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So You Got Caught Cheating... What Next?

Have you ever cheated? Did you get caught? What did you do to placate your partner? How far would you go to make things up to someone you cheated on? These were the questions I asked when I stumbled the pictures of this couple on the internet. 

A Chinese woman in Hong Kong forced her boyfriend to kneel in the street and repeatedly slapped him around the face for bringing another girl back to his flat.
     She made him kneel on the pavement in full view of passers-by, and accused him of going behind her back by inviting in the other girl - who was standing next to the couple throughout the fight.

However, he insisted he had not asked the girl to come to his flat, saying: 'Listen to me first before beating me.'

Cheng then started slapping Chui across the face as he screamed, 'You're slandering me!', and urged the other girl to corroborate his story.
 The scene was filmed by an onlooker, who commented at one point: 'At least break up with her if you're not fighting back.'  Most witnesses took Chui's side, with one woman telling him: 'Stand up, ditch this ugly girl, you deserve better.'

Me thinks this dude is all types of weak. If "I'm sorry" isn't enough then take a walk biko. Male or female, no one should humiliate you this way!


  1. Well, who knows? Cheng might have earned the Black Belt and Chui is content with kneeling and taking slaps. :-)

    1. Hahaha. So true. Never underestemate d Kung Fu skills of some of these chinko girls.

    2. Why exactly was the other girl sticking around for the drama?
      If their r/ship survives this,the guy has signed his death warrant. (but I hear these Asians are very sensitive,always ready to kill themselves for whatever reason)

  2. This doesn't even make sense. I think this story is incomplete.
    Why would anybody take such abuse because of "suspected" cheating? a man for that matter. There's more to the story than just "suspected" cheating.

    Even if this is the full story, why would a man kneel down and be chopping slaps like that? You're not supposed to hit her back but you're also not expected to stay there and take the abuse? Take a walk, run away!
    If this story is true, then I'm with T on this one, that's one weak a55 man.

    In other news, am I the only one who gets depressed in the weeks leading up to her birthday? My birthday is one week away and I'm not even looking forward to it and I've been working extra hard to smile and be happy.

    I used to be very excited about my birthday but since 2012, December just became a dull month. Now, my birthday is just another day on the calendar.
    Its not like I'm old or anything, I'm in my early 20s, I just don't know what's wrong with me.

    1. Birthdays are your greatest landmark days. Depression sets in if you've not achieved most of your set-goals before the Day, since, of course, you're getting older.

    2. Sunshine, take your sister out. What's that her name again? Kabuoy abi? Yes! Take her out... go somewhere, eat and have fun. i'm sure because of you, she'll ignore her diet and eat whatever you order... pizza, ice cream... name it! just for you. Because I know she loves you. And she'll cheer you up too! Don't be depressed. Just take kabuoy out... you'll be fine!

    3. @Bloggitup Its 17th.

      @Memphis.. I think that's what it is. so many things I want to do or know I should have done.

      Dear Anonymous, why do I think you're my sister or my mum.. Any which way, I'll take this suggestion under advisement **wink**

    4. I think mempis is right, it gets to a point(age) when B'days becomes boring cos u haven't achieved your career goals.
      Atleast just working towards it gives you Joy enuff to remember ur B'day.

  3. Lol @Memphis...nobody should b treated that way,if u won't let them explain then let it b but not this

  4. Funny couple....the guy try. I trust some naija men,she for don get a black eye and enough broken

  5. This is just hilarious! I need anything to cheer me up & this did.... see confirm DV!

  6. I cheated on my man,he caught me and i'm so glad he did. Funny thing's he's the one trying to make it work now even after knowing what i did. Truth is i don't want him anymore and i don't want who i cheated on him with as well. During the course of our relationship, i always had to struggle for time,attention,love from him but right now,i've got no fighting spirit left. I have apologized for cheating and he has forgiven me but i just don't wanna go through all i did that led me to cheat on him in the first place..not like i can't/won't stay faithful,he just has his super off days and he's just too self involved for my liking. oh well..glad that's off my chest.

  7. I was cheated on by a woman I Just married 2 months ago who is 8 months pregnant.. Last year I caught her having phone sex and sending her nudes to dis guy in the uk... She cried and begged for forgiveness, Family and frnds intervened, so we patched things up and continued the relationship... 2 months ago we got married, but last week I stumbled on the fact that she reconnected wit the uk dude 1 month b4 our wedding... She confessed to him dat she has never loved anyone d way she loved him and dey both agreed to start frm where they stopped.... It was painful, cause it was then I realised our supposed marriage was over even b4 it began... Wen she gives birth ill do a DNA test to confirm paternity of the baby...

  8. Sunshine. You are birthday mate. Yippee!!! As far as I can remember I have not had anything out of the ordinary for my birthdays. We can both make this birthday different. Probably invites friends and family to dinner.

  9. Dear Anonymous with the unfaithful wife, my heart goes out to you. Talk to God about it and an older man, whom you regard, one who can give you godly counsel.

    In the mean time, I would suggest you take steps to restore your dignity and I do not mean abusing her or stooping down to the level she dropped to by being unfaithful as well.

    May God help thee, in Jesus name, Amen.

  10. I think people deserve to explain their situation. Anyway lord save the cheaters...


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