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Mishmash. (Blog Readers Say...)

Blog Readers Mishmash is a compilation of two or more posts sent to me by blog readers, seeking our thoughts, opinions or advice on one matter or the other... Or just for our viewing pleasure. 


Re: Yemi Alade's Kissing Video. 
Good evening T,hope you enjoying your stay in the east?just watched Yemi Alade's "kissing" video and I feel you should do a post on it because of the two kids that gave themselves a mouth to mouth kiss,I don't know what sort of information she is trying to pass across with such video concept, the kids in the video wouldn't be beyond age six. I want you to throw it open to the mothers in the house if they would allow their kids do such in a musical video, a drama play or whatsoever for a huge amount of mone…

Re: Concerned Over Unconcerned Boyfriend. 
Dear Thelma, Please what does it mean if the person you're dating doesn't gets jealous? I'm almost 30 and bae is mid 30s so we are not children at all. We only started dating recently but something bothers me. When we're together and I get phone calls from other guys (I am not cheating) or when we are apart and I stay out till very late, maybe with friends or hanging out, he never seems to mind or care. I am mature enough to know that jealousy is not a sign of love but what does it mean when he doesn't show any disapproval at all? Last week someone called me and although it was an official call I went into the toilet to answer it, just so that I will see what he will say. When I came out he did not say anything, in fact it is as if he did not even notice. Should I be worried? At my age I don't want to waste my time with somebody that does not care. Thanks T. 

Re: Phillip Washed My Panties!!!
Today, I woke up happy and joyful, because its a saturday, my brother came to wake me up because Philip is here, philip washes my clothes, when I got to the door I told him I had only a few clothes to wash,  that he could go but he said he came only because I do wash my clothes on saturdays and he was here for me, after he said that I changed my mind and went to my wardrobe, picked the few clothes I wanted to wash and gave Philip, I went out, came back and I was still happy I greeted my roommate and then I remembered my clothes, I went to pack them in as I usually do on Saturdays, when I got to the point of getting the clothes Philip clipped every cloth, until I saw it, at this point my stomach had tumbled over, immagine what I saw, one of my pants have also been clipped, I could not believe I added my pant to what philip would wash and he washed it. On getting to the room, my room mate was sitting on a chair by the time I narrated what happened to her she was already rolling on the floor laughing at me, I expected that, but that's not my challenge, right now I don't know whether to stop giving philip my clothes to wash or should I just ignore it.


  1. OMG d philip story cracked me up ehhh. I like philip already, can I hav him come wash and iron for me? Plsssss. Cmon wr u really expecting him 2 select ur pant and wash d rest? I think he did d ryt thing by washing ur thong 2. Lmao. Beta don't fire Philip.
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  2. 1. Yemi Alade's video I noticed it too but if the parents were ok with it who am I to judge.
    2. Sounds like bae is not just that into you.
    3. Phillips na correct man. I mistakenly added my pants in the clothes for the dry cleaners one time. They packed it aside and kept it inside one black nylon till I came to collect my clothes. Dem no wash am. Lol

  3. 1. Yemi Alade's video I noticed it too but if the parents were ok with it who am I to judge.
    2. Sounds like bae is not just that into you.
    3. Phillips na correct man. I mistakenly added my pants in the clothes for the dry cleaners one time. They packed it aside and kept it inside one black nylon till I came to collect my clothes. Dem no wash am. Lol

  4. Check that guy wella, he definitely might not be into you or he could be observing you,guys can be very funny. I think you should stylishly ask him questions and hear what he says.
    Philipppp might just be one hell of a nice guy,u can keep giving him the clothes to wash but apologize to him and mk him understand that you didn't intend to add the panties,it was a mistake,I guess he would understand.

  5. I haven't seen the yemi Alades video but ill go to youtube now. As 4 your bf, DH was like that still is but he loves me silly he just doesn't know how to show emotions sometimes I just think it's a guy thing. Phillip is a cool guy, I used to have a washer man like that and mine wasn't just pant o, it was pants and bra and he washed it I never let it happen again.

  6. I had mixed feelings too on the Video.

    For the 'unjealous' BF I don't think he isn't into you. Even if he doesn't like u and u do dat toilet-call, trust me he wud react. I just feel dats just who he is, as mitchie girl had said earlier.

    Wat is wrong in philip Washing ur pants? Is it a sacrelage or wat? I'm confused! I thought he was doing his job, to me.

    1. Wat is wrong in Philip washing ur pants? Is it a sacrelage or wat? I'm confused! I thought he was doing his job, to me. Shei?
      But pants means underwear, lingerie u know

  7. #1:
    That video is just funny. But my kids ain't living that kind of life nor watching those videos.
    Some guys are like that when they are not just into U. They don't care.
    Other guys are like that too when they love u to infinity. They just trust U too much & prefer not raising dust.
    Find out which he is & calm down.
    If u are paying Phillip for the laundry, then he's a man who sure gets his job done. But since u are so uncomfortable, tell him it was an honest mistake & next time he should keep them aside.

    Have a Great week ahead U'all...

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  9. Had a washerwoman years ago.exactly Phillip's story happened but told the woman it was actually a mistake & she shouldn't ever wash if it happens again.she just smiled & said it wasn't a big deal but embarrassment no gree me

  10. Aww...eiyah..Phillip. I just hope he didn't feel embarrassed himself, when he saw the panties.
    Yes please, try and find out if he's just that way, trusts you a lot or just isn't that into you.
    Yemi's video, maybe she or the director had the primary school play song in mind? But my child isn't modelling as such biko. Also, the song sounds 16/18 rated, so if we follow that, we need not worry about influencing kids.

  11. 1.I like the indifferent about it thou
    2.There r situations where people act like they dnt care but they do,talk to him ,you myt find out why he acts that way
    3.This is sooo funny....looool... just act like it didnt happen and let business continue as usual


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