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First off, doesn't it make you wonder, that barely hours after these terrorists attacked the Charlie Hebdo office they were "taken care of", but Boko Haram has been terrorizing Nigeria for years and they only keep multiplying in number and getting more vicious?...

When I heard 2000 people were killed I never quite took it seriously, it had to be some error, or perhaps I misheard? It turns out I didn't. 2000 lives were lost, and as though that wasn't enough female suicide bombers seem to be the new trend as they blow themselves up and others around them. And while the terrorists are terrorizing, vandals are vandalizing; party offices and party buses and who knows what next? Still our leaders are mute.

17 people were killed in the Charlie Hebdo office and yesterday I watched world leaders link arms in Paris, along with millions of others, as they marched against terrorism, presenting an image of courage and unity. 

How come no one's saying anything here? How many more lives do we have to lose in Nigeria before something is done? 


  1. *sighs deeply* Speechless. Indeed, I am.

  2. There is no need 2 pray 4 Nigeria coz prayer won't solve this. We jes gotta vote out this clueless government that's playing poker with pple's lives

    #My opinion

  3. I strive not to dwell on this too much as I am sure I would not be able to function if I do.

    Unfortunately I am not voting but I am praying.At the risk of sounding like a broken record,prayers does work.

    PLEASE, if you are voting,vote wisely. Gite rightly....lets not sell our future for a morsel of meat or on the altar of tribal or religious sentiments

  4. They should hold all the religious, ethnic and wealthy northerners. They are the ones inciting these people to kill themselves. I ask the question, how come Boko Haram hasnt gone to bomb in the Delta or elsewhere? Its not about prayers, the North just wants the presidency and they keep arming these fools to kill other Northerners.

    Jonathan might not be the best president, or is an obasanjo presidency that goes in and cleans out am entire village a better approach? I am actually still wondering, because it appears that unless the North is in the presidency we will not have peace. Last i checked Nigeria isnt comprised of just the North.

  5. I'm too sad to think or write properly on this issue.
    All I know is, It's about time the world comes to its end...

  6. I cnt rap my head around it, Nigerian politicians are just about power and money n dnt care abt the pple,we just have to keep praying n hoping on God that it will stop but then again its signs of the end time I guess,I wonder y Nigeria thou

  7. Its really bad but I bet you the same Nigerians crying about Boko Haram will still go out on feb 14 to press their thumbs under the umbrella sign. The greatest mistake anyone can make is thinking BH is a political issue. It is not abouut politics but something deeper. Let's keep deceiving ourselves. The west knows how foolish we are and that's why they are not marching for anything here. We cannot stand up for ourselves but expect others to stand up for us and die on our behalf. Smh

  8. When there is a syatem where the life of a human being is equivalent with that of a chicken/rat...what you get is 'no response'...we have no value for life in Nigeria...those in power dont have that at all...and that is why when there is news that even 10 pple have been innocently killed...what we get is a statement that 'we will make sure those responsible are brought to book!'....if the so called 'book' of justice existed in our system i am sure it will still have all its pages empty as no one has been brought to it!.....its so sad....may God please help us and deliver us....we are so tolerant to a fault..#Idontirefornigeria...#feelinghurt.....#JoyDaNuGirl

  9. Please VOTE wisely, very important. I'm sick and tired of being a 'Proudly Nigerian'. Out of Pride I have to be ashamed to call GEJ my President and to think he wants to come back for another Term just speaks volume of how Rotten this Government and everyone in it has become. I Hate this...

    This is not abt South or North or East/West. I dare to say that these massacres(the number is ridiculous, 2000? Wow this is a Genocide) wouldn't have taken place if it were OBJ (damn sure), these precious souls who entered the new year with Promises and ambitions have had their Dreams Cut off by A Fucking Government's Ineptitude. I'm so pissed off, it cud have bn me or U. Thank God we are alive to Make a change. This is Democracy not Autocracy and I see everyone in this country as having the Power to make that change that we need. I don't care if Buhari has to become the President so far this Fucking ShitHead leaves that post.

  10. My vote is my POWER and I will make it count. 17 people died in paris and over 1 million people have marched to protest. 2000 people have died in Baga yet My president is going about his presidential campaign like nothing has happened. 200 and something girls are still missing and GEJ tells me he has a plan.
    I'm saddened by this event and because of that i want a president who considers the death of one Nigerian to the death of 10 Nigerians.
    God we pray for your divine intervention

  11. Unfortunately even a Buhari presidency isn't what we need, and I soooo want Jonathan to leave. It's sad that the APC brought in a candidate that also has very very little to offer.

    I don't know what to say. Honestly I'm so enraged I want to go out to the streets and do something about this.

    People are just dying like rats without dignity.

    Even the Boko Haram members captured have been released. No scape goat to show the world that we are serious about this issue.

    I weep deeply for Nigeria. It's not about prayers, it's the people that need to sit up. Faith without work is useless. We can pray from now till eon years, nothing will happen if we do not act.

    I hv been battling to get my voters card, the stress alone has made me tired of everything sef. Clare

  12. The first bomb blast saw Henry Okah arrested and is currently behind bars.
    Has anyone tried to arrest ISIS and it's members? Has the president of the country where ISIS is based arrested any ISIS member? Didn't BokoHaram start out before ISIS? Why is the US govt taking them more seriously than they are taking BH? Do they know more bout them us? Afterall they are the ones (BBC & CNN) who broke the news of the 2000 Baga casualties before our local authorities/media houses...
    If I remember,he quoted: an attack on BH is an attack on the north. That's the same tribalistic statement that resulted in the civil war (thanks to BBC)


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