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Charles Novia Needs To Stop Sounding Like An Embittered Lover!

On reading his tweets my mind immediately conjured images of him toasting Seyi Shay and the diva turning down his advances, then she wears that outfit and suddenly an opportunity for pay-back presents itself. Although I'm certain this isn't the reality, that's what it looks like when a fifty year old man chooses to bully people on social media. 
      People really need to know where to draw the line between constructive criticism and personally attacking someone's character. To call the career of a woman who works very hard to make a name for herself lame, all because of an outfit she wore is very atrocious and insensitive. 

Please who is Charles Novia again? Who died and made him judge over the success of others' careers? Oma'Shey' o! *rme* 

And it's all well and good to apologize but the damage has already been done. I hope he gives his words more thought next time. 
     And just she suggested, Charles Novia focus more on yourself. Or is waiting for celebrities to slip up so that you can publicly assassinate their characters a new career path that you're towing? I ask because this is ALL you are known for these days. Please let us know. 


  1. Lols. He's beginning to give the name "Charles" a very bad name. Btw,that dress looks very familiar...hmm! (Kim and Nori comes to mind)

  2. The dude is full of shit...always saying crap and chalking it up as 'the truth' and when there's a backlash from his comments he then feels like he's a matyr or sth. I've never agreed with any of his crappy truths. Like when he said omotola is better than genevieve..his reason? Some vague bullshit that implies genny wasn't versatile..what? Which role haven't you seen genny play..perfectly..I've ranted today..spirit of yeezus might have possessed me.

  3. I don't care what charles Novia has to say. I have a question though,scratch that many questions infact. Why do celebrities think they have to go naked once they start noticing them? Is it so their songs/talents or bodies they are showcasing? Does going naked have any impact on their songs? Or does it in any way influence people to buy their music? Someone please make me understand!

    I have heard the statement sex sells but is it applicable here in Nigeria and can someone explain what that means? What exactly does it sell,the music or the person?

    And that dress is hideous! Looking at it i think the designer was confused half-way through the making of the dress or it was made for someone else(don't ask me who). Looks like a night gown to me.


    1. Looks like a lingerie to me! Very inappropriate! I don't think he was out of line on this one tho. Infact, I think he was spot on! **sue me**

    2. I'm with you ladies on that. The outfit is annoying.

  4. The dress was inappropriate but his comment about her career was outta line...well..he has apologised so..

  5. That's a nightie!

  6. Nwando this disappearing comment thing is getting very frustrating. Anyway i'll keep commenting sha hope this one does nt disappear too. The dress is too revealing but she is in show biz and these days they show more than regular people. I think she killed the look. She has the body and I cannot see ass or breast. J

  7. I no like the dress abeg....decency no dey kill career.....#JoyDaNuGirl


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