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Darling Dee...

My darling Dee, 

I just saw your comment "Wish I could rewind 2 days ago.dint know my bro was dieing while I was dropping off a comment Tuesday morning.he was ill since sat,still went to the hospital sun & mon.i still gave him dinner mon & my mum requested I go give him my phone as he wasn't picking his & he spoke.only for my other bro to find him slumped this time tues.we tried all we could to revive him & then rushed to the hospital but it was too late.cnt believe my dear bro is gone... wish I did much more for him & the thought of seeing his body lifeless still hurts so much". 

Dee, honestly words fail me, is there really anything anyone can say to make you feel better at this moment? I doubt it. I cannot claim to know how you're feeling, or the pain, loss and confusion you may be experiencing right now, but I want you to know that our prayers are with you. Sweetheart when we lose a loved one we all wish we could have done more, but the reality is; more often than not, we couldn't have. It's never in our hands. I'm so sorry for your loss my darling, and I pray the God comforts you and your family at this trying time. Heaven must have really needed him to take him home so soon. May his precious soul rest in peace. Amen. 


  1. Am so sorry about your loss dear dee..may God give u and ur family the fortitude to bear this irreplaceable loss..

  2. Soo sorry for your loss Dee,may God give you and your family the fortitude to bear the loss,hope he's in a better place

  3. "For all souls shall taste death and clever is he who prepares for the life after death". I'm so sorry for your loss Dee. May God gv ur family the fortitude to beat d loss.


  4. Dee may God grant you and your family the grace to bear this loss. I am truly short of words. May God be your comforter in these hard times.

  5. Deepest condolences to you Dee. May God comfort you n your family as you mourn his loss. It is well.

  6. My condolences to you and your family Dee.
    May the Lord grant you the fortitude to bear this loss.
    It is well..

  7. Take heart and be strong...

  8. Dee, It is well with your family. May God give you strength to go through this period of your loss.

  9. I'm still extending my heartfelt sympathy to U & Urs Dee.
    Sorry about Ur loss dear.
    May God give U'all the fortitude to bear such great Loss. #Hugs & #PrayersForU

  10. Heartfelt condolences Dee. Take heart dearie

  11. May God strengthen you and your family and give you all the fortitude to bear this great loss. I am so sorry dee #bearhugzzzz

  12. I'm so so sorry for ur loss dee, no words can make anything better but accept my deepest condolence.

  13. So sorry Dee. Death is the one thing that is sure with life, but we have this hope in Christ that death is only a bridge to everlasting happiness.
    May God grant you the fortitude to bear the loss, the comfort to live life and the trust to know He has a good plan in all these happenings.

  14. Take heart dee,may God grant u d strength to bear this loss. The thoughts n fear of knowing I would die Some day grips me each time, God help us all to mk heaven whenever we answer your call.

  15. Thank u all for the good words & prayers.really do appreciate.we all being strong & even stronger for my aged parents as he was the 1st born. Worst part,he went on their 38th wedding anniversary day but they taking it in good faith & finding solace he's in a better place.
    A ni Fi iru e San fun ra wa oo.,Amin. (May we not pay each other back this way,Amen)

  16. Dee, i'm deeply sorry for your loss. It is well with you and your family! The Lord shall comfort you and your family and affliction shall not rise up the second time! *hugs**


  17. My heartfelt condolence Dee. May the good Lord grant you peace and His abiding presence during this difficult period.

  18. May his soul rest in peace. May the good Lord give you and your family the grace to bear those loss. J

  19. Sorry Dee. May God heal you and your family's heart. May his soul rest in peace

  20. Please accept my heartfelt condolence. May God rest his soul and comfort your family. Amen!


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