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One of those nights...


Can I be honest? I have absolutely nothing to post tonight but I need to post something, right? Wrong. I really don't NEED to, but here I am regardless, I just can't help myself. 

So it's going to be one of those nights when it takes me forever to say 'When' like in the picture above. A blog reader once told me never to let it known that I drink alcohol, and for the life of me I can't figure out why. If I can split a bottle with my parents then I don't know who it is I need to lie to or impress...

Anyhooooo, so yes, it's going to be one of those nights. I'm meant to be getting ready to attend a party right now but I'm too cowardly to attend that party. It's (how do I put it mildly?) an "adult" party and, errr, I'm just not adult enough, so I guess I'll quietly make other, less exciting plans. For now I hold tightly unto my glass of vodka and ice, till I get a lightbulb moment, or an irresistible phone call...

Meanwhile ladies, gentlemen, either married or in relationships, does you significant other have any friend(s) that when they tell you they're hanging out with you suddenly have a bitter taste in your mouth and your heart immediately begins to pound? I dunno why but something about Tunde Demuren in this picture made me think of Toolz 
(On Instagram Banky captioned these Dubai pics; "Nights you can't remember, with people you can't forget". Seeen!)
Speaking of Toolz & The Captain... It made me think of how some women get scared when their men tell them "I'm ok babe, I'm just having drinks with *Adeyemi", because you know that Adeyemi is never up to any good and when bae is with him bae is quite likely to throw caution to the wind, thanks to Adeyemi's YOLO encouragements, and then misbehave real bad. 

Does your partner have any of those friends? 

Meanwhile can someone caption this for me? Noble Igwe seems to be ............. (What's the word I'm looking for again?)

Ok. Moving on... Did I say I've got nothing to post tonight? Yes I certainly did. So, this is me saying good night (I think) and asking all you brilliant individuals for IDEAS for fun blog posts. Honestly sometimes my brain suffers from some kind of constipation. Help anyone? Ideas needed! Submissions, stories, opinion pieces would be very very welcome. 

*Kisses ALL* (emphasis on ALL, before I get accused of liking some more that others *bbm dunno smiley*). Looking forward to your comments and ideas. 

Have a splendid night ahead. 


  1. why can't tunde pop the question already?

    1. Lolzzz.... He's waiting for d rite time I guess

    2. I wonder o! And it's not like they're kids, Toolz is well into her 30s. I heard it's his younger brother's wedding they went for in Dubai, what is Tunde w8in for?

    3. Am wondering the same about toolz n Tunde, is it DAT he is scared of her size or how she would look after child birth??dunno just so much thought running through my head about them,as for the bae and friends ish,I don't know cos no bae for now but my ex never really kept friends, never drank nor smoked,neither did he party, so it was a case of me n my bae every weekend hanging out at fast foods together. Lol. I hope I don't get a bae with such friend in the nearest future.

    4. I recall an interview wt toolz where she said she didn't wanna rush into marriage bcos others were doing it..she wanted to do it at her own time. I was surprised. Anyway, whatever rocks their boat.

    5. Chinny no mind dem, na wetin dem dey take deceive people. Her biz though, not ours.

  2. Tee my bf has a friend like that. My prayer point is that they should have a serious quarel and stop talking forever. Friends like that always encourage dem to cheat on u or be gettin drunk.

  3. Hubby doesn't have any. I have prayed the future ones out of his life. He hangs out with friends but he knows his limits. And he's someone who's not easily influenced.

    About Noble Igwe, lol.....

  4. Meanwhile Thelma... what's an adult party? And yes i'm an adult! In case you were wondering! Legally that is! Lol!

  5. Hubby is the one that plies his friends with too much drinks, and then sits back to watch them unravel. He calls it his "little experiments" nutty dude.
    Noble has been tickled out of this present world, he seems to be in panet Z

  6. Meanwhile Thelma... what's an adult party? And yes i'm an adult! In case you were wondering! Legally that is! Lol!

  7. May God take away such friends from hubby abeg

  8. My hubby has friend like that. I hate it when they hang out.

  9. LOL.
    My hubby will only have friends he'll go preaching with!!!

    Noble is in another world meant for sunshine heads.
    As for Toolz & Tunde, non of my business. I get enough issues.

  10. Noble Igwe's face tho... lmao
    Whats that girl saying to him?

  11. Tunde has been know to sleep with other peoples gfs, i mean he knows their bfs. I would be worried if he was friends with my man.

    1. Wow. And he looks so cute and innocent? I'm disappointed.

    2. AnonAnon 3:45 how u take know???? Hmmmm


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