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Only On Instagram. (Let's Talk About This Blog Party Issue).

Instagram is one place that amuses me mehn, the fakeness poshness on IG is too real. LOL. It's only on IG that I see eba looking like cheese balls or some work of art. 

Haha! Let's caption this 21st century House Wife jollof rice. 

Nothing wrong with these really. I still love my Instagram. 

Ok. The main reason behind this post is to say that in all honesty I don't know that we will have a blog party in December. I'm saying this because a number of people have been asking me about it and December is already here. 

I'm no party or event planner, I can't even plan my own birthday party to save my life. Initially I'd suggested that we all just meet up somewhere and do Karaoke or something and most of you weren't cool with that idea so... 

So here's the deal. If you guys want a blog party YOU are going to have to show some commitment, come up with ideas and be ready to be active in the planning. i.e. There might need to be a committee or something OR we could all just plan to meet up somewhere on a certain evening and everyone buys/pays for their own drinks/food. 

Someone also suggested that we could have a get together where everyone brings something for everyone; drinks, snacks, food, small chops etc (the problem with this idea is what venue will be used?).  

I don't know what you think about this... The blog reader who suggested this idea isn't even in Lagos and wouldn't be, in December ( *rme* to you). 

So we're going to carry out a vote. If you want a blog party vote YES. If you don't vote NO. It all depends on how many Yes and No we get. Now please know that if you vote YES then you should be willing to be part of a planning committee. 

So what do you guys think?

Ideas are welcome. 


  1. Thelma that's why I don't go on Instagram. It is just too fake, everybody forming like they don't shit.

  2. I vote Yes & suggest meeting up at a bar / restaurant / lounge & everyone with their bills & probably afternoon / evening on a sunday :-) just my opinion

    1. I love the creativity with the food,just makes an ordinary meal look extraordinary & inviting.

  3. If you wanna have a blog thingy, good idea would be to just meet at a bar/karaoke spot like Shaunz bar on a sunday afternoon/evening and everyone pays their bills/for their drinks. You dont need a planning commitee for that. Get together might not work cuz whose house will you use? a lot of us would not be comfy just going to anyones house. Public space is better and requires little or no planning, all you have to do is turn up or turn down.......

    1. If we do a karaoke bar,everyone present must sing (emphasis on everyone)

    2. Me thinks the bar would be too small to accommodate us, except we looking at a pretty small percentage of folks on this blog...and it's a big YES from me.

    3. Sasha it's like you know 'SOMEONE' who cannot sing to save her sorry his life..hehehehe

  4. YES Elegushi beach. Maybe on a sunday afternoon or something. Everybody come with an item (Finger food and drinks). T it would be fun

    1. Elegushi sounds fun to me, it doesn't put you in a 'BOX' if U knw wat I mean yeah?
      And Yes everyone pays for their commitment.

  5. Yes.....!!! karaoke bar!!! (that's because iv never been to one before) **big smile**

  6. I dont drink alchohol at all and I guess there must be something for my type of person....#big teeth...but still reading to the options sha..and pls Thelma I didnt get a reply for the mail I sent you yesterday....#feeling awkward....#JoyDaNuGirl

  7. I am not on Instagram.... Blog Party, I vote Ruthie Chief Planner, Tolu Alabi Adviser, FNLP Co ordinator, Anonymous as bouncers...Will come up with the rest after lunch.

    1. Lool I'm glad I have a position in the planning committee already. I vote yes but since I don't live in nigeria I hope those of us in the UK can do something too:)

    2. Noooooo oo wrongest person, you people wont just hear from me for the next 12 months, Ruthy can co-ordinate and plan. Lol @ bouncers, its not that serious

    3. Anonymous Rider you have cracked me up this afternoon lol, but I second your suggestion about the bouncers.

    4. FNLP< Obey before Complaining!

    5. lmao yall want ur parry to flop? no p

  8. Yes Thelma karaoke Shaunz bar is the perfect place. But just like Oyinlola said it might be too small depending on the number of people that want to come.

  9. Yay!!!! Blog party... im coming with Omoperosola. ..
    Thank you all for the good wishes. May all your heart desires come to pass IJN..

  10. Get together is alright but not in anyone's house biko. In btwn,am having bday fun. Happy bday to muahh.

    1. Awwwww Mabel happy birthday to you, you will have a life of unspeakable joy and every sorrow will be forgotten, i wish you the best things of life. My heart really loves you. #Nohomo

    2. Happy birthday Mabel. More grace.

  11. I would like to be @ the party but I'm in GH. I may come to Lagos in d 2nd week of December ( my first time in Naija). So if it's within the time frame, I may show up.

    1. Me too!!*crying* i wish i could come!! Hopefully blog visitors in Gh would want to hang out too??
      Drop me a mail
      *i see u all* #thatghchick :-)

    2. You are Sena right? I'm a voltarian too.

  12. I just joined this blog this week. Am I qualified for the blog party? I like the idea of a get together.

    1. Hahaha. The blog isn't a club, of course you're "qualified". Welcome Kemi Ade.

  13. I give up .. aaarrrgh
    google doesn't want my opinion on this post

    1. Bia oh, nna. Don't give up ok, try one more time. If there's a party I want you to be there.

  14. YES! Only am not in Lagos, (tears)
    But anyone in warri who wants hang out should pls holla at me we will call it TTBW crew. Lol

    1. Loooooooool TTBW crew trace yaff kee me

  15. This TTBVs are just anyhow! Kai.
    I wake up from sleep come see Chief planner near my name!
    LOL. I Kent breathe.
    Btw, I'm Voting a YES!!!
    I prefer an evening event. I don't care when or where, as long as na this lagos, I must attend...

    1. Obey before Complaining! Tongue out

    2. Obedience is better than sacrifice Ruthy.

  16. Yup Yup!!! Lets do this

  17. Yup Yup.. I'm game.
    Any day but the 5th of December (Experience) is fabulous!

    Chief Planner Ruthy, congratulations on your new appointment. Oye a m'ori o... lol

  18. Yes. Let's hook up some where. No need for committee, just a chief planner Madam Ruthie, pple will just send numbers. To u to confirm attendance.

    Anyone who cares to may briing their own freebies.

    A sunday event will be great, cos traffic on Saturdays is epic everywhere in Lagos.

  19. YES! YES! but i cant plan an event to save my future bikonu.

  20. yes to dat,hope am in lag by den sha.

  21. Yes!yes!!yes!!! Am loving dis party idea jst can't wait #rolling eyes

  22. NO. Because i won't be in Lagos at the time. :(
    Btw, Thelms, I still haven't gotten a reply to my text message,, abi i have to send an email ni?? :-/ :P

  23. Okay, this website doesn't show smiley faces... Noted.

  24. My event coordinator was wonderful! From the moment we hired her, she went so above and beyond our expectations! She's responsive and very helpful and I know that any wedding with her will go off without a hitch.

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