people seem to think I'm faking it or just trying to be a typical woman and only bring forth your good side but u r actually more than I can describe. Words fail to comprehend how grateful I am to walk this journey called life with u. I never knew it was possible for another to love so deeply, Even with all my craze, shortfalls, and plenty imperfection.When I look at u I know that prayer truly works, u must be a result of my parents prayers over me since I was 
young,  u remind me of the heart of God. I'm amazed daily at how incredibly awesome you are.

Thank u for allowing me to grow into the woman I'm still becoming.

Thank you for holding me up and praying for me even when I'm weary.

Thank you for always opening the car doors for me, this little things I don't take for granted.

Thank you for always thanking me after every meal and clearing up after ur self lool

Thank you for speaking about me so highly to your friends and family

Thank you for going out of ur way to make sure I never lack.

Thank you for encouraging me to aim higher.

Thank you for staying faithful

Thank you for loving me mostly when I don't deserve it.

With u I feel so important and so beautiful ,I love u more than mere words can allow me to express.If there is marriage in heaven I'll choose u again and again. I'm so excited to see what the coming years will bring because I know with God and with you beside me it will be an awesome journey.

Half of me is you and the other half belongs to you.

Happy anniversary My love

ps: since I didn't get breakfast in bed this morning I hope there is a romantic dinner waiting for me somewhere this evening,  especially after all this love talk hehe. Thank you in advance for my awesome present and trust me to show my appreciation ;)


Awwww. So sweet. Congrats to Tolulope & her boo. We wish you guys so many precious years ahead and a family filled with healthy babies, love, laughter and richness. Stay blessed guys. 


  1. So cute. Congrats darling Tolulope and her DH. May God bless your home.

  2. Congrats Tolulope, God bless your home always and continually let this love burn brighter

  3. Awwwwwwn... this is sooo *covers face* romantic!!! *mushy mushy* Congratulations Tolu and your SO. I love to read things like this... they give me hope that some people have love, joy and peace in their marriage despite all.... and I pray that your love would not turn sour, your joy would not turn to sorrow. you won't regret marrying your S.O. You both would be fruitful and you'll multiply in every area of your lives and your Joy shall be full!!! **hugs**

  4. Congrats... Many more years together in happiness and good health!

  5. Awww, how sweet. God bless your home

  6. There are people who enjoy marriage.

    Happy anniversary to Tolu and her darling. God bless you and help you grow old together.

  7. Cupid...ah ah. Remain some arrows for other TTBRs na. Kilode?

    You and your SO look really lovely together Tolu. Wishing you, from the very depth of my heart, more and more bliss in your lifetime. Amen :D

  8. Tolu u are a Lucky Woman, may God continue to bless ur home, the peace and the love existing in ur home shall continue in abundance by the special grace of God. HWA dear.

  9. Happy 2nd anniversary Tolu, may you continue to enjoy a blissful marriage

  10. Happy for u o. U're among the lucky few. Thank God for still answering prayers. Don't stop praying. God bless d marriage d more IJN

  11. HWA, Tolulope! Many more years of bliss in Jesus name.

  12. when dem talk say make wuna marry jew man una no go gree, say na 6 pack fine bobo wuna want.Biko Tolu enjoy many more happy years jere.chop knuckles

  13. Hehe I'm here blushing! Thanks very much guys for the kind wishes. Hubby says thanks so much as well.... Now off to get ready for my hopefully romantic dinner :)

  14. Happy Anniversary Tolulope. May your joy be eternal!

  15. Happy wedding anniversary Tolu.
    The lord will continue to bless your marriage with love, joy, peace, happiness, sound health, children and abundance.
    Have fun on your "hopefully romantic" dinner.

  16. Happy anniversary Tolulope dear!

  17. HWA Tolu, I pray the love and joy you have this day shall never cease.
    remain blessed

  18. Awwwww happy wedding anniversary Tolulope and Ayanfe. Yiu guys would celebrate more beautiful, love filled, laughter and happiness filled years together in good health and prosperity and beautiful bambitos. Mr Ayanfe, Tolu has been hinting since oh hope u can hear the hints of dinner, gifts and stuff lols.

    1. Chai! Lolz. Phransea oooooooo! Ayanfe is a pet name, means my beloved.

  19. Happy anniversary Tolu & hubby!Wish u both plenty more yrs ahead in good health with God's blessings.esu o ni ya yin o.Amen

  20. Lol@enjay, happy wedding anniversary. God bless your Union.

  21. This just makes me believe in great marriages and love and the fact that its possible to have both. Happy anniversary Tolu, wish you many many more blissful anniversaries.

  22. So Tolu na the thing wey u dey enjoy be this? May Jehovah keep ur Love evergreen. For Making Tolu this happy, U'll Live fulfilled on earth Mr Alabi...

    Yes people, there are still awesome marriages! We go find him type! God dey!

  23. Awww thanks ever so much everyone for the prayers and love. I really really appreciate my blog family, thanks T for posting this .....yes I did get my romantic dinner lool now off to show my deepest appreciation ;) hehe

    1. All these love that u and DH are sharing there is God ooo.
      Kai! Nawah 4 dz kain love.


      #continious marital bliss and blessings

  24. Wishing you guys more marital bliss.....

  25. Happy anniversary, may the rest of the journey be more peaceful and blessed.

  26. Happy wedding anniversary!!! May God bless your home.

  27. Happy anniversary. Wishing you many more happy years together.

  28. Happy annivesary...enjoy ya sef!....stinginess is allowed in this case....lolzz.....#JoyDaNuGirl

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  30. Happy anniversary maam.God bless ur home..

  31. name sake..all the best...sorry its coming in late....


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