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“To the individual who scrawled the word ‘faggots” into our door:
We regret to inform you that you completely failed to use glitter paint and/or sequins, your work looked rushed, and your handwriting was positively atrocious. 
It is for these reasons that we had to remove your work from our door with sandpaper.
Fabulously yours,
The Gays in Apt. 611”
I honestly don't care if you're gay or straight, I just love happy people, people that can still be lighthearted in the face of hate and condemnation. 
I don't care much about a homosexual debate this morning but I had to share a picture that warmed my heart. 
Good morning world! May your day be filled with joy, laughter and warm hugs from the people you love.


  1. Good morning to all TTB readers andT,how's ur nite? Hope u all slept well?. Enjoy ur day everyone, had too much fun last nite that I missed out on the whole stereotyped ish.

  2. I woke up happy!!!
    Got a hug from every blood related family member & those I can confidently call "friends"...
    It's an amazing feeling to feel genuinely appreciated.
    Thanks to 2014.
    I have ur champagne chilling beloved 2015...

    1. Rutthyyyy!!!!! Season's greetings dear. You're just on laying low tins. Kilode.

    2. Awwww, Thanks T & Uyi.
      La effizy pls talk on. I like it...

    3. Ruth! You just disappeared for the holidays.. O ga o.

      Hope you saved us some chicken/turkey.

      On a Random note, That's how you guys shelved the blog party ish.. I was really looking forward to it :(

  3. Pple always blast me when I feel indifferent abt Homosexuality. I'm sorry, it is not in my authority to Hate anyone just cos if his/her sexual orientation.
    If you are a good friend but you're gay, you are still my friend. #Peace

  4. Dear Thelma, I have a problem, I think my mouth has become too sharp, and I type too many epistles which I can't even read on returning to d post #lol# maybe I ate batteries and drank fuel. Dear Kabuoy, you are such a delight on this blog... you should be tagged happy by nature. dear Ruthy, stop these disappearing acts inugo. Dear Sasha, so you served in Ekori and you didn't marry an ugep man jst next village, now we would have been inlaws #sad much# Dear Uyi, that was just an overall presentation of stereotypes I have heard, they aren't necessarily true. My brother inlaw is from Uromi in Edo, and happens to be one of my best BILS. He was actually my dad's favorite, though he is the only non Crossriverian inlaw. I hated the calabar girl stereotype too, so I feel your pain. Lol. Top of the world week to alll TTB readers... happy new year in advance.

    1. Ahploka. Lols,i heard the men love women o. (which man dont?)

      The truth is,our ancestors caused these stereotypes and it's up to the new generations to change all that "misconceptions"

  5. Good morning house! Amen! I wish you the same too and much more.

  6. Humor and Happiness go together.
    Sarcasm and happiness? Not so much...
    Being happy shld always be the only option. (afterall anti-wrinkle creams these days are becoming

    1. Haha! Most people can't always differentiate the difference between sarcasm and dry humour. This, my dear is dry humour.
      A great response to a hateful person, especially coming from the persons they deliberately tried to hurt. Only happy people can respond this way, I think.

  7. Goodmorning folks. I absolutely love their response. @ Sasha, don't spend too much, try Shea butter.

  8. Good morning to all TTB readers andT,how's ur nite? Hope u all slept well?. Enjoy ur day everyone, had too much fun last nite that I missed out on the whole stereotyped ish.


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