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Everything Has Been a Lie!

Hey guys, what would you do if you found out that the foundation on which you built your life was a big lie?
I got a call from a blog reader last night and she told me some things that are really disturbing to her. Her family used to attend one of those churches where the General Overseers are also "Seers", and one day a week is reserved for 'counseling', where you have a one on one session with the G.O and he tells you things that have either happened and/or are about to happen in your life.
     The blog reader was engaged two years ago and the General Overseer told her parents and her that the man in her life wasn't God's plan for her, that if they went ahead and got married their marriage was doomed to fail. She caved in to her parents' pressure, and also thinking she was doing it for their own good, she cancelled the engagement and ended the relationship. Later on she met someone else and they started dating, he later proposed and her parents in their usual fashion sent her to see Pastor. Pastor approved and said that the present boo is her husband and God has sanctioned it. Wedding plans were underway when rumours that had formerly been whispered about the church were confirmed as true and the man was found out to be a scam artist and a ritualist. 

I know the church she's talking about, Linda Ikeji carried the gist when it happened sometime last year. The Pastor in question used to be catholic but he broke away from his Catholic Church and formed his own sect, when the catholic church frowned upon his unorthodox methods. 

Back to the blog reader. Her ex whom she broke up with under advisement of a man who's now confirmed to be a scam artist is still single and still wants her back. She's engaged to someone else and wedding plans are underway. Blog reader is confused as to whether to move forward with the wedding plans or to go back to the Ex whom she never wanted to leave in the first place. 

Thoughts anyone?


  1. If she is even considering leaving her present boo, then it means she doesn't really love him. Jus as she dint luv her Ex. I just think she is confused. So she should go clear her head n pray well God ll lead her aright.

  2. And, as for the pastor... Ermm, no comments.

  3. @ sugarvie not necessarily, even if she loves him, she didn't stop loving her ex na, is it not because of the pastor she left the ex? I feel her pain sha.

  4. Been feeling down for sometime now...dunno who to talk to. ..will be 22 in some days and ive neva been in a relationship. ..whenever I like someone and maybe he likes me I stop hearing from him after sometime. ..really scared...I knw am stl young but I want to love someone and feel loved too...and I knw people will say 'love yourself first'...bliv me I love myself so much plus I dnt mean to brag but am not bad just kinda scared that I'll neva meet someone. ..maybe the problem is from me. an introvert n I can be really quiet. ..but I try to go out once in a yl... n once I get really comfortable with someone I can be a talkative.*sigh* I guess that's all for now (not really good at ending messages or letters or comments)

    1. Pray about it and next time ask the guy why he suddenly stopped talking to you

    2. Exactly! Pray hard hun, though I know some peep may not agree, it may actually not be from u but spiritual. Yes! There's d possibility dat it is. Even if u re quiet, there re still guys dat'll dote on u.

    3. Its not like guys dnt ask me out...a lot do but I just haven't seen anyone I like. ..n d ones I like I stop hearing from dem after sometime

    4. Jus hang in there and pray. Dnt go chasing after anybody. Remember to pray abt it always, u could also seek help from ur priest or pastor( if he's not fake). Goodluck

    5. Like the comments above..prayer is the key and have faith that things will turn around for ur good.

    6. Sounds like me o. I know that feeling but I don't think there's any course for alarm. For me, I built myself with values and principles in the word of God. 90 percent of the guys that come around fall below my standard and the remaining 10 percent that fits, I put them in the friend zone to build a friendship so as to know them more. A lot of them couldn't stay there so they left. It's getting to two years and there's this one guy that has been there for me as a friend and I can see the sincerity in him. I think you should just calm down and live your life. The right person will come. It's not like I'm in a relationship at the moment but I have this peace and confidence within me that the right person is out there. I'll also be turning 22 in February

  5. Hmmmmm I think this story and church,is familiar to me too but this one pass me. Only one thing I can say,go on it knees gal and talk to ur father up there and am sure things would be fine,do not rush things, take ur time as to be sure u making the right decision.

  6. OMG! Thelma dis is the most confusing story av read in a long time mehn. I think the poster should go for the guy whom her feelings for him superceeds the other... Whoa! as confused as I am, I'd say she should just make A DECISION SHE CAN LIVE WITH!

  7. @Anon 4:12. Just as Kemi said, pray about it and atymes ask them y they left (this was what I was talking about on that 'closure' post - dats BTW)
    And try to change somethings about you. Eg. U said u re an introvert, try to be lively around people, make ur presence felt.. I tink that would help. Gudluck dear

    1. Vivie changing who u re jus to be loved? Aw long ll it last kwanu? It's better she remains who she is and jus d right man ll come around some day. So imagine she becomes lively around people and ds guy gets to like her bc she's lively. Over time d guy ll find out getting her bak to square one.....leaving after sometime. So I think it's better dey like her for who she rili is.

    2. Atimes some changes are necessary, who knows?¿

  8. If she still loves her ex she shud go bak. She's obviously into ds one bc of dia G.O. Make she folo her heart abeg, instead of treading a path she'd forever regret.

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  10. If she loves her ex she should go back, have a registry event and move on. Her parents seem like the type of people that get carried away and they carry their entire household with them. She should make sure she seeks the face of God herself before making a decision.

  11. She should decide who she loves more


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