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 Hello people! 

It's been a really busy day today and I honestly had no plans of posting anything for a while. Until I got a call from Sunshine and Kabuoy that absolutely made my day! Thanks girls, I appreciate that call. 

So... I promised I'll post something but after thinking and coming up short I decided to post pictures I took earlier today. I took the first at a wedding and the others with my babies. 

At Chocolate elder sister's wedding today, I ran into one of my old crushes, the type of crush that kept me up at nights, gave me sleepless nights and made me wish I could cast a love spell. And then I saw him today, all these years later and just as I always do, I asked myself what did I see in him? LOL. Don't get me wrong, he's pretty cool, but I couldn't quite figure out why I wanted to die on top his matter. 

The wedding in itself was pretty cool, very intimate, everyone sort of knew everyone so it was somewhat like a reunion. 

Tell me something remarkable about your day... And I refuse to believe it was bland, blank, empty... Something interesting must have happened, yes? What was it?

Meanwhile I'm off to bed. LOL. Goodnight world!


  1. On call at the hospital. Crazy busy. The life of a student doctor is not an easy one. Who send me message o? lol

  2. Omoperosola was baptised today... yay!!!.

    1. Congratulations to you and Omoperosola. She shall continue to grow in wisdom and favour with God and man.

  3. Wow that's wonderful at Subomi, what's a beautiful name@omoperosola.

    Glad you had a wonderful day Thelms

    My day was spent indoors, spent the earlier part of the day sleeping after getting back from a vigil, the rest was spent awake doing my thing indoors

  4. i had my nails done, spent time with a friend who sharply changed my weave and waxed my face. After having a hectic week, It was nice to just relax before busy crazy monday gets here.

  5. Day was spent at work then food shopping afterwards....was so cranky all day, everything just pissed me off :(

  6. Spent half the day sleeping off a vigil and the other half in church (group meetings).. All in all, Twas a good day :)

  7. Congrats Subomi, pls what does the baby's name mean 'Omoperosola'....
    Wasn't able to do the most Important thing that I wanted to bt, I had ma hair done and its pretty cool.

  8. The most interesting part of yesterday was talking to you and Eating boli(roasted plantain) and groundnut. I read and slept throughout yesterday. *still trying to get used to waking up at 4:30am*


  9. Was busy all tru yesterday with work. Refreshed your blog during my spare time. Was surprised you didn't post anything.

  10. Nice pic dear. That stuff happens to me too. Whenever i see my ex i ask myself why and how I got attracted to him in d first place. *i know that feeling*
    Thanks to my hubby who gave me every reason not to remember my past relationships. He's the best. Wish I met him first loong time ago. Oh well..such is life.


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