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Would You Rather...?

1. Would you rather die saving 10,000 strangers from death knowing no one would ever know it was you, or live knowing everyone would know you decided not to save 10,000 people’s lives?

2. Would you rather have your Significant Other look through all your text/chat/email history or your employer?

3. Would you rather have your body found on a pile of sex toys or a pile of drugs?

LOL. Would you rather & why?


  1. No 2 - anyone of them can look through it. Lol... It's fine... cuz iv got nothing to hide!

    No 3 - Lmao!!! Sex toys ke?! Drugs bawo?!

    No 1 - ha... 10,000 lives...

    I plead the 5th to 1 and 3! Lol..

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  3. 1. I may not give an honest answer
    2. Significant other
    3. Sex toys

  4. 1.would save the 10,000 people. if it's possible to have my camera, I would make sure I take selfies of myself saving them, or they would take the picture, anyhow sha***loool

    2.significant other abeg, my employer should not see some of those mushy text messages, he would start looking at me one kain.

    3.this one is somehow oo, but I think I would prefer drugs, at least they might think depression or frustration led to taking the drugs. If it's sex toys, trust Nigerians would not let you rest in peace with their yimus.

    1. Nana Ama please where are you from?

  5. 1. I'll live o.
    2. My SO . My boss should never know me more than my name, my work and how much he pays me.
    3. Sex toys : Hey I have a healthy sex life, that's a plus. J

  6. 1) Depends. If they're kids I'll die for them. But adults? Nah...every man for himself biko.

    2) My boss, because SO might misunderstand what she sees and give me the "Talk to the hand" attitude if I try to explain.

    3) Ihe shiri Ike o. Do men use sex toys? And I won't even be caught dead with drugs so I'll let this pass.

    Shout out to Subomi and her bundle of Joy. :D

    1. Thoughtful answers as always..abeg na warri u come from?lol

    2. Memphis our learned friend on the blog

  7. 1. I ll live O! Weda ppl find out or not!
    2. Either of dem can look, no skeletons at all
    3. Drugs

  8. Wud rather die saving 10,000 lives,at d end its not between me and anyone,its between me and God.

    2. I prefer my other half o jare,I can't condone my boss going thru my phone.

    3.Sex toys iyen naaa da..BTW,thelma,u "weeked" o, dos 2 options though...

  9. 1) Adults are difficult to die for tho. What if I give my life and he/she goes back to doing all the bad things they were doing before? That will be very sad. But if they're children, I will. There's still hope for them

    2) Anyone of them. I tell my SO everything and me and my boss are cool like that so no worries.

    3) None of the above. I'll take option C, Die in my bed at a ripe old age.

  10. lollll....Thelma u r weird.

    1. I wanna live o because I haven't fulfilled my purpose yet and naturally anyway, I don't really care what people think about me, their opinions don't pay my bills.

    2. My significant other please. Boss ke? i'll just kill myself if she ever goes through my phone, let alone see my Bob Marley screensaver. T and of course you know my boss already, so just imagine...lmao

    3. Pile of drugs please!!! haaa I cant imagine my parents living the rest of their lives thinking I'm a nympho or something, toooo embarrassing abeg I'd rather be found with cocaine,weed,etc

  11. Hmmmmm.....
    #1. I'll die without thinking twice.
    #2. Both of them. My phone is a virgin land.

    #3. Can I just die in #1? No drugs or Sex toys pls!!!

  12. 1. I won't die for any, i'll live "BIKO" in my typical Ghanaian accent.

    2. I prefer my boss, he's very open minded.

    3. Sex toys to be precise

  13. going to live significant other toys

  14. I can't type any long epistle, cos FLNP has totally said it all for my opinion. Spot On(even coma no join)

  15. No one wants to read my emails or msgs. I have the craziest convos. The saving part I will live especially if I don't know this ten thousand pple. I will rather be seen with drugs dan sex toys. Sex toys! My mum will kill me a second time.

  16. Die fire, who cares what the world thinks.
    My employer
    Sex toy.


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