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I say, YES. But I hope he can also get pregnant, go into labour, have the baby, breast feed, gain baby fat and serve me home-made agidi and ofe nsala when I get back from work every evening. LOL. 

What say you?


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  1. I'm inclined to take the contrary.

    Well, for one there is dignity in labour and dignity is akin to ego which we know is a core part of a man. Working is also not solely for money purposes, one gets to network, get challenged, gain friends, contribute to something worthwile. Stopping work just for financial purposes means the husband has to lose all these benefits and often the vacuum created is filled with vices.

    Let's face the reality on ground, its almost unheard of a man being a stay at home dad when he can work, with the woman being the bread winner (not talking about when the man earns less). Such scenario exposes the family to potential ridicule which can lead to cracks in the marriage.

    Money is a key aspect in any patnership, marriage inclusive. I dare say whoever has control of it is the effective head. In this case the woman wouldn't just have control but also supply (a bit too much if I may remark).

    I might be better inclined to your stance if there's a core need for a parent to stay at home. In the current economy, it doesn't hurt to have two sources of income - 'two heads is better than one'

    Although I'm a proponent for equality in marriages, let's not be too quick to upset the balance of things especially when the status quo isn't causing anyone grievous harm.

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    1. Wa sere boda yinks!
      Gold medalist in grammatics and epistumology.

      Any oda grammar blower is a kantafit.

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    2. Gbam. Your comment reminds me of Uni days. A friend of mine usually makes an A while I get a B. I kept wondering how she asks for extra sheet to write same points I made in 2 sheets or less. Looking at your comment I will give you more marks. J

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    3. @ Bloggitup, lol. Kilode? Lol.

      @ chrisyinks, you just took over from Kabuoy. :)

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    4. Chrisiyinks, are you a lawyer? Or in a profession where you write to engage others without a gap in communication? Corporate communications or PR? May I guess you're in late 30s perhaps. I like the way you think and write. It's a pleasure to read well written English. And grammatical correct too. I hate abbreviated text. Trying to read it gives me a headache. I like Wale too.

      Mallama

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    5. I'm not a lawyer, maybe someday I might become one. Sadly, I don't write but I intend to do so soon. Last I'm not in my late 30s, actually I'm way younger.

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    6. OPE oooooo!!!!!!! Mr. Chrisynks, welcome to my former world! they wie tease you ehn! lol! you never see! lmaooo!

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  2. Stop working for what na?
    Not like he got fired from his own job or lost his sight,legs and arms in an accident.
    So because a woman earns so much,papi wee na gaaan resign and be doing what na? Its a kapira lera NO!

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  3. This was on her program today, and everyone called in to give different opinion, I as a person wouldn't buy such idea except he is ready to do the above like Thelma said, if we can swap positions like that then am cool with it@mr yinks,I need to learn grammar can u teach me for a token?*winks*.

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    1. I wish I could.

      Online articles and free educational materials can be of immense help for better writing. Personally, being in an intellectual environment and engaging in stimulating discourse has been my most rewarding recipe (and Thelma's blog has being a good source of that). Shout out to Thelma, though it might sound cliche, I really admire your writing skills

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    2. Just kidding actually but hey,thanks.

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    3. Mr Chris oooo.... she was just kidding! lmaooo! i like this Mr Chrisyinks o!!!! heheheheehehee!

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    4. Kabuoy so now that FNLP ha retired, Mr Chris is the new crush ko? Issokay

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    5. Lol. Sunshine I was going to say this same thing too. Kabuoy the unfaithful crusher. Lol. I like Chrisyinks too.

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  4. He needs to keep working. An idle mind is the devils workshop. Lmao!

    www.pynk360.com

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  5. Lol @thelma
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    Answer is No,even if the case is reverse. It preferable for both parties to have something doing incase of eventualites.

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  6. If he can do all Thelma listed above then Yes but if otherwise then Hell NO

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  7. The thought of just sitting at home will KILL some men...I dont think its the best way to go...#JoyDaNuGirl

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  8. I am a die-hard advocate of working women/wives/mothers, let alone men/fathers. I therefore see no sense in a man not working for any reason aside health.

    -F

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  9. A real and hardworking man will not agree to such..

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