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The "Mumu Button"

Please what's a Mumu button and where can it be found?

No, I think the more important question is HOW can it be found? My friend's aunty once said to me when I was having some issues with some guy; "just find his mumu button and you'll have him eating out the palm of your hands". 

On another occasion, *Ody told me he was willing to walk on his head for his Ex because she knew his mumu button and "she just knew how to press it shaaa" LOL. 

To the best of my understanding, it's that (physical or non-physical) part of a person you're dating or somehow romantically involved with that when you (stroke/press?) makes them feel so good or heady or high even, so much so that they're willing to do almost anything you ask them to, including forgive you for something wrong you did, or write you that ridiculously huge cheque. LOL. 
    There's that one thing that deeply appeals to a person's senses that when you do or say it to them they're willing to submit to your needs or demands... (This is me trying to define "mumu button" *Pheew!*)

Last night I was chatting with one of my younger cousins when she asked me how she can find some guy's mumu button... I was like "babes I have no idea!" (When did I become a repository of relationship matters to the younger generation of my family?) She retorted with "so 'babes', make it a post on your blog...".

So madam, this is a post on my blog... Can anyone make sense from or out of this? And if you can PLEASE tell us how someone's "button" can be found. Personally I would LOVE to know!

Do you have a "mumu button?"

I do ooooo, but it's so difficult to find mine. Haha!


  1. Mumu button cannot be found. To the best of my understanding, someone having your Mumu button means that they are very special to you and as such you can do anything for them or forgive them anything *most things. You don't have to do anything to have anyone's Mumu button, once your special to them, you automatically have it.

    1. Just like a little girl will have her daddy's Mumu button, yea something like that.

  2. Hmmm Thelma if u find somebody mumu button it's the best thing that can happen for you, people might even start to say that you used jazz on the person.

  3. Truth is mumu-button can be scary. The extent people wld go to please someone. It don't just happen in r/ships,it happens among girls too. Some call it sucking up. I don't think mumu-button is a physical body part. I think it's more of a feeling. A mumu-feeling...

  4. I myself, don't know my own Mumu button. Talkmore of someone else knowing mine.

    I think I don't have a 'mumu button'. I choose to switch a 'mumu button' if I WANT to, not cos of any lady's Actions or Inactions.

  5. You've rightly described a mumu button. I believe everyone does have such button.
    For someone searching for such - look out for words that you say that makes your guy feel like he's the 'only guy in the world', something that fans his ego (men oftentimes are delicate with their ego), a type of food delicacy, a sex move (advised for couples), your physical appearance and dress sense et al.
    In summary, it is easier understanding your spouse and meet those needs per time than looking for a mumu button. People change and that means their mumu buttons is often times than not subject to change.

  6. Lol @ 'mumu button'.... I think it has to do with hw special u re to someone. If someone loves u to the moon and back, its difficult for u to be wrong even when u actually do anytin wrong. Eg. When it cums to ma dad, with tears in ur eyes, all ur sins are forgiven (ah! he soo hates tears esp wen its d gals crying).
    For le boo, me. Myself and I is his 'mumu button' .... Very funny.

  7. I do have a mumu button.

    Lemme try my profiling skills on you (Thelma). Your mumu button would include -
    Nice and encouraging words, having a Godly relationship on the person's part, ability to humour you, long and engaging talks. I'd stop here.

    1. *now pointing a finger at you like a gun and saying in DJ Khaled's voice* You smart, you really really smart.


  8. Talking abt mumu butttons, sharp guys don't need 2 worry their heads coz the default mumu button of most Naija girls are lies (telling them wht they wanna hear), and meoney (spoiling them silly). Having money does most of d trick sef, coz many girls don said 2 me dt money makes them cum 4-5 times.

  9. I agree with Eziuche and Sugarvie. Someone only has my "mumu button cos u are special. To me" not because of anything special you can do

  10. Knowing someone's mumu button has to do with the relationship btwn u guys n how much u mean to the person

  11. Its close relationship and love that will help you find a person's mumu button

    A Bili


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