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Lol. Ok, what would you do?

Meanwhile.... Touch down Lagos! Yippee! I must confess I've been so lucky this season. A close friend of mine stays in the same city as my "friend" so everyday I was in town I went to her's during the day. Each time I was to take a cab someone would always stop and give me a ride, both coming and going. And in the last month I've taken several flights, the thought of paying an airport taxi from the Airport to home always gives me palpitations. I've not had to! It's either I meet someone on the flight or at the airport that offers to give me a ride or settle my fare (and yes, I gracefully accept and say thank you.). And right now the taxi drivers at the airport were insisting on collecting 10k, (isn't it ironic that the fare from the South or East or North even is not more than 7k, in an air-conditioned Sienna. But from Ikeja to my zones is 10k? LOL). Then comes this man who introduces himself (starts by letting me know he works with NNPC. *And so?...*) and he had it taken care of. I'm sharing this because at a time when things are far from perfect with me I'm so excited and thankful for the little things and the unexpected blessings. #testimony. Do you have any? Feel free to share. 

So... Back to the question!


  1. I. Have been praying to God for a job and although I haven't found the "dream job" - have received numerous referrals from people that have either had something I did for them in the past.

    It gives me hope that 2015 will be a great year. I just need to brush up my skills and wait for God's blessing.

    However, I'm still optimistic that I get a surprise xmas gift from someone. Chai, I need the cash.


    1. Amen to your hopes. You have no idea, I need that surprise Christmas gift more than you do. Lol. It is well, there's still enough time for surprises before the season ends.

  2. Bwahahahhhahahhahhahahahahhahahahhahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahaha let me laugh well first. Oh My God. I will just sit back up like nothing is wrong and look for an excuse to dissapear

  3. God doesnt come down to sort us out, he often uses other human beings. You have a heart of gold, keep being genuine and the best is yet to come.

  4. Testimonies? I passed my Unilag test, got the message yesterday and screamed my lungs out. Same day I was to fulfill the promise I made to God so He will help me get that admission. Something to be happy about this season after all. Isn't it ironic that that was d last discussion I had with my dad? 4 weeks later and he isn't here to hear d news. #shines teeth all the same.

    1. Congrats La Effizy. God is always faithful.

  5. Btw Tee, you didn't reply my mail na #straight face#. Oya welcome back uye. @ that pishure, hmmmmm. That amu up there can give bitter sweet sensations o, it's not for the faint hearted though. Btw this approval is not sweet o, it will reduce d number of comments o especially when you are too busy to approve comments. #sad face#

  6. More blessings will come your way when you leave everything to God,you just enjoy it n errrm for that question am sooo going to make sure I sleep at my house no matter how late that's some scary shit..not taking any chance

  7. Uhmnnn... where do I start from... God has been sooo faithful to me. My prayer requests... answered. even beyond what I expected. I'm happy, i'm at peace... i'm grateful.

    1. Thank God for you, Kabouy. You are blessed

  8. Uhmnnn... where do I start from... God has been sooo faithful to me. My prayer requests... answered. even beyond what I expected. I'm happy, i'm at peace... i'm grateful.

  9. Baba God too much,this yr has been interesting wrote an exam while 8 months preg,the exam hard ehh no be here! God gave me success I can only praise him. Now na admission am waiting on him for

  10. ThannkGod o..
    Meanwhile if i see that stuff under my table nna i'm leaving! What is this?? Is he selling it? Hian

  11. Shebi we just strtd tlkn recently nii? E nr mean say we go nackk.cos aint no way m gonna let dt into me.firstly,e go widen me na.u wnt mk dt place slack nii?we wl continue being frnds.d day e say mk we nack,na four-forty tnz

  12. Shebi we just strtd tlkn recently nii? E nr mean say we go nackk.cos aint no way m gonna let dt into me.firstly,e go widen me na.u wnt mk dt place slack nii?we wl continue being frnds.d day e say mk we nack,na four-forty tnz

  13. Kaaiiii,this one na die,I would pick whatever it is and tell him I wanna use the ladies and am thankful for life,God's favour n all,he has been faithful, very faithful, my friend in the UK who has not remembered me all this while, secretly got my account number and sent me a whooping sum of money, am so grateful because at a time I was wondering how I would celebrate Xmas, God placed my issue in his heart and am thankful for my family. Praise the lordddddddd. Hallelujah

  14. What the heck! That's some long a55 mandingo right there! Holy Lord!

    #I Reject!

    This one na sickness na, shoir...

  15. I'm thankful for life, for my family, for God's provision and guidance. I'm thankful for the blessing of love, family, and friends.
    God has been really really faithful to me and mine this year despite my plenty plenty plenty shortcomings. For this I am eternally grateful.

    As for the question, I'll calmly pick up my stuff, act normal like I didn't see anything then ask to use the restroom. I'll text one of my friends to call me in five minutes with a "touching" story. When that call comes, I'll politely excuse myself from that meeting and laugh all the way home. Then laugh some more after gisting Kabuoy cos I'm sure she'll ask if I took a picture.. LMAO

    Yes, I gave this a lot of thought :)

  16. I am super grateful to God for good health. Last Tuesday, I took one of my kids to the hospital, then I used the opportunity to complain to the doctor about a treatment I had about 6 months ago which has not really erased all the symptoms. He asked a few questions and subjected me to HIV test afterwards. I no go lie, I fear! Due to the time (9pm), I couldn't wait for the result. Need I say I had a disturbed night despite taking sleeping pills? I made all manners of vow to God just so I would have a negative result. At that moment, nothing else mattered to me....that moment made me appreciate good health more than riches or any other material thing. I had some serious conversations with my heart and came to the realization that nothing, apart from one's relationship with God, is more important than good health and sound mind. For these, I say thank you Lord. Also for the success of my grandma's burial and for the roles I played, I say thank you Lord.

    With regards the over-sized middle leg, I'd probably be curious to know if it was real. But whatever the case may be, that thing wouldn't gain an entrance into my body.


  17. Wow! Brings to my mind something that happened last week....Was trying to buy goat meat o. After all the haggling, the meat seller started cutting the meat and I noticed he had added this irritating piece of meat as well, and I'm like "Oga, wetin be that nau? he answers "na blokus, buy am na, e sweet well well". I nearly vomited on his table.....Sorry guys but this just brought that episode to my mind. I bet I'd have puked under that table.

    Meanwhile, God has been très faithful...walking into 2015 with a spring in my steps. Proud to be the daughter of the Most High.

  18. I have grown so much in the past year, achieved what I thought and been told I could not achieve. God has been tremendously faithful. Looking forward to greater achievements in the new year.
    Merry Christmas Thelma. Have a wonderful year ahead.

  19. For d pix, I ll run severally lol... Mehn, am thankful to God for jus any and everything. Maself, family and friends... Its a beautiful year. Hoping 2015 would be better!


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