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Update On The Brutal Assault Caught On Nanny Cam

Reports say the assault actually happened in Uganda. The girl's name is Aneela and after her parents saw the video, Aneela's dad gave the nanny a very sound beating, almost to death. The police came for him but after he showed them the inhumane video, they took the maid away.

Emeka Francis Okonji first shared the video on Facebook and wrote this on my FB wall;

The baby is doing fine now and it happened in Uganda. The baby father beat the nanny to a pulp. She is currently in a wheel chair, and feeding through a tube. The nanny has been remanded in prison awaiting court hearing 8 Dec. This happened to friend of mine, and I did share the video. It was a hidden cam placed since the parents started noticing bruises on the baby so they decided to place a cam and observe what was happening and just on the first day they found this. The mother of the baby said anytime she is around the nanny was so nice and by the time she returns her two children look well fed and asleep.

Denis Businge who knows the parents personally, adds;

[11:18, 11/22/2014] Busta: Angela - mother to the kid. She was in Rwanda international Academy apparently....Below is her text she sent to her friend;

" the camera has always been thr. but thr was a way this gal had won my trust. nga i come home the kids a fed n sleeping smetyms. the hse is clean. n she was ki quiet n seemed innocent. it was wen id find bruises n her n on asking, she wld innocently say simanyi. maybe she fell down. then i noticed she wld never be happy o annoyed. she wld be like same all the time. i suspected something wasnt right. so i recorded last week on thur. n thats wat we saw. in one day. ibaze"

[11:18, 11/22/2014] Busta: Father put a webcam on the tv and logged in remotely. Wen he saw that he drove home beat the maid into pulp. Maid was taken to hospital and 2 hours later an NGO came with police and arrested the father. He narrated his ordeal to the police who had actually released the gal. When they saw the video, they all cried and couldn't believe. Maid was tricked back by being told that she the father has been coerced into paying her and she was re-arrested. As you know the uganda police, she received kicks and slaps

Emeka Francis Okonji also says the child is getting trauma care which is vital!

We thank God the baby survived but undergoing treatment and psychological counselling. The nanny has been daily beaten this baby and they started noticing marks on the baby body and so much fear when the baby sees the nanny so they had to get a hidden cam to observe what was happening. Really traumatizing

So what is the way forward?

Secret nanny cams are more common here in America, and also in the UAE where the use of nannies are very widespread, but maybe it's time they come into use in Nigeria and Africa if parents can afford them.

In Dubai, incidents of abuse of children as caught on nanny cams are high because some say, the nannies are often maltreated themselves, or simply a result of income gaps.

Similar to the UAE, the use of househelps in Africa is also very common, and most of these nannies are either underage and mistreated, or simply not well paid and unregulated. A lot of times, these nannies come from terribly deprived backgrounds and situations. Even when the parents and employers treat them well, it may be that they also carry out frustrations. from their home or elsewhere, on the children they are suppossed to care for.

While this is totally wrong, and against all moral and legal conscience, it is also imperative that parents take proper care in how they hire and treat their domestic servants. When you have done all you can, then you must also get a secret camera to spy on your nanny.

I'm just very glad to hear that this girl is OK!


  1. I see this beautiful child and I think of my daughter. How can someone in her right senses treat a toddler this way? I couldn't watch the video but hubby gave me details.

    Thank God the child is alright. This is one of the reasons why I'm sceptical about maids.

  2. Hmmm thank God for the precious child. if I was the mum, people will be reading the girl's obituary right about now.

  3. I don't think there is any excuse good enough to make a nanny behave this way. If you work where you are not being treated nicely, especially income wise, you can leave instead of becoming devious.

    Thank God for the baby's life. This is a great lesson to every parent.


  4. I CAN NEVER HAVE A MAID.the stories are scary.i cant imagine that this happened to my child, i will take laws in my hands and damn the consequence.
    I have two kids and presently pregnant with the third. I work 8-5 monday to friday and i have NO help and sometimes hubby assists. ITS NOT EASY but this video is a lesson to all who cant deal without househelp.Only God can save us in this wicked world.

  5. I have not been able to watch the video mind fit no carry am....the level of wickedness in people's heart is scary. These are the kind of people who will get HIV na d want to spread it. may God have mercy and help us o!....Oh and Thelma I sent you a mail please check.....#JoyDaNuGirl

  6. I couldn't watch the video either. I just can't imagine how anybody can treat a child like that.
    She should die a very very slow and painful death. Nonsense!

  7. At what encounter does a youngster ought to be can educate? (Your tyke will wind up being more prepared you know). Unavoidably, you do should trade thoughts regarding expense and esteem options. address history


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