So, this seemingly trivial issue has become a big deal in my life.For months (and even years) on end I've heard people complain; girl: he doesn't call me enough. Guy: I don't have to call her everyday for her to know I care.
I've casually listened to both sides and I've come to the conclusion that females, the naturally more emotional ones not only want affection and attention from the man they love, they want to see it SHOWN, and one of the ways to do this is to call her at least once a day.
Guys, the more rational ones, on the other hand, have said that the fact that they're in a relationship does not mean that they must call the lady everyday, even if they love her; it's just not necessary.
My friend didn't call yesterday and this resulted in a spat. I know in his mind he's thinking you don't need to know where I am and what I'm doing at every time of the day and vice versa.
And I'm not even saying I do, but I expect to hear from you at least once a day, I feel I shouldn't even have to ask, you SHOULD want to talk to me at least once a day na. LOL.
Anyways, he says I'm overreacting. I say he doesn't care enough.
What do you say; must couples in relationships speak to each other everyday? How often do you communicate with your SO?