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"It's Just Sex!"

Why can't sex just be sex? Why must all these sexually transmitted diseases, demons, emotions, feelings, spirits etc etc etc get in the mix? Why do they have to use their reggae to kill our blues?

LOL. Just saw this and thought to share, not sure I understand or agree with all of it, but you might. 

Showed this to a friend and she literally yawned and said "Sex is just sex!", meaning there's really nothing attached to it and we're the ones 'deceiving' ourselves and others. Not sure if I agree either. 

In any case, I'm off to the movies. Adieus amigos!

But before I go, one question please. How do you know when you've had sex with someone with an unclean spirit that has tied with yours? (I really don't understand these things?)


  1. I don't know where and how people associate sex with spirituality. If that is really the case then our bad/good luck is riddled with exponential possibilities. We can then sympathies with people like Abraham (who slept with the slave Hagar and by so doing tied his soul to slavery), Jacob, David, uncle Solo (with 1000 women), and many others.

    1. @ Thelma I think I like dz background. Reminds me of our "Korkus"


    2. Awww, thanks T. Missed everyone too. Happy 2 be back.


  2. The write up above is about the same as the sermon that sealed the deal for me back then, visited HOTR at MUSON Center some 15 years ago (or so) and a visiting pastor preached on sex on and the spiritual implications.

    Sex is definitely beyond the physical but I am in no mood for any sermon, you must know this if you believe in the Bible. I suppose the diseases are just physical warning to get people to behave themselves, and these diseases keep getting upgraded and complex!

  3. It does ohhh biko,I have heard cases and seen people close to me experience it. The thing sex creates a soul tie,because when u have sex with a guy,some how,u become one(part of the reason yy d Bible said the man and woman becomes one).my friend linked a girl back in uni with an alhaji and she had sex with d man but didn't really date him,fast forward to three years later after service and time to get married, lady met a fine bobo and the guy said they wouldn't have sex until after marriage and truly after marriage they had sex and from that day, all that d bobo had went to zero level, after going for prayers and bla bla, the lady was told she had sex with someone who took her misfortune and anyone who has sex with her,will have things go wrong for them until she is delivered. She called my friend and told him.
    Second case,my ex neighbour started having things crumble for him after he started dating one calabar gal who had spirit husband, till date my neighbour is still struggling to stand with prayers,we are very close so he tells me things. Plenty story but I don tire to type. God would help us,because all these demon and all are written on one's face.

    1. U forgot where he also said, "its the work of the devil"....story for the gods! *yawns

  4. Sex carried blood. the holy write says, the life of the soul is in the blood and you know what that means. Everything good and bad in a person (that person's life) could be transmited, thereby urging abstenance!!!

    Ok bye.......

  5. U see, the sexual union of marriage ties two souls as one, and dt's wht happens iif a person commits fornication or adultery with another person outside of the marriage. Your soul becomes           mysteriously knit and tied to the other person also. They cleave together just as in marriage. The soul ties formed through illicit  sexual involvement can be as strong and binding as those formed through the marriage covenant. Explains why it's usu hard 4 a girl esp 2 move on 4rm a broken relationship once sex is involed. Like Wale too, I am in no mood 4 any sermon right now coz if I start with dz topic, we no go leave hear 2day hehehe..

    Bottom line is, Jes be very careful who u sleep with

  6. Thelma bikoo bring back ur old was unique. This one looks like SDK's blog.

    1. Anon you're using a phone to browse, right? Well I don't know what it looks like on your phone, I don't know what SDK's blog looks like on a phone either. But I'm using an ipad & laptop and I can assure you that it looks nothing like SDK's blog on these devices. I need to use this for now but it may not be permanent. Thanks for the feedback.

    2. Yeah, I use my phone. Okay, cool. thumbs up for ur blog rebranding..more power to ya muscles. Cheers.

    3. Yea it does look like sdk on the phone

  7. I agree with Wale and Easah, they said it all and the bottom line is abstinence till marriage. Both men n women

    1. **hugs and kisses** God bless you!


  8. I'm literally yawning!
    Sex is just sex biko. But of course I'll preach Abstinence daily....

  9. Ruthy I knew u would say this as a JW.most of them I have met give the same answer. But sex ain't just sex NNE.

  10. Enough said!

    All of you yawning and dozing off... lol! it's fine! An alcoholic does not have to believe that alcohol damages the liver before his liver is damaged. It is what it is... believe it or not! Sex is not just sex!


  11. If everything bad is transmitted through sex, why is good not also transmitted through sex? I mean like sleep with Dangote and have all his business acumen and luck transmitted to you...

    1. GOD bless you.

      Fornication/adultery is really evil, no one is disputing that, but for people to start talking about entwining destinies through unholy union is confusing. What happened to "being born again...knowing Christ and being renewed...old things are past creature..." and the other words that give a repentant sinner hope? Let's not even go there yet. I gave instances of men who had concubines in the bible. Are we than saying that GOD approves the union with concubines? Or are you trying to convince people that people like David inherited the gifts or bad luck of these women?

      Please, unholy union is evil, yes, but it's what it is, sex. Shikena.

    2. Am with u guys jare.its only when an oath is involved,I believe is otherwise

  12. Sex is just! Entwining destinies? soul ties? really? *yawn*. Your destiny is in your own hands.

    Anyway, I still preach....abstinence! less drama that way....

  13. Am not sure i agree with all that but in some cases sex can b just sex n in some it can probably b more than that

  14. Sex is not just sex! In Wiccan religions and certain ancient religions, temple sex was used to transmit traits, power, spirits from one member to another.



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