We have been married for few yrs now without a child. The guy lives in another state while I stay in another state because of work. I tried sometime to seek posting from my place of work to his location but was disappointed within a few months because he was posted out. His job demands constant posting. The way he shields me now from his friends and family is suspicious. Most in-laws will know their son has another wife but will do everything possible to hide it from you. As for me, Any man that can hide another family from his wife for years can as well kill that woman.
I am really worried. I am getting depressed because of suspicion. He changes his phone codes at intervals. Most times when he is around, his phone will be off with the excuses that he does not want his boss to know his whereabouts as he was not on pass. So many suspicious characters. I have done my best to know if there is something hidden to no avail. I desperately need to know what is happening behind me to avoid Had-I-Known, A childless woman is worthless to in-laws.
Please has anyone had a personal experience of her husband keeping two homes?. How did you find out.
What FBI/CIA skills are available to someone in this situation? How 'fatal' is it to just ask him outright?
Anon I'm not married but the ones I know who found out when hubby was still living, hubby never came clean. It's either a strange woman showed up at the door with child(ren) or by some happenstance wifey stumbled upon the truth.