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Her Mother-In-Law Did The Unthinkable!


Guys last week I asked what you would do if you come home one day and your mother in law has given your little baby tribal marks. When I did I honestly never imagined that such a thing could happen. Well it turns out that it actually does and this mail on lailasblog just goes to show...





There is a girl that stayed with us for more than two years. She met her hubby in my area and got married, the guy is actually from Ilorin. The girl is actually from Togo. 
Anyway, after the wedding, she gave birth to a bouncing baby boy, the boy is so cute, I pratically take him out all the time *lovestruck*. 
Two years later she was pregnant again. When she was like 7 months gone, she went to her mother in law's place due to her hubby's job, which required him not being at home
all the time. Anyway, she gave birth to another baby boy... She stayed with her mother inlaw for six months, her hubby visit them once in a while. 
One fateful day, she sent her to help her get something very far away from the house. It took her like 2hrs to come back, lo and behold, she met her children crying. She initially thought the kids were hungry, you need to see her reaction wen she realised her children haven been given tribal mark. This gurl curse the woman die, she was so angry, she virtually left the kids wit her... 
People around her begged her, that in yoruba land, you don't quarrel wit the person that tribal marked your child, if not the mark will enlarge *for real o*. To make the matter worse, it's not the small mark o. It's those long 5marks across the face. VERY WICKED. 
She called her hubby, he came and carried his children, later the mother in law said she didn't tell her because she was scared she will take the children away. how pathetic. 

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I cannot believe what I just read. I am so enraged, this actually does happen? Wow!

Comments

  1. Lmao, don't even know what I'll do to this kind of Mother-In-Law cos this is not funny at all.

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  2. I don't think I'll forgive my mil if she does this to my children.

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  3. This is wicked. Why not seek the consent of the parents first? She knew they would disagree and she went on to do so. There's no solution. Those children will grow up that way.

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    1. But she would have damaged the relationship she has with their parents.

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  4. Lol...I don't even want to imagine it.

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  5. MIL is getting her own tribal mark as well. Rubbish.

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    1. Lmao but I agree oh she must get her mark too.

      A Bili

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    2. GBAM! If she already has vertical ones, i'll add horizontal ones!
      What rubbish?

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    3. Lol I was about to ask 'what if she already has' and Ruthy answered i'll add horizontal ones hehe. Nobody dare tries this with me sha, God knows I will not be responsible for my actions

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  6. Hmmm, I just can't imagine it. That woman so aint seeing those kids again.

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  7. Lol... i will poison the woman... it will be very slow poison so she will feel all the pain and agony.
    Then close to the end i will let her know say na me dey do am.. (just like Julia did in "A Voice in the Wind) Kponkwem!

    Then their papa must take them abroad for corrective surgery seeing as na im mama cut their face.

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  8. Just sad and she gave the wicked kind.

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  9. There is no surgery to correct the marks o. Look at Seal's face for example. I can't imagine it because it can't happen

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    1. Seal's are not tribal marks. It's the effect of Lupus.

      Please what kind of rule says dont get angry at the person who gave the marks?

      Na real wa!

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  10. Haaa reading this even upsets me. I can't deal with it but I must get even with her in the most emotionally draining way possible before I consider physical.

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  11. Hahahahahahahahahahahahaahaa! This is not even funny at all o! Haaa! I hope she gave her son too tribal marks so his children would not feel too left out! Lol! If not!!!! She must be a very wicked, selfish and self centered woman! Haba mama! She wie hear it o!

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  12. This happens but mostly among people who are still very traditional, but these days more few and far between. It almost happened to my husband when he was little as his mother is not yoruba and didnt speak the language. His grandma had been planning to send her somewhere and get it done for him before she came back. Luckily, a kind-hearted neighbour told her in pidgin english what she had overheard and so my MIL refused to release the hubs to her lol!!! I don't think they mean harm, its just their way of holding on to tradition and refusing to see why you guys are too 'civilised'. On a side note, I told the hubs to thank his lucky stars he wasn't marked or else him for no fit come near me o, as a fine babe concerned. Maybe that should open up another discourse. Would the marks put you off giving a guy/girl a chance as a boy/girlfriend? My father-in-law had them and he was actually quite handsome.

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    1. Are you saying that people with tribal marks are ugly?

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    2. Nope. Notice I said my father in law was very handsome. But judging from how we are as a people, seeing how put off everyone is by tribal marks, especially the Oyo state variety, looking at those who have them as 'local' if we want to be truthful to ourselves. I was simply asking as a person, would tribal marks put you off from choosing that person as your significant other? Interestingly, there have been two new movies in the Yoruba industry that addressed the stigmatization people with tribal marks face. One was titled Alade Owala and I can't remember the other. The protagonist in this one went as far as doing something very drastic just to get a chance with the ladies. What would you do?

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    3. Pls Yes!!! It'll influence my choice of a hubby. Seriously I can't deal.

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  13. Lols,Nubian Princess beat me to the Q I was gonna ask.
    Judging from this story,did her husband have his own tribal marks? Cos it wld be sheer wickedness if he doesnt...

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  14. Thelma, may this kind of thing never happen to me.

    Hell will be. Let lose o, I can't type the kind of things I'm thinking right now.

    It's obscene.

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  15. Thelma, may this kind of thing never happen to me.

    Hell will be. Let lose o, I can't type the kind of things I'm thinking right now.

    It's obscene.

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  16. Hian!!!..Some body will visit baba God that day o..and we all know who. What nonsense!! I'd rather not imagine this happening to me. I rest my case.

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  17. Chai....dia's God oo. God knows I'll neva tolerate ds, so I trust he'll keep me away from MILs like ds lest I ans a murderer.

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